The only things that really matter in life are your relationships with other people.
We spend so much time chasing petty things, but when tragedy strikes, or when too many questions are swirling in your mind late at night, you know it's all about relationships.
Who can I trust? Does anyone really understand me? Does anyone really care about me? Think about the moments that made you happiest, and they were all about people. The same goes for the most painful moments. Our relationships with others can make or break our lives.
Humans have been dealing with our relationships with each other for millennia, and we still can't get it right. Why haven't we been given a cure for relationships? We leave this most important thing in life to "handle" with innate abilities, hearsay, and the little bit of insight we honed through brutal pain and rejection.
Some might say that there are plenty of books on the subject, but what people call "the canon of relationships" usually resembles a commercial. We know that most of these books are specious at best and Magic 8-ball-level "scientific" accuracy, and we need real answers.
Freud said: "Love and work are the cornerstones of human nature.
Relationships bring us the highest bliss and the "oh my god, I never thought it would be this bad" lows. We are all afraid of exposing our vulnerabilities, or embarrassing ourselves to others. Sometimes we wonder if we are cursed or if something is wrong. We may not be able to stop the waves, but we can learn to surf.
Whether you're a people person or a socially anxious introvert, you can build better friendships, find or rekindle love, and be more connected to others in this time of increasing emotional distance and loneliness. close.
At 20:00 on Thursday night, Bai Yu, senior planning editor of Turing, talked with Ma Mengjie , a senior translator and psychological counselor , and chatted with everyone [How to get nourishment from relationships]
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