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Hi! Fortunately, God gave you to me, because of you, we are so lucky and happy, you are the greatest pride in our life. Child, I also came to this strange world from crying and crying, from ignorance to slowly becoming familiar with and understanding of life. Now that I am in my thirties, I have achieved nothing. I am extremely ashamed to face the person who gave birth to me and the person I gave birth to. Today, I will use my failed life experience to add some positive energy to the growth of the children, hoping to avoid a few detours for your future life.
1. Please read more and enrich your experience
Child, when I was your age, my academic performance was so-so, and I always felt that the results of good reading and bad reading were the same. Now, working in a fiercely competitive environment, I really realized that when the book is used up, I will hate it less and regret it later. If I could study hard at the beginning, my living condition and work environment would definitely be different. Most of the classmates who used to study hard have started their own businesses and become their own bosses. Some people sit in the spacious and bright office to plan and strategize. Many of those classmates who didn't study hard are now carrying bricks in sweat under the scorching sun, but their monthly salaries are pitifully small, and they can't make ends meet with thrifty. Fortunately, child, you are better than me, better than me, and you have more time to make yourself better. Children, the books you read more today are the wings that fly tomorrow. Learn more today, and say less asking for help tomorrow. Reading more will give you more choices and decision-making powers, which will help you in your future work, life, love, and marriage. Your temperament, cultivation, and every word and deed can vividly and delicately reflect your extraordinaryness. . Even if you are just an ordinary person in the end, reading more books now will add fun to your future life, broaden your horizons, strengthen your heart, and make you richer and different from others. When people who read a lot are happy, they will say: "The spring equinox is proud of horseshoes, and I can see all the Chang'an flowers in one day." Instead of: "Haha, it's cool"; people who read a lot will say when they are sad: "Ask you how much sorrow can you have? , just like a river of spring water flowing eastward." Instead of: "Blue and thin mushrooms." This difference is invisible in one or two days, January and two months, and over time will tell you truthfully: more reading and less reading There are differences between people, both materially and spiritually, and there is a world of difference.
2. Cultivate hobbies and improve skills
When I was your age, when I saw other people paint, sing, dance, play the harmonica... I would envy it, and I wanted to learn it for three minutes, but I couldn't do the same after that. I didn't have any hobbies and skills. Body, in the crowd as common as a passerby. Each of us is unique when we are born, and some people walk and live to become cottages. Boy, I hope you don't lose your personal interests and hobbies besides studying. If you like something, do it bravely, work hard to persevere, persevere, and let your hobbies pave a colorful road for growth. When one day you really step into the society and can turn your hobby into your own career, or stand out from the crowd with your own skills, you will be grateful for your choice and persistence today.
3. If you want to win, learn to lose first
In this world, no one can succeed casually, and there is no one step to the sky. If you want to win, lose first. If you lose, you will win. If you win once, you may not win again and again; if you lose once, you may not win again and again. If you win, don't be complacent; if you lose, don't underestimate yourself. Losing without losing your mind, winning without losing your composure, winning and losing are normal in life. If you take winning or losing too seriously, you will be very tired. You must learn to play lightly. If you fall, you must stand up bravely, face it with a smile, and start all over again. Don't complain about life and others, suffer your own pain and endure your own pain, so you have to walk the road by yourself. Those beautiful people who have succeeded and won have put in a hundred times more effort and hardship than ordinary people in private, and only with sweat and blood and tears can the fruits of their achievements be poured out. The success of others cannot be copied, but they can be learned and learned from. I hope you can absorb nutrients from your failures again and again, and slowly sharpen yourself, armed forces, and ready to go.
4. Be kind, don't forget to be sharp
Kindness is a kind of innate, imperceptible words and deeds. First of all, you have to learn to be polite and respect everyone and everything around you. Second, you have to learn to smile, learn to listen, and learn to praise. A good word is warm in three springs, and a bad word hurts in the cold in June. Be warm and friendly, but don't open the scars when you meet people, because you don't know whether they are giving you salt or medicine; learn to communicate effectively, but don't hurt people with words, don't mix up others In disputes and conflicts; there must be a view of right and wrong, what should be done and what should not be done. In the face of the help of good people, you must be sincere and sincere; in the face of the temptation and deception of bad people, you must know how to protect yourself, learn to detour, and seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. There is indeed some injustice and darkness in this society, but as long as you have a kind heart, life is full of beautiful scenery. Child, it's true to be kind, but when you stay kind, don't forget to be sharp, calm, but not cold; firm, but not hard.
5. Be grateful and helpful
Tagore once said: "The world kisses me with pain, and I want to repay it with a song." Gratitude is the most difficult practice in our life that we persist in our whole life. We live in this world, and we enjoy gifts from all aspects every day and every moment. The amount of gratitude we have in our hearts, the amount of fun in life; the amount of grievances in life, the amount of pain in our hearts. Ordinary days, you can't bear the kindness of parenting, the kindness of good teachers, the care of classmates, the hand-in-hand feeling of friends...Children, when you are not able to be grateful, please keep in mind the little bit of others The kindness; when you have the ability to give back, don't forget your original intention and help more people. Starting today, please warm the people around you with your actions.
6, the interests are bearish, make more friends
As the saying goes: follow the flies to find the toilet, follow the powder to find the flowers. In real life, who you are with is very important, it can even change the trajectory of growth, and determine your success or failure in life. With what kind of people, what kind of life will be. With diligent people, you will not be lazy; with active people, you will not be depressed. Children, please take the initiative to move closer to good students and excellent people, to be in the company of wise people, to be in the company of experts, to learn from them, to be friends with them, to take advantage of others' strengths to complement one's weaknesses, and to constantly improve and enrich yourself. You can't see the sun because you are in the dark. If you want to shine, you have to stretch your legs to chase the sun. What a person believes, what will his future be near! May your pride come from your hard work. Children, you must have an open mind and learn to be calm and calm. You must learn to look down on gains and losses, and strive to achieve what you want, not your greed. There can be arrogance in the heart, but not arrogance.
7. Honest and trustworthy, adhere to the principle
"If you want to be a master, you must be determined." Anyone who achieves great things and great things abides by integrity and morality. Remember, children: You must be honest and trustworthy. You must return the stationery and things you have picked up from your classmates, keep your promises when you promise others, and fulfill them in a timely manner. Children, only by being real and honest can you win the respect of others and gain a firm foothold in today's cruel society. Don't compare yourself with your classmates, develop bad habits, smoke, drink and play games in Internet cafes; actively face up to your own problems and learn to forgive and tolerate others' shortcomings and imperfections. If you can't stand the temptation to do something you shouldn't do, you will be punished and take your due responsibility. You can make mistakes, but you must correct them in a timely manner.
Child, a self-disciplined person has a subtle influence deep into his bones. If you can't even control what you say or do, how can you control your life and control your own destiny? Children, sunshine always comes after wind and rain, and success always comes after hard work. Say a thousand words and ten thousand, it is better for you to try it yourself. Work hard today, far from bowing your head to ask for help in the future, or being a hundred times stronger than before. What kind of life and life is your own, and no one has the right or qualification to impose it on you.
Lin Zexu once said something thought-provoking: "If Zi is stronger than me, what's the use of asking for money, if you are wise and talented, you will damage your ambition; if Zi is not as good as me, what's the use of keeping money, if you are stupid and rich, it will increase your faults." , I have nothing to give you, only hope that you can be honest, brave and independent. I look forward to one day in the future when you can tell me in person: "You have done it all." My child, no matter how the world changes, you still have a long way to go in your life. Please keep these four words in mind and practice them: self-cultivation rooted in your heart, no need to remind self-awareness, freedom premised on ending, kindness for others. My child, I sincerely wish you to be healthy, happy, and be your own unique self.