We first Zhichuo core issues: Why lovelorn pain?
In my opinion, it is the pain of lost love their own desires are not being met.
For example, a person's desire is to want to go straight to the other side of marriage,
This feeling results halfway died,
This is called the target was not met.
For example, a man paid a lot of money to make other career,
Results After a successful career, people did not,
This is called the desire to invest not met.
So, you have to resolve pain, we must ask ourselves:
What you desire for this feeling in the end is?
If the desire for money is not being met,
This is easy to handle, talk to each other talk, could not agree on the downtown,
Downtown failing that, a lawsuit.
Think of "Story of Qiu Ju" and "I'm not Pan."
If you are tired, I thought well, this thing would pass.
If the purpose of marriage is not reached,
This is a good thing Xiangde Tong,
Love, already do not have to get married ah.
Moreover, this kind betray you, is it better to leave now?
If married and then leave, you have to back the second marriage of fame.
If sex is not met since then,
This thing easier, just be a man have the original of this function,
It is a find.
Socrates said: Know yourself.
Think about which aspects of their own desires are not met, then the right medicine.
Instead, crying, as dead as her husband.
Well, on when he hung up.
Talk to other people around to tell, it does not become lost love "Xianglinsao" yet?
The famous writer Wozi Ji (myself) once said:
People in my entire life is very long,
Long to fail, or fall in love with a few scum are no big deal.
If you like, you can always start over.
People in my entire life is very short,
Short to not have the energy and time to hate those few scum,
Unfortunately, those times romance,
Remorse that several setbacks.
For the unhappy, to say goodbye.
Sorry, my time is valuable, no energy and you struggle.
If you still take things too hard, I'll give you a few suggestions.
Every romance, are to make way for true love.
If you do not romance, how could someone dare to love you.
This so-called, no splits, how can the sun shining?
If you hate him,
Do not have this, let him continue to go to the scourge of others.
If you love him,
Do not have this, let him continue to go to a better life.
Whether love or hate, learn to let go is very important.
After letting go, you can go to travel,
You can go to report classes, learn and grow,
You can learn art, you fall in love with an elegant life,
You can participate in various meetings,
He began to find more possible life.
He is just not necessary, kept the poor themselves,
Eventually he moved himself.
In tears every day, Liu Bei really think of themselves ah.
If you say, the reason I know everything, but I still can not let go.
go away!
I tolerate you for a long time.
Just like you,
Which one can you bear ah.
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