A person's mind is the sum of all the knowledge and experience gained in the past (including the thinking methods and thinking modes based on these knowledge and experience).
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There is only one kind of failure.
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An important starting point for "learning" is to learn at least one skill. No matter how simple or common this skill is, after learning, it is always possible for learners to understand the big difference brought about by "acquisition". Once you have a starting point, the desire to learn will be like a germinated seed, no matter how big the stone can't hold back-it will grow stronger and stronger. In fact, those who refuse to learn or accidentally suffer from demonizing the word "learning" are really pitiful. They struggle every day to want to "manage time", "cherish life", "improve efficiency" "But they didn't know that they didn't want to spend more than ten minutes studying at the beginning, which caused them to do a lot of things and miss many opportunities, and they didn't even have a good life.
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Don't refuse to learn.
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Many times, people's kindness comes from weakness, and their brutality only comes from fear.
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Excellent leadership can bring people where they want to go; and excellent leadership can bring people where they should go but never think about going. (15)
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The road is long, and I will search for it up and down
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Independent thinking (3) is only when you know a conclusion from others, re-invent it yourself, see if there are any loopholes and unreasonable points in the process of drawing the conclusion, and measure whether the conclusion is reasonable.
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To be a person with heart, to do things with heart, because this world actually also has "heart
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If a person does not do things, he will not expose his shortcomings, because people will only expose shortcomings when doing things.
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The successful person is afraid that his vested interests will be damaged, so when "sharing" the successful experience, he magically exaggerates the various obstacles he encounters, but at the same time, he does not mention the "luck" that plays a decisive role; Enjoy the "sharing" of the winners eagerly, and secretly rejoice in the subconscious when I hear that the winners have encountered insurmountable difficulties and died for a lifetime-there is a reason why I did not succeed!
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The following sentences are best used frequently, because they are particularly helpful for the formation of independent thinking habits, and also have the role of stimulating thinking: ...... is one thing, and ... is another. ... and ... in fact are not the same thing at all. … Not necessarily ...… but this does not mean ...… maybe there is another possibility (explanation). ... looks like ... but ...... the facts may be far more complicated (simple) than they seem. … However, the (statement) conversely (statement) is not necessarily true, because ......... in fact, it is probably not related to ... at all. The relationship between… and… is not necessarily a pure causal relationship, they may also be causal to each other. The comparison between ... and ... may not make any sense. ...... In fact, it is just a superficial phenomenon, and the essence behind it is ... There is a premise that is usually ignored. ... Although it sounds reasonable, it is completely unrealistic. ... Maybe some people will say ... but this kind of questioning ... These sentences seem simple, but they often bring extraordinary thinking results.
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In the process of listening, we can use excess brain power to process information in two directions: "review" and "expectation".
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Must find ways to do admirable things from time to time,
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"Winning respect" is the most urgent thing to achieve, and it is absolutely impossible to achieve it by "temporarily holding the Buddha's feet". Because everyone has enough observation ability, and people will also communicate with each other, whether there is communication-the eyes of the masses are sharp. Respect can only be obtained through accumulation. This is the iron rule.
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To find yourself constantly, the true and unlimited "self" is your mentor.
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Often it is not that you are interested in doing well, but that you are interested in doing well.
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Emerson (5) said: "The weak believe in luck, the strong only look at cause and effect. (6)"
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"I am not surprised when I am here, but I am not angry without reason."
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Concentrate on doing things that can improve you, learn and possess more and better skills, and become a person worth associating with others. Learn to be independent, take the virtue of not causing trouble to others, and use your independence to win respect.
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