origin
When I was in school, I practiced long-distance running in physical education class. Boys ran 1,200 meters and girls ran 800 meters. This is both training and competition. Training is a competition between yourself and yourself, and competition is a competition between individuals. At the end there will be rankings and results.
I belong to the category of endurance is not bad, long-distance running can be regarded as the top 10 in the class, although I am not tall, explosive power is average.
My strategy: Enter the first echelon after the start, follow the lead runners, keep pace and breath; during the process, according to your own situation, increase your pace at corners and other places, and gradually overtake; develop your strength in the last 3/4 laps, and sprint as much as possible .
I think long-distance running can be compared to running, work, or other projects that need to be continuously promoted. Or our lives.
Confuse
How to choose a major, choose a school, graduate work place, content selection, etc. in a university? Especially when you find out that what you have worked hard for at a certain moment, others can get it at your fingertips. What you are good at, others may not be good at.
So I began to understand: there is no absolute fairness (family conditions, physical appearance, mental talent, etc.), advantages (differentiation has advantages, and relative advantages create premiums)
Let's take a look at what social judgment cares about?
- score
- physical appearance
- Material basis
- right
- friendship
So what we see as the goal of the struggle leans toward those. The purpose is mostly to show oneself and gain recognition .
- Achievement Score (Intelligence)
- Wage income (substance)
- friendship (circle)
- Appeal (right)
I see people around me who are better than me, and I find what I want to have, so I fight and fight for it, and I adopt a follower strategy to match them.
Some I have but still not happy, some I don't have more anxious urgent.
For a moment, I found that I might be able to stand in the top 20% of the crowd, but I may not be lucky enough to enter the top 10%, nor may I be satisfied in my heart.
Note: In the first 4 years of resuming the college entrance examination, a total of 88 key colleges and universities across the country enrolled students, with an admission rate of 6.5%.
In 2017, the overall admission rate of the college entrance examination reached 75%, and the admission rate of the first-year college entrance examination was 12.4%. The second and third colleges (33.6%) and junior colleges (29%) have the largest expansion of enrollment.
I chose: do the "right" thing and forget about doing it right. When you stare at the curve and overtake, forget why you set off.
You think it is courage to take on the burden of life, but in fact, it takes more courage to live the life you really want. — Sam Mendes
travel
underlying beliefs and values
- When life is finalized, you hope that the evaluation of you by your family and others can more or less reflect your expectations for life and yourself.
- I think at this time you will compare yourself with others, and at the same time you will pay more attention to your personal life journey and your own preferences.
- In fact, the comparison is only the people you can see and who are related to you. It has nothing to do with you, and you will not compare with those who are too different.
- I deserve whatever I get and what God gives me. I deserve and deserve fresh air, sunshine, a rich life, and appreciation of beautiful people and nature.
- God helps those who help themselves
Strategy
Follow inner calling, curiosity -> ideas, desires -> find & give value and meaning, self-reward -> conceive action plan -> act (small steps and quick runs)
Like to do -> Good at doing -> Worth doing
Worth doing -> Good at doing -> Like doing it?
vow
- Abundance of mind -> Calmness and indifference
- Financial Freedom -> Time, Freedom of Choice
- Material abundance: I need it, I call it, it is attracted to me, and it keeps flowing.
- physical and mental health
- learn to grow
- see the world
- Help others
Action plan
- self realization
- Professional expertise (Surveying, Cartography | GIS, Programming | Statistical Analysis)
- happiness system
- Material basis
The article was originally published in 2014-2015 and is stored in the draft box.