Wu teacher out of a lot of books in recent years, the "experience", "attitude", "concrete life," I have bought in the first place.
Although aware of the vast majority of the content of three books, in his column has been told, but still will not hesitate to purchase. First, because, even if the same thing, it again is a good review; second, because the look of a paper book feeling really good, and books on the desk is also very interesting; the third is because, from my first second reading "the wave of the summit" Yanjuan and thinking of the moment, I have been doomed all the books and columns I will buy Wu teacher. Presumably this is the power of a fan of the economy it!
"Attitude" is the Wu teacher Letter addressed to his two daughters, including
1. philosophy 2. 3. insight into the world treat money interpersonal 4. 5. 6. Learn effective way of doing things
A total of six chapters.
Today I share with you an excerpt of the first chapter and insights "philosophy of life". Original book I will show in the following format:
I am the original I am the original
The first letter: optimistic attitude towards life more than anything else
On the child is very poor, but he said:
I've never felt unhappy or feel bad life. In fact, how much happiness and wealth does not matter much, it is more of an attitude toward life.
Perhaps indeed the case. I believe that how much happiness and wealth, and perhaps "little to do", but also depends on how people use the wealth of wealth. If the proper use of wealth, I believe it still has both a strong positive correlation.
The source of happiness of childhood, from the first family harmony. Although his childhood years living in poverty and repression, many family conflicts continue, but his parents were very harmonious. So he said:
Do not dispute in front of children, conflicts between husband and wife to be solved when the child is not present. So, I grew up on the first lesson is happy harmony to produce happiness.
Apparently so.
The author believes that he is full of happy people. In addition to having an optimistic nature, as well as the following four aspects can be done fairly:
1. continue to receive education, advancing with the times. Learning is a lifelong thing. 2. ideals and strive to achieve their aspirations. 3. To work with people, to respect each other as much as possible, mutual tolerance. In a collective, not arrogant, look down on others. Reduce conflicts, naturally easy to be happy. 4. see through life, people must eventually see through a lot of things.
I also agree that learning is a lifetime thing, first, because learning is indeed a very cost-effective thing, and second, because you have to keep learning.
With people I do not very good, and sometimes the lack of tolerance for others, met the students disagree, do not very good harmony with the gentle alternative means. To listen more to the voice of others, not self-important, of course, we can not sell ourselves short. Although the improved process is not very easy, and often forget these lessons, but in general is getting better.
Seen through the life of this thing did not say, but fortunately did not say, I do not intend to see through life.
The second letter: the source of happiness
First, share a few of my daily life, a source of happiness with you:
1. Youla Ma eating a hot pot in the hungry, the rinse Duck drinking beer. 2. playing table tennis when a pumping the ball to the opponents by surprise. 3. The family is very happy time. 4. During the study, to solve a technical bug or completed a major modules.
Of course, there are many small joy in life, but it is probably a matter listed above category.
Author mentions
Three particularly high national happiness index ------- Costa Rica, Denmark and Singapore.
The first time that I kinda unexpected things this time, three of the country to see how this is not a type. The first two countries a little socialism or even communism mean Singapore is typical of capitalism. But the authors say
But one thing is the same, is the social security system. There are no worries, you can safely pursue their own ideals.
Costa Rica is not clear, it may be agricultural exports and tourism development. Denmark seen the documentary, the capital of Copenhagen are like a big park, magnificent, was named "mankind's most livable city," well-deserved reputation. Residents living in countries such as Denmark, happiness highly understandable. Singapore, it is very fair social system, so that people can get to work hard to get the return of the people in his own right struggle, happiness is also high.
I think that China can learn from. Chinese young people should live in a society full of a sense of security and hope. More so, the more people are working hard, the economy will be better. Loss of confidence that it is, what it is to lose a sense of security, I hope less occur. For example, Hong Kong riots, Shandong vaccine incident loss of confidence, on the contrary Huawei 5G technology, Kunshan Ge event enhanced sense of security.
Owen said that the purpose of all human effort is to obtain happiness.
Yes, I have a few small ideal, the purpose of my efforts is to achieve these ideals and these ideals would bring me happiness. Since people compared to other creatures, have to create feelings of happiness and well-being of ability, I think, the pursuit of happiness is one meaning people alive.
If you do one thing this departure from the original intention, we have to look at ourselves.
Remember.
3 letters: how to have the courage of your convictions to resist the temptation
On a lot of time for his daughter to play outdoors, but it is limiting discretionary those times, such as mobile phones and play video games.
The author first describes the benefits of outdoor sports for children
Group games (including sports) can put self-interest (the winner) and combining social, but also a good way to make friends.
Yes, I myself have benefited from a sport (table tennis, summer also learned how to swim). Although the dishes are, but confrontational sports is really good with kids.
While outdoor games will give us pleasure, but the pleasure is far from the kind of pleasure of video games on your phone or tablet to direct. Whether you own an outdoor sport, or play with friends, you need to go through a long period of time, takes considerable physical effort, the body will secrete a little dopamine, can only get a little bit of pleasure. Playing video games, the kind of chemicals secreted by very quickly.
Author refutes the view: playing video games can make social stability. Omit the process of discussion, he concluded that
A truly secure society, everyone will have a vigorous spirit. We believe that tomorrow will be better, and therefore the struggle, rather than everyone doing nothing like walking corpses general. Resist the temptation (such as video game) the most fundamental way is to have a long-term goal. This goal makes sense, you are willing to make efforts. Because it is large, it takes a long time to achieve, so your focus and energy to focus on this goal, and gradually this will be the temptation to play video games lose interest.
Think, what I now have long-term goals? I seem to have some goals, but not long-term, not much.
The pursuit of a long-term goal is not an easy thing to do, the author gives an easy way
Do something rewarding, rewarding thing .
The author believes that playing video games is actually no sense of accomplishment, or even negative returns sinks (the opportunity cost of time, money, cost, etc.). And if these times are used for rewarding thing, to make their life and work skills training a lot better.
Rewarding things and things that cause addiction, injury often receive nothing in common. The reason is simple, any return can not come in vain, requires effort, and even sometimes to act against their own desires .
Words of wisdom. To see their desire not to do ostrich ostrich.
Author says a lot, all in all, this video game is a temptation, perhaps there is a greater temptation. Faced with these temptations, we need guidance.
4 letters: the good habit of a lifetime achievement
In many cases, our habit from childhood, that finally decides our fate. For example, when a child grew up in mathematics, the beginning of that content is simple, like dancing steps; anxious to finish, is written very illegible handwriting; in order to save paper, write on scratch paper and work on this dense. These started just isolated acts, but over time, to form a habit. Wait until junior high school a little bit deeper content, skip step away from time to time be wrong. Of course, 99% of people are not aware of their fundamental problem, simply by careless explained.
Read these words, I fell into deep thought, I have to say, this makes perfect sense. And I believe that all things are to explain some of the usual problems that people have different opinions because then, I like this simple idea.
There are those who are accustomed to, more effort is not learn mathematics. Over time, he began to doubt his ability and intelligence, and personality also began to change. Then, he might even give up mathematics learning in all disciplines. Then, his fate in the beginning, it was a bad way of doing things and behavioral decision.
This is a can help educate the next generation of aphorisms.
Look at a person's reaction after the slap, you will know his fate.
There are the following three reactions:
1. slapped back 2. fate, walked away 3. Behind his cool analysis, accept the lesson, seeking justice or revenge future
We always encounter a variety of problems and challenges in a lifetime experience, they are just like other people in real life or continue to slap us in the fan. Attitude and approach to deal with these slap decided our fate.
For myself, I do not go away Behind his will, I want to avoid is slapped back. From my understanding of his character's point of view, I would be so easy, I summarize this advice is: Do not get excited, be sensible. There are quick temper quick temper advantages, but also disadvantages to death.
In short, develop good habits, make good, can only "been favored by fate."
In fact, what is the fate of it. I do not think everything is God or some kind of arrangements have been made, but I believe a lot of things causal relationship is particularly strong, strong will of the people, even the random forces, are difficult to break. People should make good use of this relationship, that is, make good use of nature "destiny" of. This "attitude. Habits decide the fate of" values, I think it is good use of the "destiny" of.
September 6, 2019