Every writer, mostly personal experience and experience, and summed up the self-insight. When we are confused, reading, other people can see the way to solve the problem, of course, we should be rational analysis of their views and insights, it is what will help you enhance and problem solving.
Sometimes you may come across a new thing, new issues, will go to consult friends, ask their opinions and views,
This time two types of people: those who have their own views and opinions, do not know how to make decisions; the other person is completely unaware of how to deal with.
The former: In fact, they have their own certain ideas, but fear of doing wrong decision, they will bring their own ideas, to consult the people around, as long as someone says in his inner thoughts, he had the answer.
The latter: Since the initial contact in the new field, they do not know what the future is like, this time the experience of someone who needs to be collected to make up for some of their missing.
Whether you're either case, you should consult someone does give you an answer that may mislead your judgment, you can collect the views of others, they must make their own decisions