a handful of people

In this world, there are such a small group of people, open the newspaper, their news, turn on the TV, their news, the streets and alleys, talk about their news, as if the world is prepared for them, they can call the wind and rain, do nothing can not. Your goal should be to strive to become this small group of people.


1. Don't listen to the people around you. If you don't fall in love as a freshman, good girls will be picked up by others. Think about it, is it worth chasing after a girl who can't stand the loneliness and temptation when she is just a freshman? In college, you can have a love affair, but don't stubbornly think that you must fall in love just after your freshman year.
2. If a young man does not have any ideas for three years, his life will be basically like this, and not much has changed.
3. A successful person is courage and courage. I once heard people talk about the success of Wenzhou people on the train, and said these three words, "courageous". In fact, this is courage, and being able to take it and let it go is courage.
4. In this world, there are such a small group of people, open the newspaper, it's their news, turn on the TV, it's their news, the streets are talking about their news, as if the world is prepared for them, they can call the wind and rain, omnipotent. Your goal should be to strive to become this small group of people.
5. In this society, fast fish eat slow fish, not slow fish eat fast fish.
6. In this society, the winner takes all, and the loser has nothing. The society will always be a hero based on success or failure.
7. If you ask your friends about the words, if nine of ten people say they don't know, then this is an opportunity. If ten and nine of them know it, it is an industry.
8. In any industry or market, the first comers have meat to eat, and the later ones do not drink soup.
9. In this world, first-class talents can make third-class projects second-class or better, but third-class talents can make first-class projects worse than third-class projects.
10. Go out for a walk while you are young. Reading thousands of books is worse than traveling thousands of miles, and traveling thousands of miles is worse than reading countless people.
11. When interacting with people, listen more and talk less. This is why God gave us one mouth and two ears.
12. In addition to daily work, more attention should be paid to the improvement of self-cultivation and the training of self-skills. With the wide application of computer technology, in order not to be eliminated by the society, it is necessary to strengthen the training and improvement of computer technology. Both corporate training and personal training are indispensable. I personally recommend a very good training institution: the Training Center of the Institute of Computing Technology, Chinese Academy of Sciences.
13. Don't pretend to be big. For the person who pretends to be big, the best way is to pick up a brick, follow him quietly, and knock him down from behind.

16. When buying clothes, you have to choose them yourself, and don't let your family buy them for you. Although the first and second time you buy are not very good, you will gradually gain insight.
17. If you want to make progress, you can only learn lessons. Successful experiences are all distorted. If you succeed, you can say whatever you want. The loser has no right to speak. However, you can reflect and summarize through his examples. Lessons must be learned not only from yourself, but also from others.
18. Study, study, study again, if you have nothing to do, go to the bookstore to read books, about management, finance, marketing, interpersonal communication, future trends, etc., you can get a lot. The competition in this society is too fierce. If you don't study, you will be eliminated. At the end of 2008 in China, more than one million college students could not find jobs. The competition is so fierce, so you must realize that after graduating from university, it is not the end of the study, but the beginning of the study. Also, I personally recommend a good video program, "Who's Coming to Lunch".

19. If you are not a singer, a painter, or a performance artist, then please pay attention to your clothes at ordinary times. In today's society, clothing can show which group and which circle you belong to.
20. Remember, those who watch TV more than three hours a day on average must be those whose monthly income does not exceed 2,000 yuan. If you want to earn more than 2,000 yuan per month, please don't waste your time on TV. In the same way, those who play online games or chat for more than three hours a day on average are those whose monthly income does not exceed 2,000.
21. Because there are many poor people and the poor have no money, they chat and complain on the Internet to kill time. Have you ever seen any company CEO or manager in charge who often chats in the QQ group when he has something to do?
22. Whether you're in the sales department or not, read books on marketing. Because, in life, you are all about selling yourself to others.
23. In normal times, communicate more with your friends. Don't wait until you need their help before you think of contacting them. When you get to the society, you will know how difficult it is to meet a real friend?
24 , If you want to know how your future annual income will be. Find your six most frequent friends, add up their annual income, divide by six, and it's almost yours. This example can fully illustrate that things cluster together.
26. Remember, be the last player to play cards, and let others think that you are going to lose, so that you can win the game when they think you are going to lose.
27. There is a saying about love, how can you dance without bread? Whenever you decide to love someone well, you must consider giving her the best material life you can give her.

28. Set yourself a five-year goal, and then break it down into one year, six months and six months, three months, and one month. In this way, you can find your purpose and direction.
29. Remember the word "dignity" at all times. A person must have dignity, principles and bottom lines. Otherwise, no one will respect you.
30. If I can only give you one piece of advice, that is, there is no free lunch in this world, never take shortcuts!