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Newborn baby who had just arrived
We can only rely on parents to take care of them
However, for the first time when my parents inevitably rush
Baby crying is hungry, cold or sleepy?
When the baby looked up and stand up to walk?
Today one to tell you that clear -
Month
①24 within hours to hepatitis B vaccine, BCG.
② Under normal circumstances, neonatal will be discharged within 24 hours of meconium, meconium was initially dark green, substantially drained 3 days, and then slowly turned golden yellow. If your baby is going to the toilet a little foam, milk valve or green they do not have to worry too much, as long as the baby is feeding properly, both in height and weight growth problem is not big.
③ can sleep 16 to 20 hours a day, but there are babies crying, sleeping reach this time.
④ Do not let your baby sleep pillow can be a layer of cotton cloth pad below the baby's head, because the newborn is easy spits up, dirty on the exchange to maintain health.
⑤ within six months of exclusive breastfeeding may not watering (but hot weather, more water loss, there oliguria urine, may be appropriate to add a little water, but do not affect the amount of breast milk sucking). Artificial feeding, milk due to the high energy density, relatively little water, watering required between meals. Parents should pay attention to changes in the baby's urine output, appropriate to add.
⑥ baby awake when you can look at a black and white picture, intellectual culture, (0 to 3 months) at 20 cm distance glasses. Mom can also sing songs to the baby, to appease the baby.
⑦ neonatal period, feeding on demand, half of the 2-3 hours to eat once the baby milk.
⑧ must pay attention to the newborn navel disinfection, it is recommended to use 75% alcohol for disinfection, use a cotton swab to disinfect the navel deep, do not just rub the surface.
Two months
① each breast feeding 10 to 15 minutes, 15 to 20 minutes to eat, it is recommended once every three hours to feed, try to develop a good habit fed by Dayton.
② Do not coax rattled by the way the baby to sleep, affecting brain development, resulting in a slight mental retardation. To coax, gently pat the baby's back, the small size, regular, gentle soothing, about 10 minutes.
③ less than a month the baby can lie prone, 45 days can be trained baby looked up, you can use a toy tease the baby. Twice for 10 seconds each time not too long prone day, there must be an adult when guarding overlooking lie.
Three months
① 上午可以睡 1~2 次，下午 2 次，晚上睡 1~2 个大觉。
② 喂奶每天 6 次，每次 100~120 ml，可以在 6:00、9:30、13:00、16:30、20:00、23:00 喂养，也可以按宝宝自己的习惯。每日喂养总量超过 600 ml 即可（此处因人而异）。为添加辅食培养好习惯。
③ 陪宝宝发 a、e 等元音，训练宝宝追视能力。
④ 给宝宝做按摩，每天洗澡后做抚触按摩，有效促进神经系统发育和锻炼宝宝的感觉系统(益智)。
⑤ 预防宝宝经常偏头睡，让宝宝经常转换睡的方向。
四个月
① 仍然不要给宝宝睡枕头，这时候的宝宝脊柱是直的，平躺时，背部和后脑勺在同一平面上，如果头被垫高了，就容易形成头颈弯曲，影响宝宝的呼吸和吞咽。
② 宝宝游泳可以提高智力。可以增强自信心、增强免疫力、增大肺活量，睡前游泳更可以促进宝宝身高和体重的增加。
③ 不要看电视超过 3 分钟，对眼睛不好。
④ 训练宝宝视觉，准备纯色的彩色图片，教宝宝认识不同颜色。
⑤ 如果四个月的宝宝还不会翻身，家长可以引导宝宝多练习一下翻身。冬天天冷，建议增加室温，不要让宝宝穿太多。
⑥ 宝宝若哭，非让抱着才睡，可抱着哄一下，不哭了再放下床睡，如此反复，锻炼宝宝独立睡觉能力。不要完全不理宝宝，这时候的宝宝哭是生理和心理上的需求，缺乏安全感，需要爸爸妈妈的爱与关怀。
⑦ 训练宝宝用手抓东西、训练宝宝嗅觉。
⑧ 听儿歌学发音。
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五个月
① 五个月的宝宝建议还是以母乳或配方奶为主，保证奶量。
②让宝宝稍微增加一些运动量，引导宝宝俯趴、翻身，增加身体力量，为六月的坐打好基础。
③如果宝宝已经长牙，建议用宝宝牙刷和婴儿牙膏刷牙，刷牙要从宝宝长出第一颗牙齿用开始。可能有些宝宝还没开始长牙，家长也不用着急，如果宝宝变得不乖、易哭闹，可能是出牙疼，可以准备一些牙胶让宝宝咬。
④ 训练宝宝发 ma、ba 等发音。
六个月
① 辅食的添加时间根据孩子生理发育来定，如果孩子已具备添加辅食的条件就可以添加了。但是最早不能早于 4 个月，最晚不能晚于 8 个月。
② 第一勺以对宝宝肠胃没有任何负担的米粉开始。第一天只喂一两勺，之后观察宝宝情况；第二天、第三天可以增加至两三勺，慢慢增加。一周后，可以在米粉里增加蔬菜泥，习惯之后可以增加蔬菜的种类。
③尽管此时宝宝可以吃辅食了，但还是以母乳或配方奶为主，不能用豆浆、牛奶、酸奶代替。
④ 宝宝开始有脾气，不要纵容，要让宝宝自己安静下来后，再引导。
⑤开始添加辅食后，就要稍微增加宝宝的喝水量，适当喝些白开水，以防宝宝便秘。
七个月
① 保护宝宝牙齿，吃完奶后，喂几口温开水冲洗口腔，每天给宝宝刷牙。
② 给宝宝讲故事和看彩色图片书，重复讲一个故事，看宝宝反映。
③ 宝宝会出现假哭、假笑等来达到自己的目的，妈妈应视情况让宝宝觉得这样做不能达到目的，几次之后,宝宝就不会再这样了。
④ 宝宝扔东西，不是惹你生气，开始时是因为发育不全拿不稳，妈妈不应生气，应和宝宝玩扔东西的游戏，适当加以引导。
⑤ 宝宝怕生人，出现依恋，可给予更多陪伴和引导。
⑥ 6 个月喂养半流质食物，7~12个月添加碎菜末、等碎状固体食物。
八个月
① 不要给宝宝喝糖水，少喝果汁，建议以白开水为主。
② 训练宝宝用小勺。
③ 宝宝会出现很多重复的动作，如反复摆同一积木，不要阻止。
④ 不要告诉宝宝“天黑，外面有鬼之类的话”宝宝以后会怕黑，胆子小，不敢独处。
九个月
① 可以吃面食、小馒头等，吃的时候让宝宝坐好，不要逗引宝宝笑，不要在宝宝哭的时候喂，以免呛住宝宝。
② 适当增加蔬菜种类、肉类，鱼类，宝宝辅食种类接触的多，大了才不易挑食。
③ 不要给宝宝吃膨化食品、爆米花、松花蛋、油条、腌制食品、味精多的食品，会影响宝宝智力。
④ 经常锻炼宝宝的爬行能力，不要急于让宝宝行走。爬好了，才能走。
十个月
① 不要吃糖和巧克力。
② the development of the baby to eat regular, regular quantitative fixed position, develop good habits, otherwise the baby does not love to eat easily, affect the development. Resolutely do not eat snacks, eat will affect the snack meals.
③ and baby books with open book.
④ to prepare baby toy box, baby toys finish off their own back. I can tell him the ball home.
⑤ develop your baby's sense of music, 10 to 15 minutes a day of classical music, rhythmic music can put a baby crawling.
⑥ games stimulate the baby curiosity can be pushed to the setting up of building blocks, and then accompany the baby to take, you can let your baby find the ball.
Eleven months
① learning to stand.
② the baby to create independent thinking environment, do not bother the baby playing with a toy or building blocks, bought a new toy to see if the baby is still playing with other toys, and do not interrupt the baby, the baby does not play, etc., and then tell the baby playing with new toys otherwise the baby will not concentrate on anything, it will be used to kick the tires.
③ can teach your baby to learn to see pictures of animals called both fun and can exercise pronounce baby.
④ Do not use a walker, may cause leg deformity, affecting counterweight exercise.
⑤ baby can not condone willful, can divert the attention of the baby, or the baby to quiet down and other reprocessing.
Twelve months
① make baby more open book, let the TA is not necessarily understand, but can exercise your fingers flexible, to accompany the baby reading literacy, insist on watching every day, take the initiative to develop the habit of reading the baby.
② training your baby to walk, the baby fell down, up and encourage your baby, your baby will be very slow at the beginning, and slowly will play himself, so baby strong, independent.
③ Benefits of walking bare feet, but still the winter to keep warm.
④ opportunity to speak to the baby, such as baby if want to take the cup, do not immediately handed him the baby should be encouraged to speak out. Always train your baby the chance to speak, from 12 to 24 months is the stage of expression spoken baby, the baby should be trained to take the initiative to express their needs. The best time to learn spoken language is 2 to 4 years old, so do not wait to go to school to learn English.
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