goodbye 2015, hello 2016

  2015 is fleeting, and 2016 beckons us. Looking back now, is it fruitful or empty-handed? For the past year, we have been running, hoping to catch up with the self who had high hopes. Maybe the wish is not fulfilled, or the journey that you want to go may be missed, but you must always adhere to the original persistence, and in the coming year, keep a humble and awe, lose indifferently, and gain calmly. If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come spontaneously, if you are wonderful, the sky will arrange it.
      Looking back suddenly, this year, sadness and joy coexisted, how much I feel, how much thinking, let's review the situation of the current year:

    1. Work
     |-- Can control the structure of the whole project 
     |-- Learned something Simple SQL optimization
     |-- Learned WebSphere configuration, build system environment
     |-- Have a simple understanding of SpringMVC+IBatis framework
     |-- A brief review of the forgotten mainstream SSH framework
     |-- Deepen business knowledge Learning
     |-- Simple technical training for new colleagues in the company.
     |-- Mastered some skills to communicate with customers. 
     |-- Interview newcomers to add fresh blood to the company.
    2. Academic plan 
     |-- The postgraduate entrance examination is waiting for the score line, next year should prepare for PMP... 
    3. Tourism 
     |-- (realized) Zhangjiajie, Guanshan ancient town, Huaminglou, Dongjianghu, Feitianshan  
     Zhangjiajie---Wulingyuan is a peculiar place The peak forest landform and the magnificent karst landscape make people fall, as if they are in the fairyland of fairy mountains.  
     Guanshan Ancient Town - Green Plum Boiled Wine On the hero, the charm of Guanshan lies not only in the beauty of landscape and material culture endowed by nature, but also in the historical beauty of cultural inheritance from the generation of talents.
     Huaming Tower---You can not only enjoy the picturesque scenery, but also visit the great man "Liu Shaoqi Memorial Hall" is the only biographical museum in the country that completely and systematically introduces Liu Shaoqi's life and achievements.
     Dongjiang Lake---Clouds and mists of the small Dongjiang River, with beautiful mountains, charming scenery, unique characteristics of majesty, strangeness, beauty, seclusion, and openness, it brings together the advantages of famous, new, unique and dangerous.
     Feitian Mountain---Feitian Mountain is a Danxia landform, with strange peaks and rocks, green mountains and beautiful waters, lakes and mountains, magnificent and charming. Around the river, there are many stone mountains and jade peaks, which stretch for dozens of kilometers. There are also thousand-year-old hanging coffins, the mystery of the world; Linjiang Buddha sculptures, flying murals; natural reclining Buddhas, leisurely monuments; Danxia caves, mysterious nests; Ming and Qing tombs, lion hanging mausoleums; alpine grasslands, the Virgin Mary... It is really blessed, and the scenery is infinite!
     |-- (planned) Guangxi---(Guilin, Yangshuo, Beihai) 
     |-- Thailand---only planned
    4. Games 
     |-- Haven't touched any games this year...
    5. Recreational sports
     | -- 1. I played less basketball, and played once in a while
     |-- 2. I learned to play badminton and met a bunch of friends.
     |-- 3. Learn to play billiards, at least not let the rookie abuse again.
     |-- 4. I only lasted for 60 days in running, and I agreed to exercise...
    6. Reading plan 
     |-- Read "Out of the Software Workshop"
     |-- Read "My Success Can Be Replicated"
     |-- Reading "The Thoughts of Software Engineering Practitioners"
    7. Others
     |-- Cherish and sincerely thank the little friends who live with us, and we will go our separate ways in another year...
     |-- The first job I have been holding on all the time
     |-- The relationship with my colleagues is getting more and more Good
     |-- I want to work hard to achieve the treatment I want, work hard to do my job well, and improve. 
     |-- Using EDaily Notepad, the mistakes or technical points encountered will be recorded 
     |-- After looking at the Alipay bill, I feel that it no longer belongs to me, and the balance in it is close to 0.
     |-- I like photography, I bought a DSLR and only played it once or twice...
     |-- I bought a house this year, in order to find a little sense of belonging...   
     |-- Brother He Hao buys lottery tickets twice a week, Brother Hao has been dreaming of a BMW car and a villa, and whoever hits 500W will send a BMW car to the other party.
     |-- I encountered a perverted verification code, I didn't get a train ticket, and I don't know how to get back.
    
    About mentality, being a person, doing things
    1, have empathy. Empathy is "do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself". To compare the heart to the heart is to put oneself in the shoes to feel and understand others.
    2. Empathy is very important, don't always think that everything is right.
    3. Don't be stingy in helping others.
    4. It is my duty to find a solution to the problem.
    5. Try not to say "it's not me, I don't".

     About the disadvantages:
     1. Stress and unsatisfactory things can easily lead to large emotional fluctuations, and you need to control your emotions.
     2. Talking is too direct, it needs to be more euphemistic to be more acceptable.
     3. You need to pay attention to the way you communicate with your colleagues, and sometimes you insist too much on yourself.
   

      Perception, action, and good habits:
     1. Don't say the word "impossible".
     2. The first reaction to everything is to find a way, not an excuse.
     3. Don't say negative things, don't fall into negative emotions, and deal with them positively once they appear.
     4. Set goals in advance, and try to make a "dream version".
     5. If you plan in advance, try to visualize the goal as much as possible.
     6. During working hours, every minute and every second do what is beneficial to the work.
     7. Use piecemeal time at any time to do or think piecemeal work.
     8. Write it down, don't rely on your brain to remember.
     9. Record inspiration at any time.
     10. Write down important methods and concepts, and post them to remind yourself at any time.
     11. Walk 30% faster than usual, with healthy and powerful body language, not slack or sluggish.
     12. Look in the mirror before going out every day and give yourself a confident smile.
     13. Remind yourself once a day and exercise once a day.
     14. The voice of speaking is powerful, and the feeling of your own voice can produce an infectious magnetic field.
     15. Before speaking, consider how the other person feels.
     16. Listen attentively without interrupting each other's speech, and do not speak to others in a tone of reprimand or accusation.
     17. Control yourself, don't always defend yourself first.
     18. Do one more "extraordinary thing" every day.
     19. Set goals and make a little progress every day.
     20. Go to work 15 minutes earlier and leave work 30 minutes later every day.

      Time has gone round and round, 2016 is coming, there are eager expectations and a hopeful future, whether you want it or not, come to all, don't let the unknown imagination hesitate to move forward!
     Be prepared to go all out, sweat as much as you can, and remove the embarrassment of the past. In the new year, you are not afraid of hardships and fatigue. You must make better results to live up to your efforts.
     After thinking about what is most precious, treat our good people with sincerity, take care of our hearts, not eat well in the new year, sleep well, be healthy, and feel good, work well, be good Make money to live a better life.
    In the new year, be serious about people, be serious about things, and believe in seriousness, in order to gain people's hearts, no longer impulsive, no longer hypocritical, understand and calm, so that you will not mess with your heart.
    In the new year, let the smiles be more and the sadness be less. Our life is not long. I hope that the feelings will not hurt the heart all the time.
    In the new year, we wish to have more success and less failure. We have few dreams and hope that time will not always make life hesitant.
    In the new year, even if you are getting old, you must live a more beautiful self. Even if there is wind and rain, you must come out of a stronger self!