"There is a well-known saying that our biggest opponent is ourselves. Many people agree with this sentence. In fact, our life ultimately comes down to our ability to overcome our own weaknesses and continue to output. This is who we are. Fight with yourself."
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No matter how the environment changes,
can we maintain a stable output every day
For example, writing a public account. In fact, I understand that the success is very simple. It is not how many fans or reading volume, but whether I can maintain an article every day, no matter what problems I encounter or festivals. What emergency situation should be dealt with.
Can I keep the output of one article every day? If I can guarantee it, then I have succeeded. We have always wanted to improve our abilities. In fact, it is very simple to do it every day, and write every day. For example, if you are a technical person, write some technical-related articles every day.
And persist for a long time, continue to output, in fact, this is a success.
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What is the purpose of fighting with yourself
Is to help others and self
Why do we seriously do something interesting every day, such as work, exercise, writing, reading, etc., because we love these things, and we like the feeling that these things bring to others. And doing these things is not prohibited by law.
A person can have thousands of changes, and there will be differences between the surface expression and inner thoughts or actual actions. A person may be willing to laugh very much, but his heart may plot evil tricks. And it was shown in the action that the so-called hiding a knife in a smile means this.
Therefore, the most important thing for a person is his motivation, whether he has the motivation to love others to do things. Not willing to hurt others, but also protect yourself. All the hidden things will eventually be revealed.
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We have to fight our own evil thoughts,
Beat the body so that the body becomes our slave
We have to constantly fight our own evil thoughts in our lives. We are all imperfect and have a natural tendency to make mistakes. We work hard to manage our thoughts and emotions so that we can be in this world of all kinds of people. Be pure and joyful.
There are actually many painful things in the real world, such as our health with our families, relationships, work, and relationships with others. We have learned some bad ways to deal with relationships with others from our past experiences, so we can't have a very harmonious relationship with others.
These all require us to practice and deliberately cultivate. If we truly love others reasonably and have wise love, we will be willing to tolerate others’ shortcomings, look at their strengths, and give them time to grow, trusting them. the future of.
Of course, we also know that their happiness and joy are their own responsibility. It is their own business. We only play a supporting role. If they are unwilling to improve themselves, then decisively giving up is also a respect for others. .
How good are we ourselves? In fact, there are a lot of shortcomings, and continuous improvement is needed.
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If you have love for people and continue to output positively,
even if you reach the value of life
Our value is actually how much value we can give to others, help others to fulfill their needs, or improve their cognitive level, these are the manifestations of our value.
A person’s power is small. Only by relying on the power of others can he help more people in a limited time, and he can help others and of course he is also a beneficiary in the process, and he has the joy of helping others. .
Doing so is a valuable life. People are willing to ask, not to give, and get more of what they want, so how to teach people how to fish instead of receiving people to fish seems valuable. And we must know how to stop when we help, and we must be able to stop to a certain extent.
This is an act of great wisdom. And these all need to fight with their own humanity. So the person who truly defeats himself is the person who manages himself well and also defeats the world.