1. Let the children do their homework actively
Your child is very obedient and a docile horse, but it is often said that "the horse can be taken to the river, but not the water." Indeed, unless a horse is very thirsty, even if it can be brought to the water's edge, it is not possible to make him drink of his own accord.
The first trick is not to spend too much time doing homework.
The second measure is to magnify the advantages of children.
The third measure, learning can not be rushed.
The fourth trick is to let him bring the girl he likes home.
The fifth trick, let the children play enough
The sixth trick is to stimulate her and make him go all out.
The seventh trick is the opposite.
The eighth trick is to change the learning environment frequently.
The ninth trick, make a homework schedule.
The tenth trick is to let the children do the homework they are good at first.
Eleventh trick, let the children draw lots to decide.
Twelfth trick, don't judge teachers in front of children.
2. How to make children obedient and sensible
When communicating with a child, be sure to listen to him carefully and let him feel that his parents value and respect him, so that the child's little self-esteem will be built up, and he will also seriously think about his own thoughts in the conversation with adults. What to do and what to do, express one's own opinion, which also has a good help for children's rational thinking habits. Of course, when adults communicate with children, they should also pay attention to some details, so that they can communicate with children quickly and well.
The first trick is to praise the child through the mouth of a third party.
The second trick is to use letters or diaries to communicate emotions with children.
The third trick is to speak in a soft tone.
The fourth trick is to let the child know where the mistake is in time.
The fifth trick is to cleverly divert the child's attention.
The sixth trick is to mingle with the child.
The seventh trick is to explain only one thing at a time.
The eighth trick, often expressing trust in children.
The ninth measure, only provide constructive comments.
Tenth trick, don't blame the child who has been frustrated.
The eleventh trick is to correct the child's bad life details in time.
The twelfth trick is to affirm the child with words of appreciation.
How to guide children to be proactive
There is a saturation principle, which is the usual boredom of children. Although I have a strong desire to have a purpose, I can also experience the fun of getting things done, but because of the many courses that create resistance in my heart, I can’t continue to take the initiative to do things. If the level of requirements is lowered, the weight of the coursework will be reduced, and continue to cultivate children at a low ebb. If the vitality of the time, then after the low tide, they will have a sense of responsibility and take the initiative to do their homework.
The first measure is to appropriately reduce the requirements for children
The second trick is to let the children do subjects they don't like first.
The third trick is to use the same pace to enhance the initiative
The fourth trick, let the child suffer first
The fifth trick, interest is the best teacher
The sixth measure, the mother's motivation is the most important
The seventh trick, to change the child, first change your attitude
Tip 8: Speak to Your Child Occasionally With Pleading Evidence
The ninth trick is not to scold your child when he is frustrated
The tenth trick is to give the child appropriate remuneration is also effective
The eleventh trick, bring more children to be close to nature
Twelfth trick, success is not as hard as you think
The thirteenth trick, cultivate children's active self-motivation
The fourteenth trick, turning anger into motivation for learning
Fourth, how to teach children to manage emotions
Adolescent children are often dissatisfied with their parents, because the self-requirements that come with growing up always conflict with their parents' regulations. Parents must try their best to overcome this transitional difficulty and let their children mature and grow up smoothly.
The first trick to guide children to express their dissatisfaction
The second measure allows children to have the right to choose their own topics
The third measure is to listen carefully to the dissatisfied voice of the child
The fourth trick is to change the role of the customer to a child
Tip 5: Don't let busy work be your excuse
The sixth measure is to deal with unreasonable demands of children in a democratic way
The seventh trick is to persuade education by retreating
The eighth trick uses practical pros and cons to deal with wayward attitudes
The ninth trick pays attention to guiding children's herd mentality
Tenth trick to give children a space to vent
Five, how to make children love learning
Under the cramming education model, learning itself is a modal process, not even liking it or not. No matter whether the child is interested in learning or not, they have to sit at the desk and read the textbook over and over again. It is also a cause of fatigue in children.
The first trick is to tell your children some inspirational stories
The second trick is to inspire your child with recent learning goals
The third trick to distract the child's attention is also very important
The fourth trick to get rid of the habit of children's three-minute heat
The fifth trick is to promote learning by increasing appetite
The sixth trick to teach children to learn to preserve strength
The seventh trick is the right amount of exercise can make children's brains more flexible
The eighth trick to promote children's learning
The ninth trick uses crisis awareness to promote learning efficiency
Tenth tip to keep learning content fresh
The eleventh trick uses different subjects to adjust the reading atmosphere
The twelfth trick deliberately changes the child's learning environment
Six, how to eliminate children's learning tension
As parents, we must understand the truth and try our best to give children appropriate counseling and comfort, so that children can get rid of the anxiety of worrying about gains and losses, and often use an optimistic and humorous tone to relieve children’s hidden fears and make them have a high degree of self-confidence. Heart and courage to face the challenges that come one after another.
The first trick is to accompany the child to make him feel safe
The second trick downplays the child's failure with an optimistic and humorous tone
The third trick is to say a month as thirty days
The fourth measure pays more attention to the importance of children's psychological construction
The fifth measure of breathing can regulate children's emotions
The sixth trick is to deliberately say the wrong thing in front of the child
The seventh trick mascot stabilizes the mood
The eighth measure to resolve accumulated worries and relieve tension
Seven, how to make children focus
Mothers should adjust the progress of their homework moderately, rather than stick to the established plan, so that they can achieve both performance and performance. Some children even read books on the side, while envy other people's playfulness, dissatisfaction hidden in their hearts, and more. It will affect his interest in reading in the future.
The first roundabout suggestion technique
The second measure is to formulate an irregular segmented timetable
The third trick of the alarm clock
The fourth trick is to build a flexible homework schedule
The fifth trick removes the lax awareness of "can do it anytime"
The sixth trick is to deliberately and moderately assign children to do housework
The seventh trick to let children guess the questions to improve the concentration of the exam
The eighth trick warm-up is essential
The ninth trick uses "quantity" to drive forward
Eight, how to eliminate the confusion of children's learning
For mothers, the little things that are insignificant in their eyes are sometimes a heavy burden on their children's hearts. Therefore, mothers should always put themselves in the children's shoes and help their children solve life problems as a bystander.
The first trick to guide children to make the most correct choice
The Induced Inquiry Method in the Second Choice Decision
The third trick is to ask clever questions on the premise of a choice
The fourth trick is that the milk of black cows is also white
The fifth trick is to pull out the fog of panic
Sixth, is it natural for the boat to go straight to the bridge?
The seventh trick is the most profound experience
The eighth stroke of fate is hidden in our minds
Nine, how to cultivate children's self-confidence
The value of life depends on us! Tell the child that people are unique as independent individuals, and never forget this, let the child know the value of his existence, enhance his confidence, and work harder to create his own personality and future
The first trick is to tell your child that he is priceless
The second trick is to get kids to do things that are easy to do
The third trick minimizes the child's mistakes and highlights their achievements
The fourth measure pays attention to the efforts of children
Tip 5: Praise Before You Blame Your Child
The sixth measure strengthens the advantages to make the child keep making progress
The seventh trick uses high goals to build children's self-confidence
The eighth trick is to use "original dependence" to build mutual trust with children
The ninth trick parents don't blame each other in front of their children
The tenth trick is not to blame the child in front of a third party
The eleventh trick to make children believe that the god of luck will come at any time
The twelfth trick allows children to recall past achievements to rebuild confidence
Ten, how to eliminate the child's inferiority complex
Eliminating inferiority complex and cultivating self-confidence are actually two sides of the same body, and the two must complement each other. However, the self-confidence skills mentioned in the previous chapter are not aimed at children with low ability, that is to say, for children with defects or poor grades. Poor children often fail to function. This chapter is different from the previous chapter, and can be widely applied to children with low ability.
The first move from "deficiency awareness" to total denial
The second trick is to use affirmative sentences frequently
The third trick is that mothers and children should also talk about skills
The fourth trick is to use specific reasons to ease the knot in the child's heart
The fifth trick uses words to eradicate children's psychological barriers
The sixth trick to let children read the biographies of the world's great people
The seventh trick allows children to objectively face peers with excellent grades
The eighth trick to cultivate some special talents in children
The ninth trick uses luck to weaken children's inferiority complex
11. How to turn a child's shortcomings into advantages
Because the mother will often remind and correct the shortcomings, the child will be aware of it. However, the child with high self-demand will often worry about his own shortcomings, so the mother's direct scolding will often have the opposite effect, making him less confident.
The first trick is to use appropriate methods to make children face up to their shortcomings
The second trick is to blame other children for their faults in front of children
The third trick is to distinguish whether it is a weakness or a personality
The fourth trick is to change the child's position and let him be self-disciplined
The fifth trick child's disadvantages and advantages are interchangeable
The sixth measure indirectly eliminates the child's desire and dissatisfaction
The seventh trick uses the suggestive effect of a moderate punishment or threat
The eighth trick uses self-talk to hint at the child's shortcomings
The ninth trick does not use authority to suppress children's resistance
The tenth trick to encourage children to "do more than what they can"
Eleventh trick, kid, you can do it