The editor spent five months lurking in the technical exchange group to see the different choices of different people. The "I" in the following text is the editor's general process from the position of a painful learner.
My friend and I joined a technical exchange group at almost the same time, and our level can be said to be equal, but I always feel that my IQ is higher than his. Because I chose a different learning method, five months have passed, and I have learned a little knowledge, and the landlord has to sweep me out, and he has already got an offer with an annual salary of 40w+, which has made me doubt my life.
His post as proof that year
Self-study situation after May
September is the season for planting after the autumn harvest. We got acquainted with the programming industry. Because of different personalities, he belongs to the accomplishment personality. As long as he thinks it is feasible, he will not have too much ties to act. He feels that the high tuition fees will apply if It is also worthwhile to be able to exchange for success, so he resolutely chooses to study big data in sadness, but I am a skeptical (loyal) personality, and I feel that I should learn in the most secure way without fielding the quality of teaching. More beneficial to yourself.
I think I was still complacent about self-study and being able to learn the basics. With the passage of time, I found that the two of us have formed a sharp contrast in technology and vision. When I was still complaining about poor English vocabulary and I couldn't figure out how to overcome it, he had followed the classmates to start morning reading enthusiastically, and at the same time opened Jinshan Typing to strengthen the spelling of words. The emotional performance in the learning process is completely at two extremes, and I can listen to the changes in my mental state, and he can easily pick a pour object to quickly resolve bad emotions.
My study materials actually took a long time before I felt it was a complete set of materials, and he actually didn't realize my pain of finding materials at all. Because his information is gradually sent to his own hands with the teacher’s lectures every day, and at the same time he has mastered at least 50% of the content when the information is in his hands, and he is no longer a beginner when looking at the information. Know how to use the handshake header information, and the time utilization is absolutely efficient and focused.
In this era when programming tests IQ, I have to admit that the reason why I think his IQ is not as good as mine is that his IQ has not been developed before, and now his way of thinking is by no means under mine. At first, I heard him complain that it felt meaningless to do a programming problem for a few days. Later, he thought that he had an enlightenment to see things in his own way, whether from thinking mode or macro control. He was very grateful for giving himself during the learning process. This kind of teaching session is arranged.
When it comes to teaching skills, he is even more excited. Not all teachers can let you get through the six channels of Rendu and get excited about learning things. He has always appreciated the teacher's teaching. In the process of learning, I repeatedly doubted the content of the lecturer's teaching and my study habits. Later, he sent me a video of a teacher lecturer class, I was really excited to cry!
Five months have passed, and the trajectories of our two lives have been divided into two levels. I'm sorry for five months, but he cheered for the new challenge. Next, I think it's time to clean up and make a choice. Choice is very important. We may not be able to change our personality, but we can be more decisive in the future. I would like to give this document to young people who are more entangled and often complain about the unfairness of life.