"When a person is willing to be in a state, he continues to work hard in this area, and he does not give up, and he will eventually become what he wants. This is the bottom law of this world. This world respects each of us. Choices, our lives now are the result of our voluntary choices."
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Suitable for most people,
But there are also black swan incidents
Some people say, how do they change the trafficked people? This is a black swan event in our lives. Every one of us may have a black swan event. We only talk about the situation of most people. Of course, once the Black Swan incident occurs, there must be hope.
In fact, most of us are like this. Our current life is the result of our own choices. Some people say that I don’t like my current life. I want to change, but I don’t know how to change. I have made efforts, but Can't see the result for a long time.
So after a long time, I gave up action. Although I still wanted to change my mind, I didn't have the power to act. It is normal for people to have such thoughts, and most people will have such thoughts.
Normal people must think in this way, then act, and then give up. This is the reason why most people cannot be happy because their thinking model is wrong.
So what kind of thinking model will allow us to continue to act and enjoy it?
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A thinking model of continuous action,
it's actually really easy.
The reason why we have to give up is because we always compare the achievements of others with ourselves. We have been staring at the results, so when the results have not appeared and have not been achieved, the process of our implementation is very painful. When the pain accumulates to a certain level, I give up naturally.
In fact, it's not that we don't work hard, or that we don't persist. There is no problem with our ability and our perseverance. Where is the problem? Yes, we are focusing on the wrong point. What we have been focusing on is the result.
Of course results are very important. Others always use results to measure us, and we ourselves sometimes use results to measure others. But this does not mean that we should put our core focus on the result. If we do, in fact, everyone will persist in doing things painfully.
So where should we focus? Yes, everyone already knows it. It is the process itself. For example, when we write an official account, how many fans actually follow us and how much money we can make. Is that important? Writing itself is very fun.
Those results are not things that we can decide by ourselves. We will get them if we get them, and we won't get them if we don't get them. In fact, gains and losses are not important. The important thing is that in the process of writing, our own writing ability has improved, and some people will benefit from this. These are important. Writing itself is our real pleasure.
A lot of things are like this, such as running and exercising. Don’t we just go for running because we love running? In fact, most people give up because of the wrong focus. As long as it is a normal person, only do it because of the result, it is strange not to give up.
When we pay attention to the event itself, we will continue to input happiness.
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Happy to write,
Then enjoy the platform period
Life is a compound interest growth. Everyone's growth has a long plateau period. Is it only an outbreak period that makes people happy? Are all our efforts for the outbreak period? Of course not, the platform period has the fun of the platform period, and the outbreak period has the fun of the explosive period.
The fun in each period is different. We have to enjoy each period. Since the plateau period is the main theme of life, it occupies most of our time, and the outbreak period only occupies a small period of our life. So why do you have to work hard in the platform period, just for instant satisfaction during the outbreak period?
This is actually putting the cart before the horse. We can be happy because of the outbreak period and enjoy the plain fun of the plateau period. In fact, we should be happy because of the platform period. The platform period is the mainstream of our lives. Enjoying the platform period is to be able to live and understand the performance of life.
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Secular success is actually not that important.
The important thing is that we learn to live with gratitude
We can be whoever we want to be, but the result is not so important. What is important is the serious work attitude that we cultivated in the process, the responsibility to take care of family members, the ability to love others, the tenacity to deal with difficulties, and whatever Attitude of life that is joyful in all situations.
We are grateful for life, for the people we meet, and for understanding the world in the course of life. Although everyone wants success in the secular sense, success in the secular sense is not so important. Those are only superficial, and if they succeed, they will be more tempted.
It becomes more dangerous, harder to fall asleep, and loses more precious things. After the bustling, everything is vain. A person’s love has beautiful qualities, such as loyalty, humility, and caring for others wisely.
After going through the vicissitudes of life, but still believe in love, believing in goodness, and believing in a bright future, these are more precious than secular success. These are what a person should really pursue throughout his life.