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How could it not be eliminated? I paced the Internet and other civilian players how to keep up?
Ask yourself, my heart has no bottom, this world in the past century, the speed of development of fast Live each day, a year than a year. Today we are still struggling to pursue something that has become obsolete tomorrow's products; the technology is still hot this year, next year might be laughed at old, and was abandoned in the garbage heap of history. Yes, the moment the world, the garbage may have fit us.
Anxiety, anxiety is how to generate it? We've got a lot of knowledge, we have all the time in contact with something in the past have not been in contact in various platforms every day, even when we were with other workers, waiters, and even civil servants. May want to know more, understand more of the Internet. But we can not produce a sense of superiority, because the preparation, stability brought about by the natural calm contrast, the rhythm of the Internet can only be tremendous anxiety, we can not let it speed up the excellent, excellent or only temporary.
Moment very popular anxiety trafficking, trafficking of anxiety is the essence of hope to ignite emotional anxiety to stimulate our "mental imbalance" to stimulate self-balancing, high probability we'll go buy a variety of lectures or books, videos and the like thing. In an article in this, I'm not trafficking. I tried to ease my anxiety and our mood. From the perspective of our own change, to break the Internet gives us the unrest.
Know what?
Zeng
In about 200 years ago, China had a "first minister Center" Zeng ", his life can be said to Cock wire counter-attack, and not a scholar Zeng predecessors, nor an official of a man, his grandfather Zeng Yuping, a young man is a loafer.
Zeng Yuping, an ordinary farmer, a young man did not read the book, idle, much work, little money on hand loaded wide all day and hang around a bunch of Hunzi rivers and lakes. One day, he and a group of rich men in a restaurant in the city of Xiangtan children drunken singing, suddenly an old man with a grandson walked, pointing grandson had Yuping said: "You do not learn from this man, he had the old son home, you see him there was no money is still wide installed here, sooner or later, this home defeat in his hands. " The old man made the remarks in order to warn his grandson, did not expect to be heard has Yuping, who suddenly touched my heart Yuping, they have been pulled out from the dream rich moment, he was very uncomfortable. I did not expect people behind all think so! He greatly stimulated, and then resell went home.
From that day on, who has Yuping a changed man, he was "years xxxv beginning emphasis on farming," "naturally lifelong unknown sky", early hours every day, farming. This kind, that is, more than a decade. He was assertive, doing things there is confusion.
Then fate took a new turn, Yuping had not read, do not read, but he does not know reading is no way out, with well-off family property, was Yuping From his son, to Zeng, "all from the text," follow two generations for all imperial struggle, childhood reading.
Tseng's it all starts with his grandfather trigger a self-esteem, his grandfather struggled with for decades, they finally provide a universally Wizards. In Zeng who has a lot in common with his grandfather. This is also an important reason for his success.
Stubborn and hard
Every examination, Tseng, it is a painful experience.
Hard work and humiliation, expedition candidates need to carrying heavy baskets test, 23 pounds heavier. Walking one hundred twenty thirty. Examination room "house number", low, unable to stand, plaid slightly higher waist are stretched straight.
Such a test, he early experienced a total of six times, six times in the exam, every time a radical blow. In the sixth is still not in, he is doing:
He sat in his study, began to reflect, reflect on their own so many years of test experience, he wanted to find out why.
He felt, "he stupid." Indeed, Tsang family genes seem to be very general, no scholar from generation to generation. Six consecutive exam, so that Zeng painful to recognize the fact that although he is very hard, but my mind is not enough, he felt ambitious, but no talent, no way to realize their ambition.
He will give up?
No, he, like his grandfather, he did not give up. He notes, wrote: "our home grandfather taught people, drawn up just four words no weakness for the big shame, so the man self-reliance, the gas must be stubborn," the performance of cowardice in the face of difficulties, is a defeat, a person the greatest shame, shame formal With this in mind, he did not give up, but then he wrote: "the word stubborn, but not less meritorious article, who must have absorbed this word which otherwise can not become a soft Mi. thing".
He was determined to most drastic than trying harder. He said he wanted to fail completely sweep, strenuous efforts over a new leaf.
But he did not use brute force.
The power of perspective
Examiner has commented Zeng "unity and coherence," Zeng later thinking, the examiner said, "unity and coherence", why not make sense of it? Is there a solution? He put his yearly papers, diaries, books are open to more than eleven repeatedly looking for, look at yourself in the end where the worse.
His own article do with other people's articles contrast, Zeng summed up, mainly to write something too rigid, usually pay attention only rote, force behind the efforts of all in the wrong direction, his article lacks conception, no bigger picture (this is our common problem). So he set himself the next direction for the bigger picture and the article is to enhance the overall polish.
Seventh, he succeeded. A full 16 years before that, he was a self-examination, and once they wake up. This is the first time he succeeded.
His perspective has undergone a fundamental change, he is no longer a matter of perspective, but for the people. To whom, on their own. He no longer delve into the issue of the article, he delve into their problems, they already very close away from success, as long as he rightly recognized his own shortcomings, coupled with the "trying harder" spirit, afraid it can not succeed ?
There are shortcuts you
"People today still clever," which is the word of two hundred years ago, are still common. The more clever things, the less effortlessly, more short cuts, of course, the better. Now most people learn things, all the pursuit of high efficiency, even what means are to spend. However, this is not Zeng also, he said, "the world matter to humble, able to win the world matter clever." I very much agree with this philosophy of life, I think it's worth the charm of each of us to learn.
What is "the world matter to humble"?
Others chase the new framework, you learn a little bit bottom.
Others continue to pursue new designs, new ideas. You focus on laying the foundation, you focus on composition color painting.
Others pursue new product form, you continue to hone his logical thinking and interactive capabilities.
I think this is to humble, do not cut corners, is humble, humble but ultimately the real shortcut, pay attention to "the natural water drainage into." When you polish their sharp enough to catch up with instant shortcuts. Others can not match took to the road.
This is "the world matter to humble, able to win the world matter clever" Why can win the truth.
In this age of the Internet, the Internet among people, I think it is essential, I think it can decide the fate.
Self-management
Indispensable, with the goal, with the idea of the inevitable need for self-management.
Zeng from the age of eight, his father taught him personally, to teach non-stop from morning to night. I do not understand it repeatedly taught, over and over again to speak. Walking on the road to speak, eat speaking, sleep also speak. Until know we have to give up. This method of learning to Zeng laid a foundation, the foundation is now commonplace "self-discipline."
The most terrible discipline, self-discipline who knows more and more terrible, people have good self-discipline method will succeed.
We estimate listen to the ear off, straightforward truth here is correct, a successful self-regulation is an essential thing. Zeng is how to do it?
Tang Jian Zeng ask how self-management. Tang Jian told him: "The key is to write a daily diary, which is the foundation." Zeng initially did not understand, because he wrote a diary before, and did not find the diary so important. Later, he found that his diary approach is wrong. Fundamental diary that "I three times daily," the role of the diary is that planning and programming.
Diary of the most important role is to reflect on their own! And make a plan!
How to reflect on their own is a need to focus on the topic, we need to take critical thinking to their words and deeds, we are always doing is not good enough; we always mess things up without knowing it. We need to self-censorship.
Planning is also an important issue. We talked back.
Figure - Zeng, a classic counter-attack Cock wire
Wang Yangming
Mind, there is a school of magic, Ming countless people struggle for life, not so much for the Mind struggle, as it is self-made, heart-centered struggle. My heart's own bright month, eternal reunion never missing. Mountains and rivers hold pure, delightful Why Mid-Autumn Festival, my heart a bright moon, it has been ages since the reunion, never regret. This is surrounded by mountains and rivers clear and bright shining ornamental heart of the Mid-Autumn Moon why wait?
Mr. You Southtown, a finger friends rock blooms, asked: 'outside world unintentional thing, so open since the fall from trees and flowers in the mountains, in my heart Yi He shut? 'Mr replied:' You did not see when this flower, this flower with Curative together under silence; when you look at this flower, this flower color sometimes understand them, glance Flower is in Your Heart "(ibid.," Wang Wencheng public book " Volume III)
"Cardiff Everything Theory of Everything But in my heart", "heart out is justice." "Italy is the pro-business, pro is something that is one thing; meaning that moving thing to listen to the words, listen to the words that matter, a move that is certain to say was so careless outside the reason, unintentional outside thing." On ( "a teaching record." ), "and as a parent thing, not to seek a filial father rationale; Shijun, not to pray for the king on the loyalty of management; friends rule the people, not to seek a friendly letter with the people on the benevolence of management only. in the heart, the heart is Li "(" a teaching record "). "Heart" is not only the supreme master of all things, is the most common ethical principles.
This time philosophy, both at a point of view, my heart, therefore I am, I am me, "when you have not seen this flower, the flower with the Curative attributed to silence," you do not see this flower, it will not spend with your heart existence, when "when you look at this flower, this flower color sometimes understand them, glance flower is in your heart," you see this flower, this flower will not live out your heart.
Mind, I pay attention to this, pay attention to the original mind.
Fulfill their duties, apply what they learn
知行合一，王阳明说“知先行后”，他说：心虽然在你身上，但其实蕴含天下的道理，道理虽然在万事万物中间，但都在于你的一人之心。求理与自己的内心，便是知行合一。“知行如何分得开？” 今天的人做学问，只因为知行是两件事情，所以有一个念头虽然可能是不好的，但是因为知行不一，不去制止自己，就会破坏本心，使事务向相反的方向发展。
“我今说个知行合一，正要人晓得一念发动处，便即是行了。发动处有不善，就将这不善的念克倒了，须要彻根彻底，不使一念不善潜伏在胸中，此是我立言宗旨” 王阳明说。
知行合一，就是要让人排除杂念，跟随自己的本心，排除不好的念头，坚定的为了理想，为了心中的抱负和信念奋斗。
你读书，是为了挣钱，你本心呢？读书真的是为了金钱吗？ 要不是房贷车贷娶老婆，你会读这个书吗？如果你的目的是挣钱，你的心是挣钱，那么你不应该看这篇文。
你的心该是进取，是想要冲破社会的牢笼，想跟随自己的本心，实现自己的梦想。或者说你的梦想是挣钱。 这跟你带着挣钱的目的看书，是不一样的。
这句话有点奇怪，你的梦想是挣钱。 这跟你带着挣钱的目的看书，是不一样的。
挣钱不是目的。 挣钱是结果 挣钱的原因不是因为房贷车贷娶老婆，而是你梦想是富有。这中间的区别你能悟出来吗？ 房贷车贷娶老婆真的是你的本心吗？
再说说恪尽职守。
恪尽职守的前提是你有一个心中的念想，你希望做好这份工作。你就应该跟随自己的内心，努力钻研如何做好这份工作，即使可能期限不长。这一点做到是很难的！ 什么是坚持本心，不为外物扰动，不为诱惑低头，坚持本心，坚持自我，这才是心的真谛。你要相信自己的内心。
自信的力量
任何一件事情，只要你相信你一定能成功，那么你就很有可能成功。如果你有与自信相匹配的能力，那么你99%能成功。你足够自信，又懂得提升自己的能力，始终跟随自己的心。你就能做到别人做不到的事情。
最近读心理学，有一个效应叫自我认同
自我认同是能够理智地看待并且接受自己以及外界，能够精力充沛，热爱生活，不会沉浸在悲叹、抱怨或悔恨之中，而且奋发向上，积极而独立，有明确的人生目标，并且在追求和逐渐接近目标的过程中会体验到自我价值以及社会的承认与赞许。既从这种认同感中巩固自信与自尊，同时又不会一味地屈从于社会与他人的舆论。自己对自己所思所做的一种认可感。自我认同包含自我了解和自我实现两部分。
自我认同应该与自我内心走到一起，成为我们学习重要的一个环节。
自我效能感也是一样，当我们有较高的自我效能感的时候，我们就会预期自己一定会成功，从而更加努力的去尝试，坚持的时间就会更长。
这段自我效能记下来，它是后面提到的，自我规划的重要的一个环节，即如何提升自我效能感。
我们
谈到了两位名人，我们可能会有一些时代感。是啊，他们都已经是历史，人物形象光辉璀璨，一切都看起来那么的远，那么的摸不到看不见。我们必须回到我们自身，探讨从人物身上学到的东西，凝结成我们自己的“知”，然后影响我们自己的心，最终达成目标。
反省，批判，规划与影响
规划的第一重点，反省。
吾日三省吾身，这是一种意识。一种贵重的品格意识, 成功由此而起。不过这需要莫大的勇气与智慧。
自我批评很容易带有自我色彩，例如今天下午计划读某某书籍，但因为xx看起来正当的理由，没有去做。这时候你会怎么样反省自己呢？ 大多数人都会认为这很正常吧！相反，这恰恰是需要反省的，因为有太多太多的理所当然，让我们忽略了今天必须读书这一个具体的规划，让我们偏离了道路，这是最应该反省自查的。
自我偏见是可怕的，这与自信有一定的区别，要记住，自信是相信自己能行，而不是相信自己是对的！！！ 这句话无比重要。
反省的要点，批判自我
你首先要怀疑自己是错的，才能正确的批判自己的行为！正是因为你相信自己能成功，要成功。所以你要能够认清事情的本质，能够坚持本心的情况下批判自我，反省的要点就在于此，科学正确的批判自我是一切规划发展的前提和要素。
自我成长一旦偏离，那么你就只能祈祷你的一生中可以出现各种能够批判你的导师了。但导师的教导往往也是你需要有自我错误意识的。否则无从谈起。
有了批判，才有正确，才能确信正确，才能自信能够成功，最终才能成功。
当拥有反省和批判自我精神，规划的力量就开始显现
当你具备了批判精神，那么你应该做一套详细的规划，规划自己的时间空间大事小事，规划自己的一切。我们算一笔最糟糕的账。
你现在 996，觉得自己根本没时间学习，那么我们看：
1、早上七点半起床 。八点到公司，那么你会多1个小时的时间。 再狠一点，七点起床，七点半到公司。
2、12点到1点半，休息时间，半小时休息，半小时吃饭，另外半个小时干嘛呢？ 看几页文章不好吗？
3、九点下班，主动延迟到十点，差距不大，多一个小时。
4、周日，早10-12点，晚8-10点，4个小时。
算下来你一周能有多少学习时间呢 2 * 6 + 4 = 18个小时。 你可能会说18个小时能做什么？
我们乘以一年来算，一年五十二周，约900个小时！
你996的情况下依然能有900个小时！
而且你真的高负荷了吗？
七点半起床，不过提前半个小时，十点下班，不过少玩两局王者荣耀。
另外，工作时间就不能学习了吗？ 你996将7-9点划为学习时间，很难么？
让我们来看看一周规划的力量。我现在想读一本书《曾国藩传》，多久能读完。
这本书277页，共十章。每章20页左右。
现在我们试一试，现在规定每天早到一小时，读15页。 每天中午半小时，读10页。每天下班读一小时，15页。 （15页什么概念，这种传记型的一般一个小时看五十页没有问题，但是我们追求质量，力求看懂），那么这本书你需要 277 / 35 约等于 8，你需要正常工作日8天，再加上总结，读后感和复习，两周一本300页的书籍，这没算上周日，意味着你周日可以随意玩耍。
这个节奏你每年能读多少？ 高质量的25本书。
说不定在这25本书读完以后，境界有所提升，有一份更好的工作，你995，周六就足足多了8h。
这一切的前提，是你需要有批判思维，要懂得批判自己。指引自己。激励自己。
自我效能感，自我成就，规划的节点
算了一笔流水账，我们可能觉得有点搞笑，“又是一笔烂鸡汤”。 是的，这碗鸡汤已经无数人熬过了，无数人尝了一口觉得太苦，丢弃了。
我还要给大家一个买糖的地方，抵消苦味。
那就是 自我效能感，让我们再回顾前面的一段
当我们有较高的自我效能感的时候，我们就会预期自己一定会成功，从而更加努力的去尝试，坚持的时间就会更长。
我抓住了一个要点，那就是自我效能是与目标达成和正向反馈有着必然的关系的！ 这揭示了一个简单朴实的道理，规划不要太长，台阶不要太高，你的目标应该跟随内心，一个接一个，一环扣一环。成就感妙不可言。
就像是楼梯，楼梯有转角，你知道楼层在哪，你也知道要走多少路。但是你必然会发现，越往上，努力的心越大，“到5楼了，6楼不远了”，---你还不明白吗，跟走楼梯一个道理，自己规划的任务应该有节点，有短期目标，有长期理想，一个一个的突破。你会越来越顺手。就像一个高效的组织，定期反省，定期review
自己的原则
接着谈到原则，人要有原则。
心学，万物唯心。前提是要有原则。坚持自我，以拙胜巧，靠什么坚持？如何保证不走弯路？ 也是原则。
✔你要什么。 ✔事实是什么。 ✔如何行动。 ✔明确长期目标。 ✔反省阻碍目标的问题，不容忍问题。 ✔诊断和寻找问题根源。 ✔规划解决问题的方案。 ✔严格执行方案，达成目标。
知道并且做到，我想这就是成就的秘诀，这就叫「原则」。
原则就是，你要什么 不要变。
成功的定义和道理
究竟什么才是成功，很难界定。 我可以界定的是，你遵循你既有原则达成目标就是成功。
成功往往伴随很多副产品，比如金钱、比如知识、比如各种各样的外在改变。这是成功的果实。
成功的过程就是成功本身。 成功的定义绝不仅仅是获得的各种收获，而是包括了成功的过程与成功的结果，也就是开花和结果都是成功的一部分，花开的好，但是没有果子，算成功吗？ 我认为算。人生就是这样，有时有些人绽放一时，光辉流芳，但自身不暇。
但终归还是源自本心的成功，才是真正的成功。
延续
怎么样才能不被淘汰？互联网节奏我等平民玩家如何跟得上？
回到最初的问题，现在我可以回答我们了。
我希望我能学习曾国藩，以拙，以刻苦坚持为基础。
我希望我能严于律己，我希望我能坚持本心，知行合一。
我希望我能在我的理性的前提下，完成一个又一个的自我规划任务。
我更希望每一个任务能够带给我更好的理解，更好的未来。
同时我会带着批判自我的思路，相信我能行的态度，来不断的完善自己
最后我希望成功是我自己想要的
这样我永远不会被时代淘汰，这样不论是互联网，尖端领域，甚至是动荡的时代。 我觉得我都足以立身人世，足以笑傲江湖了。
完。
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