It takes about 6 minutes to read this article
This article is difficult to write today, because I have hesitated for a weekend and decided whether to write this article. The most doubtful thing in my heart is whether readers can wake up after reading this article? In other words, can you refresh your cognition again? In the end, I tried to write. Whether the writing is good or bad, it is my personal long-term reflection and some discussions with people around me.
I hope everyone will follow Xiaolu’s thoughts to comprehend the essence shared today, because I have been prepared in psychology. After all, I have to deal with your subconscious that has been lurking in your heart for a long time, so this article is written It is very difficult, but also a challenge.
When you see the title, you’re not unfamiliar. The word leek is not unfamiliar in the Internet. So when it comes to leeks, I used to be too, because when I first came into contact with the Internet, everything was very strange. It can be said to be relatively ignorant. At that time, I hadn't been exposed to psychology and marketing, and I didn't understand the routines on the Internet. Then you may be curious about how I discovered that these people were cutting leeks on the Internet.
I wrote about "How to arrange a good day" before, and this experience of leeks made me write reflections every day and write them in a notebook. I believe that many people say that they are not leeks, because even if you are cut from leeks, you can’t know it in your heart, so our subconscious mind always thinks that leeks refer to others, not ourselves. Human nature, it’s difficult to explain these phenomena clearly before I got involved in psychology. When I found some phenomena on the Internet, why so many people were brainwashed, it was like a program that was executed as soon as the conditions were met. Specific procedures.
After studying some psychology in my spare time, PS: The reason why I liked psychology at first was to be able to understand my emotions. When I first went to college, my temper and emotions were not very good, so I started to move towards amateur psychology. road. The unexpected gain for me is that the common sense of psychology that I have learned can easily solve human thoughts and behaviors, including why people are so easy to be marketed without knowing it, and why there are groups of people being cut leek .
Speaking of cutting leeks, how to define this cutting leeks, in fact, it is difficult for me to define it, but I can think of it as similar to the MLM model, but it is not MLM. To put it bluntly, it means only shouting slogans without real gains. , You may ask, why the leeks still like to be cut, that is because they have been brainwashed, controlled their minds, wrongly thought, or did not reflect, and did not know that you were cut all the time.
A month ago, I checked a few of them, which is considered to be a big boss, like the kind of rich boss who blindly pursues the wind. To be honest, I have been following for two years. You may ask, why suddenly Is it off? It was when I was reflecting on that, I suddenly reflected that whether a person is helpful to your growth depends not on how much influence this person has, but whether it is really helpful for you.
I adopted a method, how to judge whether a person is helpful to me, I reflect on the days when I paid attention to it until now, I asked myself what I have gained since I paid attention to it, what skills I have mastered in life, and cognition In terms of cutting my leek or improving my thinking. This cognitive aspect is indeed impossible to accurately compare, but if you take time out to read every day, especially those classics, such as "The Analects", "The Tao Te Ching" and other historical readings, or books written by saints These are very valuable in ideology. People like saints can pass down their thoughts for thousands of years, and they must be worthy of reference. It is not comparable in the cowboys.
I found that some big guys just follow the trend blindly and have no rational judgment. If a person sells himself on the Internet and has no substantial content output, it will not attract the attention of others. If there are five people who say that he is ridiculous, I believe there are a lot of people blindly following the trend on the Internet.
So far, I found that the people who passed the customs had no effect on me, and there were no bad changes, and the people who really recognized me, the daily output, let me gain insight. Speaking of content output, I have to emphasize it.
I have been writing for more than a year. When I have something to share, and when something hasn’t been shared yet, I am very clear. The most important thing a person should share is some of the skills you have learned and the knowledge you have improved. It doesn’t matter, it’s only meaningful to share it through my own practice and summarization. It’s not that I learned it and remembered it. If I write it out and share it with others, I think it’s vagrancy.
I've heard a lecture at Tsinghua by a big data professor before. The lecture was general and talked about the story of beer and diapers. At this time, a Tsinghua student stood up and asked, how can you tell this story? Later, the professor reflected that, indeed, in many cases, the actual operation is only verified by others, not by you, and it really seems to be meaningless to say. Including some paid communities on the Internet, or Knowledge Planet, they are just sharing some resonant cognitions and thoughts. In fact, none of the sharers has actually done it, but they just don’t know how to adapt from that book or online. Yes, there is no real value at all.
Therefore, every article I wrote before was personally made in Xiaolu's life, and after experiencing and reflecting on it, I dare to share it. I can say that the notes I read every day are many that can change my cognition, but I haven't shared them because I haven't used them in my life yet and don't know the essence of these.
No matter what topic I talk about, I always think in a rational way. Whether it is right or wrong, I will analyze it rationally. I will not deflect the reader's thinking, so that everyone can think independently. This is also the "Golden Mean" advocated by Confucius for thousands of years. Everything is good or bad from different angles. Don’t just think about your own gains and losses. If you can look at things from the perspective of heaven, you will not be easily marketed by others and cut leeks by others.
I hope that every reader will practice his own thinking, even if it is what Xiaolu says, he should think rationally about whether his article is right or wrong. Today's article only elaborates on the reality and a little bit of my own previous experience and perception. It is not aimed at anyone, does not provoke anything, be yourself, love readers, this is the only purpose of Xiaolu as a public account.