You have gone through your third year of high school, but it's not black for you, it's just a feeling of tension than usual. Deep down you haven't really understood what it means to work hard for your goals. In this comparison In the process of pale, you have lost an opportunity to forge yourselves.
It is nothing to lose an opportunity for a person, but it is in the loss of this time and again that many people lose their successful life. So, my classmates, what have you lost? Black is oppressive and dull, but behind it, it represents maturity and atmosphere. In the college life you experienced, have you spent a lot of time overwhelmed, spent a lot of time in bed in a dormitory, spent a lot of time chatting on QQ, and spent a lot of time fighting in online games .
One semester, one year, two years passed... Suddenly I found that I hadn't listened carefully to a few classes, although the classes for you were all at the lecturer level; I suddenly found that I hadn't read a few books seriously, although The library at your university has a large collection of books; suddenly you find yourself not learning something, although there is a lot to learn at the university. Are you now passing the final exam, not worrying about achieving excellence, and thinking about various ways not to be lit red lights: surprise study, cheating on exams, treats and gifts, praying alone...
1. Is going to university to enjoy life or to shape oneself?
In the college life you have experienced, many of your classmates have reflected such a problem: they don't know what they are going to do in a day, or they don't work hard. This is a very common phenomenon among students who are new to college because you have lost your purpose. For many students, university is the final stage of your studies. After college, you need to find a job, but it still seems so out of reach for you who have been students for twelve years. There is no teacher in the university who will revolve around you, and it is entirely up to you to learn or not. Without you who couldn’t finish your homework before, you feel that the class is empty for you, so what if you study it, and what if you don’t study it? Instead of making yourself study so hard, it is better to let yourself live a little more free and easy. No one tells you what you should be doing, leaving you feeling overwhelmed.
Most of you lack mental independence and good self-control, and you simply cannot grasp these seemingly excessive freedoms. What kind of person you want to be, and what kind of business you want to do, these have no concept for you. From my ideal in elementary school, to my future in junior high school, to my university in high school, to my confusion in college, you have completed the transformation of your life goals in the process, and the last remaining is the dead bug Skin. Precisely because you have lost your purpose, a ship without direction, no wind is a tailwind. I believe that if every classmate has a goal, you will have a fulfilling life, a busy life, and a lot. So ask each student to set a goal for themselves. Life is like a chocolate box, you never know what the next one will be like!
Some people may ask this question: Why do other people live their lives freely, but I have to work hard. I replaced it with another question: Is going to college to enjoy life or to shape yourself. When many students first entered the university, they tried to run for the student union, officers and cadres of various clubs. Afterwards, many classmates expressed such emotion: It is unfair, everything depends on relationships. I would like to ask, the school is still like this, what about the society? Isn't the society more thoroughly playing with power, relationships, and money? In the future, why do you have a foothold in society? If you want power without power, if you want relationships, it doesn't matter, if you want money without money, what else is there? When you graduate from college, but you suddenly find that apart from getting a college diploma, you haven't learned any really good skills, except you can talk about some deep topics, maybe your job is just a nicer name. That's it, maybe anyone can do it. Will you still be blaming others by then? Each of us wants to live a high-quality life, wants our loved ones to live a worry-free life, and wants to leave traces of our own worth in the world, but these cannot be achieved through enjoyment. God has given each of us a pair of hands and a brain, just to let us create and think. This period of university is the best time for you to study, so please give up your enjoyment, reshape yourself hard, and gather strength for your future take-off.
Second, the flood of feelings is only regarded as a need!
Since we are talking about college life, then love must be talked about. There are adolescent boys and girls in college, and love inevitably happens here. But I don't know when, this normal can no longer be normal, but it has never been questioned: the current college students are overflowing with emotions. Nowadays, the emotions of college students are mixed with too much utilitarianism, desire, and indulgence. Every year at graduation, couples have their last meal, last hug, and one last kiss, then turn away and embark on their own journeys, forgetting the relationship as if it never happened. Love is just treated as a need.
There are many people who want to catch love or be caught by love. But I hope your love is sincere, serious, pure, and true. If you think he is handsome and want to fall in love with him, please think twice; if you think she is beautiful and want to fall in love with her, please think again; if you feel lonely and want to find someone to fall in love with, please think again ; If you are in a relationship with someone just because you heard a few words from your friend, please give up. The word "love" has actually clearly indicated its object: the word "friend" below indicates that you should know him (her) well, and that he (she) should be your friend; "ㄇ" indicates that you want to be among these friends Choose carefully between them; "ノ" means that you can only choose one of them as your lover, and the others can only be your friends.
Please cherish your emotions, otherwise it will become cheap. what is love? You should know this in your heart. I think: being attracted because of excellence, being loved because of being attracted, and learning to love because of being loved, this is the process of love.
3. Responsibility is pre-determined by mature thinking!
If I remember correctly, your annual tuition is more than 5,000 yuan, and the highest has reached more than 10,000 yuan. In addition to your living expenses and other expenses, most of them can reach more than 15,000 yuan. You are now studying in a university. , is receiving a high-cost education, but how much output did your parents get from your high investment? Most of you are from rural areas or small business families. No one has a fortune at home. Every penny you use now is the hard-earned money earned by your parents, or even borrowed from everywhere. with love for you. On their old faces scarred by the years, there are also a pair of eyes full of hope for you, those eyes that are cloudy and even a little fuzzy. Responsibilities are not given to you by others, but by your own mature thoughts.
You all say that you have grown up, you all say that you are mature, but I think that at 20, you are only a kind of mature maturity. You have a responsibility to your parents that you can never shirk, but you gave up your mission in inaction and depravity. After the end of the semester, when you come back home for the New Year, your parents still dote on you, still have hope for you, and still give you advice, but you have no apology at all, don’t talk about your studies at all, or even Don't show them the report card, hide in a corner and sign the name that should have been signed by them.
It's hard to build something, but it's easy to destroy something, classmates, please remember and accept your responsibilities to your parents.
Conclusion:
There was another tickle noise in QQ; there was another exciting sound of fighting in online games; under the street lights by the lake stood a couple of couples leaning against each other; Money at your fingertips... There are too many college students who are messing around with you, and they live a dashing life that their peers yearn for; you have to endure loneliness and loneliness, which seems to be incompatible with college life. But successful and great people are lonely and lonely, and they have cultivated their super perseverance and extraordinary wisdom in the process of enduring; there are too many temptations in the university, you need to reject these temptations, in the eyes of others they are like Walking through the university like an ascetic...