1. The old saying, a woman's virtue. But today, I felt reading "dependents", the most important thing is nourishing the heart. Now life, food and clothing is not a problem, the key is the state of life
2. The college really is not knowledge, but school life, even if that something need not be so freshman sophomore school, junior ready on the line?
A: The test does not have much to complain PubMed, seriously study, on behalf of attitude, not hanging branches not regarded as a target goal! Those exams at the University of it is not the level of the exam, which are still hanging branches, this how you go to school? In fact, with the usual postgraduate study not much contact, their learning methods and mentality is the key. College really is not knowledge, but school life these words agree, but even still hanging branches, without mentioning the high level?
3. I have been reluctant to add strangers, How about you?
A: strangers, occasionally look at the exchange, maybe the idea is another world. I do not exclude it, strangers at the moment, but perhaps bump into it. Come maybe someday in the future the same place, it is fate. where are you? Yeah I was in China, the provincial boundary points need not be so obvious
4. When went to the big cities, people do not want to go back and become
A: I do not like big cities, too fast pressure is not suitable for life, went to Shanghai to play, really do not like that, the business atmosphere too.
Not trying to avoid it? Just say: if we go to the big cities, people do not want to go back and this will become the point is not to escape the feeling? I have nothing to escape, why do you ask, because a friend recently because of work it is intended Cobb, do not know whether avoiding work and choose Kaobo
5. I believe that life is most important, choose a good life, is not the state do not work hard, on the contrary, we will try to work
6. I really still is not naive, but I though unwilling to mediocrity, to the north of Guangzhou and I could not fight my one day
A: I like Immoderation, born ordinary, but the pursuit of good, every day like a dead Wenji do not live the way I hate
But then, this age, play is crazy crazy youth [Jesus]
I almost old [Behind his]
7. Expression of the article is very good, greetings is good, but this is not enough, give yourself the girls hope that this present to blame. Like his girlfriend out to study abroad experience, I agree one hundred percent support, of course, accompany. The article says that kind of girlfriend good but lazy person, I hate, it will not do the kind of person. For love, I hope, for my wife, not only for her good, of course, have together around the scenery, eat stroll along the East West, watching movies together, grow together there are still accompany the struggle, all I want is their own happiness . Two people, together, the heart is not tired, and then from the heart has been closer to reality and the ideal
8. in line with a little book I read before, and they have to their own friends, do not force yourself. For example, I now have to learn, not play phone, this is not good, because against their own hearts and the hearts of the true self is to play with the phone, so that we also own hearts and make friends, you can comfort own heart that, for example, well-behaved, the job is more important, we finished playing, okay? This will slowly enter the state.
There is no right or wrong good or bad, only cause and effect. Do things, do not be afraid of what the consequences, do not do enough to accept the result, fearfully still ashamed of what you did wrong are their own heart at work, what there is of it?
Do not understand a lot of thing, but we have to do, do not take the low self-esteem self-confidence for the thing to deny their own
Social and moral habits of thought so we did something wrong, in the face of more powerful than our people would feel ashamed, feel inferior. but. This shame and inferiority is only a "mood" and "feel", and we will produce what kind of "emotional" and "feel" for things that are depending on us has a kind of "understanding."
Moreover, these negative emotions without the slightest sense for individuals from a realistic point of view, even if I do not feel inferior, ashamed that I do not and will not have any impact on me.
Learn to jump out of social thinking, jumping jump, learn frog jump
9. I would not delete the previously issued too, are memories. Memory does not need to be deleted because it is a time of their own past. Looking back to those of the East, will see their growth step by step, I felt very good. And of course, we did not have to recall memories, or to escape what can you and I is the most important at the moment.
10. The gap between the rich and the poor know what
A: The gap between rich and poor, in fact, is the problem of capital, money money begets money, no money can not earn much money, the last capital snowball, the rich richer, bigger gap. Some people also like the city by rental income, a year down more than others exhausted half to earn a living but also a lot of money, we Chinese people do not suffer from a mental uneven, resulting in hatred of the rich. But then, there are also views that the hatred of the rich is not hatred of money, but the money is not his own hatred. Hu and Wen decade, our sharp accumulation of wealth, development okay, but growing gap between rich and poor, officials and businessmen problem, but after learning much up, corruption and punish corruption whole, the situation is much better but still unstable
There is also enough of so much money, why not do it a public service?
So, I felt university regret one thing: not to participate in volunteer and charitable activities, no platform, right? Anyway, I hate volunteer or public service activities linked with the selection of scholarship, a variety of utilitarian know Taiwan, volunteering is particularly good, not to say do not want to do, but we are not setting up the continent this platform
11. there is no need of anything in life, there is only unnecessary expectations. No prospects and is the most beautiful face in life and freedom, because of this, people can hear his heart. What do you think?
A: I have not felt like face is acceptable, face like nothing more than social status, and this stuff is given by others, mutual respect, and also his given.
Did not expect the bad, and my heart has read to, the total is still good, looking forward to is not to say that there is utilitarian, if students want nothing, so what's been and lost? So what's happiness? Warm heart like. Go with the flow, but also a pursuit of mind. Not utilitarian but also be pursued, not sophisticated but also know how sophisticated. But it does not mean not to pursue peaceful struggle
12. The micro-channel head, what do you think, too? General analysis, results are common, but now the focus is personality, which is also seeking the same divergent, the biggest difference between people is still a difference of personality
13. The role change, to understand. But why should learn to change the role of the university?
A: role change, because we read the university, this process is youthful memories of four years, is also the fastest growing harvest up to four years, of course, the University is also a micro-society, learn the changing role, of course, is to better into the community . In college allows you to make mistakes, allow you naive, after all, the cost is not much, if indeed society, its costs and the impact is not known, but certainly much greater than in college. Role change, this is the student social people, the mind becomes mature process, not saying we complete the changing role of the university, but preferably at the university.
14. We often ask to learn English, such as what is the use? How do you see such a quick success?
A: The quick success, everyone will be there, and this depends on personal attitude and perseverance. We will ask them to do what's the use, in the end can be doing, in fact, is a driving force in the short term would like to get a good result, it would have to pay, just think without action is the result of a quick buck. Of course, they should not be profit-oriented equivalent to the purpose, there is the desire to have "ambition" in order to go faster. Social person, always always such utilitarian reality, unable to manage others, always calm down myself, and I shall stays.
15. "Grandma" read, and perhaps tears a little low, you are very filial. You should be very sensible from an early age it! There are girls delicate. If I have a grandmother, you do not do it I might!
A: At that time wrote that article, a lot of places are crying write, think of too many memories, too much pain to eat for a lifetime grandmother, grandmother understanding. Because a child living with his grandmother a lot, Mom and Dad go out to work, I went to the grandmother now feel a great impact on me. Mom and Dad also very hard-working hard this winter in the father over there, he told those years working in Shenzhen life, I can not imagine that a little bit. Because in the past too poor, it will be hard, but I just read some books, a lot of thought. Delicate and also men and women? [Embarrassed] I feel the power that enables anything, backgrounds and ways of thinking, as well as pay attention to subtle details observe it. Rest assured, I am a heterosexual, but also mentally normal
16. Is not too talented, kind of feeling superior, too high for your requirements ta, ta just can not find you?
A: Not too talented, and just observe subtle, only so much harvest. As it is not high above? I am very down to earth, OK? Why not, because looked like a down to earth [tears] I felt Man, looks not too many requirements, individuals can look at the past, but mainly the heart, because the heart is related to life bit by bit, as well as personal level Happiness.
Black snow this year, are you, then immaturity is silly, do not go to school early to enter the stage of a father. But I was in school it, too late. Sometimes think a lot more mature, I felt a lack of personal experience of human society is going, it did it would grow faster.
Now how do you see me? Can only say that you see only one aspect of me, no bit of life at no contact with people from the realities of life is to understand not comprehensive.
Another said, people can not be static, there are more similarities have to have personality, but now they need to pursue the most personality, I do not want to leave an impression that it was see through, mum. I leave my own heart.
17. I feel in my text, is calm, thought about, and do not have much talent, but it belongs to me, tell my story. You can also write Oh, regardless of study, work, all in all, are attributed to life, his life is the most critical, which is the pursuit of all their own purposes, simply, what do you order? It is life
18. For example, when you have money now, to consider: "If after the bankruptcy, become a beggar, how do I live?" Now your family and the US United States, to be thinking: "Once the family has some problems, how can I do? "If to be prepared in advance, when the event of pain, they will not frown, but will not collapse. What do you think
A: I do not agree. Now live rich, beautiful home, why go to a super thing to think negative energy, those things are not impossible, but completely unnecessary mind, not the heart is not tired, tired heart, but the era of relatively stable, personal "mutation" is unlikely. Have that leisure time is also very forward thinking positive energy, people ah, do not be nervous, rainy day, this plan is far too biased, why not plan a better planning aspect of it?
Accidents and tomorrow, which come faster? No matter how they change, change is always himself, we learn that because of the situation is not the same hold their own as a miser obtained. There is a risk, but also a "enjoy" the moment, all can not say.
19. I do not agree with Buddhist reincarnation, in the hands of Buddhism, it is better on their own. Cause and effect are connected, there is no right or wrong good or bad, because there must be fruit, do not start in the heart with so-called "judgment", as did not know the results of my heart to have to conclusions. There is no right or wrong, you should pay special combined with the current situation, because of something also vary.
20. incompetent force, LuAnKe
Sometimes with the purpose of intentionally do anything, there is no use, to no avail, it's all fake. I want to affect others but not affect.
Chinese people in a hurry, no time to lay the foundation, we should see the results.
21. Are you trying to innovation ah? We need to come up with good idea, and then do the experiment? It is said that staying up late writing papers are written in the evening, then relatively quick thinking.
A: Graduate write their own papers, really need their own innovation, more needs to pursue a Ph.D. degree, and this is the reason I choose not to continue to pursue a Ph.D. degree, because the innovation itself is not strong, then felt is not suitable for scientific research, or go to practice, practice Better. Kenichi have a class, back in their own laboratory, similar to that office with tables, and then you see the direction of their own papers, research-related things, do experiments, and finally make something of your own on this basis.
I do not like to stay up late, so far only two or three times to get through it, but not for research. One was reading, one is to accompany the others to play. It is hypocritical people, only when forced effort. I felt I usually arrange their time, improve efficiency, it does not have to stay up late. That said fragmented time it
22. do not say the advantages and disadvantages, collectively known characteristics, there is no right or wrong good or bad, this is the personality [wit]
23. The present age compared to previous years, there are so many good, we live in the best of times it is also the worst of times. For those movies, in real life would have it, but our whole heart is up, I believe the good of the world. Official big people crushed to death, you are not official, you do not know, but when a lot of thing to you, what would you state it? We are now outsiders, bystander, I hope in their posts, to see the game better time do not have that kind of confusion.
24. there is no other option, all of your existing choices are right, it's like people's feelings, like, no need to assume that, because no matter how to assume, assume that will not be established.
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