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Habit Shu Shu Shu found the idea of the humanities
Make reading a habit, so that the soul has a temperature, I'm concerned about these days?
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That drink together with a friend.
Was going to drink, he suddenly said to me: " Brother you remember what I said today, then, with the best of buddies together to eat, drink, play, but they can not venture together ."
I looked suspiciously little drunk, he asked: " Why? "
He said: " Because after not even friends do the ."
After several rounds of communication that I understand what he wants to express: When you venture along with best buddy, every day together, there will always be contradictions, all kinds of differences, sometimes will fry the red in the face, if business success is also well, if the business fails to stay in each other's eyes all those unpleasant past.
Prior to his friend with drinking buddies meet almost every week since the venture failed six months separate the two people do not make a phone call, slowly rusty.
Many disagreements and quarrels we will say on the wrong things, but really broad-minded so few people can do?
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The day before yesterday saw an article in the circle of friends, two lovers break up, even when things pick up with soap once used to be cut in half from the middle.
Boys forefoot just move out of the house rented together, the girls will change the locks. Delete all contacts with each other, never in contact with.
Boys broke up a relief to say, in no one beside his nagging him all kinds of bad.
He said the girl broke up with no regulation, and no one despise her in all kinds of fat.
** Do not do it really broke up a friend yet? **
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Whether in life or at work, I'm always going to get along with others, how can we do to get along with others harmonious it?
To find the good of others
To laugh teacher was mentioned in the article: "We want good visibility of others, we can better", I really like this sentence, which is to guide us to get along well with others stone.
Each person is an individual, with its own thinking and methods of work, we have to be able to receive other people and we are not the same. Because many species of colorful world it seems, is not the same because the people will seem complicated.
Along with others, we first see the good of others, so that we can go to accept others from the heart. The first step is to accept closer relations, with a good start, have a better outcome.
Not inclusive of others
In the Book of Changes in exquisite balance of yin and yang, yin lot of bad, bad sun much the same, only to achieve both balance was perfect.
Such a person is a person who advantages and disadvantages exist simultaneously, people only advantages without disadvantages do not exist in the world, it is the opposite.
So we have to be able to see the good of others, but also tolerant and accepting other people's bad.
The man which I could not understand, I ignore him. The man that place is not good, I do not like it, stay away from him. The arrival of one of our friends are gone.
If we look only to see the shortcomings of others, this shortcoming will be infinite zoom, a zoom shortcomings hinder us close to him. Not close, that the merits of his body, we also will ignore it.
Seek common ground
Looking back 60 years ago, the Bandung Conference, Premier Zhou Enlai led a delegation to participate and that "common ground" to achieve consensus, advocates of different ideologies and social systems does not preclude the presence of Asian and African countries seek common ground and unity, and eventually to the conference a complete move to open.
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Again, this one to get along with people when we can do the same action as a reference. We accept others good side, bad side to accept other people. In fact, one of their merits, and that he would be the appropriate number of shortcomings, but I selectively ignored.
When dealing with people, we seek common ground faith, regardless of daily interactions and working together will be better.
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We must learn to find good people, and good people where we want to learn.
We have to be able to see other people's bad, bad where we used to learn, do not let this bad himself appears, this is the most correct way to make their own progress.
At his eyes in the sun, do not just stare at a dark corner, so we will light up.
Although the truth is easier said than done, but we only do it this way, it is to get more harmonious.
Encourage each other's!
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About the Author:
Author Yin Yunfei, pseudonym blossoms also silent, undergraduate and graduate graduated from the Northeast Agricultural University and Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications, is currently engaged in software development for many years. Like creative writing, freelance writer. It has opened a personal micro signal, Jane books and columns Today's headlines column number. A weekly original articles, a monthly book review, uninterrupted ....................