People live for what? success? happy? worth it? Are you happy?
1. What is success.
When a person reaches middle age, he is in good health, has a little savings, is married, has a caring spouse, obedient children, has a job he likes, does not need to be famous, does not need to get rich, and does not need to always act according to people's winks and do what he wants That self, this is success.
2. What is happiness.
Yu Juan, a teacher at Fudan University who died of cancer, wrote in her diary during her lifetime: At the critical point of life and death, you will find that any overtime (staying up late for a long time is equal to chronic suicide), putting too much pressure on yourself, and the need to buy a house or a car , these are floating clouds. If you have time, spend good time with your children, give the car money to your parents to buy a pair of shoes, don’t try your best to exchange for a big house or a luxury car, stay with the person you love, the dwelling is warm, and the bicycle is also happy !
3. Where is your value?
If you fall ill or die suddenly, the unit you serve will find someone to replace you as soon as possible, and everything will continue to operate as usual, which is not as important as you think; while the sky of your parents, family members, lovers and children will collapse. They are the most important. So stop insisting that you don’t go to the hospital when you’re sick; work moderately, spend more time with your family, cherish yourself, and live a normal life.
4. What is happiness.
There are no patients at home, no relatives in the prison, no enemies outside, no villains in the circle, and no bad people around; it seems that there are no lovers, but there are acquaintances in business, philosophers in conversation, experts in parties, sages in tea, and sages in gossip. Daren, there are a lot of people who retweet this post on WeChat. In life, there are things you like to do, a healthy body, someone who loves you, a well-behaved and sunny child, and a few friends who miss you after a while, this is happiness!
What is the purpose of human life ?
Not for money, not for profit,
not for power, not for fame.
But to come to this world once,
to experience it for real.
Experience the feeling of being lost, and
understand the taste of being together and being separated.
Some people say that we live for money,
that we work hard because we want to earn more, and that
we live frugally because we want to save more.
In the end, the body broke down and
fell ill.
With the hard-earned money, he took
medicine and injections and went to the hospital. The blessings
were not enjoyed, and people suffered .
有人说，活着是为了名，
How many people have given their all for fame, and
how many people have suffered so much for fame.
Fame, happiness in the future,
but also arouse the envy of others.
A good reputation is not necessarily good,
and it will bring disasters.
Instead of living in fear,
it is better to be a down-to-earth person with peace of mind,
to be famous but not to be famous, and to be safe.
Some people say that life is for feelings,
but feelings may not really last long.
Families are born with love, and there are times when they turn their faces.
Friendship makes people warm, and there are also days when they disappear.
Love is sweet and moving, and there are also moments of heart-changing.
For the sake of love, sad, entangled,
embarrassing myself, and losing self-esteem.
In fact, if you live to a certain age,
you will gradually realize that it doesn’t matter if
you are alive, if you don’t have a good reputation, it’s fine if you have a good reputation; it’s fine if no one likes you , as long as you have a clear conscience ; Don't force it, just get along happily; if you have money, don't be greedy, just be content and happy!
To live,
there is no need to prove how important you are.
In this world, everyone can live without anyone!
Where is your value?
In fact, you don't need to prove anything!
You earn wealth for your family,
you work hard,
put in labor and sweat, and
shine in your own position,
even if it is just the light of fireflies,
the world is also recording our credit!
If you pass by, there will be traces;
if you have been here, it is proof!
Big people have the excellence of big people, and
small people have the splendor of small people!
Living well for yourself and taking good care of those around you
is your ability;
being strict with yourself and constantly improving yourself
is your goal;
living happily with a clear conscience
is happiness!