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Two days ago to see on almost a known problem, strong feelings at the following link:
https://www.zhihu.com/question/324630784
Under Simply put: the main title 35 years old, state-owned enterprises to work for seven years, after leading the saddle before the horse, official, private matter work together, and later as work-related injuries to eight disability, leader puts his foot kicked, now unemployed, there are old under there a young age he was very anxious, want to switch to a programmer, ask your views.
No doubt most people are opposed, if interested can go to know almost onlookers about, or talk about your ideas. The thing these days has been lingering in my mind, not because of how reliable would like to give advice, but ask yourself in the end is what caused his current dilemma, how we should avoid?
Previously seen a picture
"Initial D" looked more than once, I do not remember so saying lines, and later often consciously or unconsciously thought of it, will think about how to spend your life the way you like it?
Takumi like racing, if later became the drivers, racing all his life in the cause, then no matter ultimately achieve much success, to say whether he is successful, he had to ask himself if his life like to do driver. If so, he is undoubtedly a success.
If he fails, after a contest, not like a car, or will he after the hot topic invincible hand, lost interest in the car, so he wants to succeed, have to go looking for others like lifestyle.
If he knows what kind of lifestyle they like, it is fortunate, do it on the line. If you do not know anything about it, it can only try, or work stations, or together with his father to make tofu, are likely to be their favorite, even after doing some time found that life is not what you want but it is also time to try this success, because during this time, he should be like this way of life, or else you have to keep looking like he might replace the other, or that the current like life.
It would appear that a person to be successful, is actually very simple. If you are lucky, be able to find your favorite way of life, and the like can be maintained, then continue to do so on the line; if not found, it would continue to look for, keep trying, this is also a success.
这是最初看到这张图片时的想法，现在看来，这种观点多少有些幼稚，因为并没有考虑到一个人应承担的责任，只顾自己开心，用自己喜欢的方式度过一生，但是没有考虑到这个过程中可能让自己的家庭、亲人、朋友失望、受伤、痛苦。
上述知乎的问题，题主首先不喜欢自己之前的工作，可以看下他详细的描述；其次又有很大压力来承担起家庭的责任。那么应该如何用自己喜欢的方式度过一生，又承担起相应的责任呢？
根据上述的分析，最主要的就是要找到能够让自己安身立命的兴趣。先说兴趣，其实很多人并不知道自己的兴趣是什么，经常听到说我这个人没什么兴趣，其实不然，很多事情只有去尝试之后才能知道自己到底感不感兴趣。其次就是安身立命，比如说你喜欢打游戏，这算是兴趣，但这不能让你安身立命，如果你可以做游戏主播、解说、代练，并且可以让你生活无忧，游戏才是你安身立命的兴趣。
说白了就是要找到能够发展为职业的兴趣，而且越早找到越好。大学的时候就要多去尝试各种事情，去旁听不同学科的课程。比如去旁听软件学院的课程，或许你会对编程感兴趣，以后可以做一名程序员。去旁听语言学院的课程，尝试写作，说不定你会感兴趣，以后可以做一名作家。再或者你去参加话剧社，或许会发现自己有表演天赋，也很喜欢表演，也许你会成为明日之星。常说大学学到最重要的能力是学习能力，但没说最重要的事是什么，在我看来，就是找到能够发展为职业的兴趣。
工作以后，如果你不喜欢目前的工作，再去寻找安身立命的兴趣，成本就会比较高，效率则比较低。如果你结婚生子了，那么成本会更高，效率会更低。但不是不可能，有很多职场人士都能够成功转型，就看你愿不愿意付出更多努力，有没有做出改变的勇气，有没有发现兴趣的毅力。
希望你能够找到自己安身立命的兴趣，从事自己喜欢的工作，用自己喜欢的方式度过一生。欢迎关注我的公众号：星辰渔夫。回复“星辰大海”获取学习资料。
