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"Experience is a good school, but fools did not learn from others experience, and the experience of others can learn where very few people, because this sentence is true: We can advise, but not available conduct. "
- Benjamin Franklin
Yesterday, my wife said to me: "Leading branches in the company say that I saw did not look so good, it seems to take good care of me." She told me about this, because I have not asked her lunch break at noon . I usually would remind her not to re-taste diet or some exercise area can go to overtime. But every time she's consciousness is to be reminded of, people here do not include myself.
When working on long, she may be longer than me. So, what I feel, and I believe she will not be comfortable much better than me. I know it is impossible to work easy, so I would not encourage her for a little relaxing department or hop a low strength of the company. We can do, can only go from side to remind or his own actions as a role model to influence her, so she had to change. Ran and eggs, even Munger admit that they can not be affected by his son, let alone others.
I once complained about her. She makes me tired. Because I want her to like me to exercise, to distinguish right from wrong, to go to bed early, went to dinner on time, to look at two books, to think about quietly. I was trying to change her, now I realize why I would complain. Munger even this figure can not do things, but I go in overconfident torture yourself, lose-lose.
Whether it is family, relatives, friends, think the problem starting from the grassroots level. First of all we are all human beings, who have human rights at all. That is his wife, she should also be seen as a person first, and then is the family. If such an analysis, human rights between people is inviolable, even if the couple can not because I love you and put in charge of all the other self. Everyone is responsible for their own individual. As a family, I have an obligation to remind, but I have no right to control. I can only make their own efforts to improve and influence from the outside, I can not control each other's internal, unable to control.
So do not try to change a person. If I think, I was one of the most should go to change their people. Whether his wife or children, including myself, are just an ordinary person only. I want to learn to accept their common wife of the ordinary, ordinary child. This probability is determined.
I can be a disciplined person, but I could also asked the people around them are self up. There are social differences have now, there are only differences in power. If all the same, I think even more senseless.
"I am in my life and love of life swear, I do not live for others, and never ask others to live for me."
- Ayn Rand