The first mock interview in my life today, needless to say, must be very nervous. During the interview, I will blush, I will be embarrassed, and I will not be able to express the knowledge points clearly. I thought about it afterwards.
why nervous
1. When other people's eyes are shifted to you, you may subconsciously feel uncomfortable, especially when you are interviewing with someone who is competing with you, there will be comparisons, which is understandable, what to say,. . . . . . After writing this, I suddenly found that the two words "competition" and "comparison" are very discordant, (laughing and crying expression) I found that "competition" is a phenomenon that exists in the whole nature, and there is competition to have motivation , will continue to evolve, upgrade, and finally leave the best. And the word "comparison" exists only in human behavior. . . . (laughing and crying). I retracted the words that the two words were dissonant, and I figured it out again. Comparison is reflected in competition, just like orangutans competing for mating rights, and the one that stays at the end is stronger than the others. (Laughing and crying)
2. I talked a lot of nonsense before, maybe because you feel that you have no advantages compared with others, you really have no advantages, and you don’t have any glamorous deeds. At this time, the interviewer is looking forward to it. Eyes, you don’t want to disappoint the interviewer yourself, maybe you just say something that doesn’t suit you, and you have a little vanity. I feel that for a simple person, when he says something that doesn’t conform to reality, he will be very embarrassed. Nervous
3. When you are realistic and have a lot of advantages over others, you may not be nervous, but very confident 4. The
interview itself is for others to choose you. You must meet their constraints. A high platform, and you need it, you care about her, and you create tension. It’s like there is a long line of suitors for you to choose from. You who have the right to choose will not be nervous, but you can choose at will. The ones who should be nervous are those who are chosen by you (laughing and crying)
not good enough
The most important thing is that you are not good enough. If you learn knowledge well enough to achieve a thorough understanding, you will not be afraid to answer and ask questions. Just like an exam, when you are really confident, no matter how difficult it is, you will be able to do it. It is so easy to get the questions. When you reach a hurdle, your reaction will be slow. It’s okay to try to answer a little bit. If you really can’t, then you won’t be able to. Naturally, you will be embarrassed, but the embarrassment of the written test is not conveyed by facial expressions, hahahahaha!
face it bravely
When you are inferior to others in everything, at this time, you have to develop a thick skin like a city wall, "thick", and in the later stage, you have to cultivate your self-confidence, no matter what obstacles you encounter, unconditional self-confidence, yes, I am This street, the brightest boy. At the same time, we must also develop the ability to put our left ear in and out of our right ear, release the pressure brought by others, be ourselves, face obstacles bravely, and tell us when you are nervous and unwilling to face it. Self: "Don't be cowardly, go up." Good guy: "Let the horse come here", isn't it just a matter of blushing and thick neck! (Hahahaha), calm down, calm down, and analyze calmly in the end! Well, that's all for today's diary