01
I especially like with the "not tired of people talking" association.
Such people, or particularly intelligent, one-click, you will be able to say at the beginning, he immediately understand the meaning of the following, especially feeling the "minds" of;
Either particular faith, so that you can know all laid to rest, not thousand turn 100 back pains;
Some of it, not necessarily how high communication skills, but you are in straightforward, to the point, very good.
Not tired of talking with people exchanges, cooperation or fall in love, especially comfortable, greatly reduce communication costs, without having to spend too much of our time, energy and mood.
In short, I prefer to associate with such people.
02
To communicate with a person is relaxed or tired, it will be about my impression of a person's attitude.
Although communication skills are different, and some people are good at expression, while others came close, but most of the time, attitude is everything.
Sometimes, you communicate with a person difficult, because he was always absent-minded, never stare around you carefully explain articulate, but he hum ha ha, over half a day ask you: "? What, you say what is"
I really, really hate this person.
Because this is not respect for people, such people either personal friends or my work, I will keep a respectful distance - if it is forced to work, it must also be after the completion of the work, at arm's length.
I made a few favorite photos bookstore, someone asked me if I can be forwarded circle of friends. I can say, ah, there are a few tell him where I go after the shot, there are a few I have not been to, really like to see is the online store down.
Understanding is not particularly poor, you should be able to read it?
But after a while child, he asked: "ah, these places you have been to you?"
I repeat the answer:. "Not a few of which I've been there a few have not been online to see."
He was surprised, and asked several questions do not know why, then, finally turned a circle of friends, cut the crap a few words what "I have heard these days not to install X bookstore embarrassed to say that they are intellectuals."
I immediately pulled him black.
My guess is his dual business problems, or poor communication skills led me to resentment, in short, in my judgment, such a person not only can not bring anything meaningful to me, but probably because of boredom and questions wasting my time.
Even the public never met a strange number in the reader's question, I basically would respond, but after a problem if I clearly expressed the view still kept asking questions on the same level, I could just unable to parry, fled.
Everyone makes their own security right.
03
Time is the most expensive thing.
After it is past, we'll never get it back, no matter how rich you are, multi-talented, because you will not have time docked, it has always been relentlessly past, ticking away.
I can not put myself every second is fresh, unique time, waste did not elaborate, difficult to communicate is not how to respect other people's person.
If a person's understanding a problem, then we can pay more patience, slowly explained to him - the face of the children, is not that right, when there are many problems they can not understand, we can slowly explained.
But when a person's mind because if caused by communication barriers, you really do not need that "good intentions" of the.
04
A person's ability to communicate is very important.
Express, just one of the ability to communicate, and there are many natural ingredients; if you do not then express, to be clear on it, no one you have to demanding more than taking special slip.
More critical is that you have to listen.
Listen, listen carefully, not just with the ears go, into the left ear and right ear out, when you need someone to give you feedback transfixed, when there is a problem you need to think, mind already do not know where to go , I do not think to say, the problem did not quite understand.
When talking about cooperation, sit down to a few minutes I was able to judge the person sitting across from me is what state of mind - some people mouthful "Ok", in fact, one did not take it to heart, this cooperation is generally not to;
Some people a while to answer the phone while touching the phone, the whole are very busy, they will not listen to you;
There are people who say very lively, full swing with you to discuss cooperation model to convey his ideas, but simply to talk about the topic from the twenty-five thousand, which is basically a waste of time.
This man I met more than once.
It has been removed links to me, especially the urgent cooperation of mind, so I talk to them talk about, see if I can find the point.
Less than ten minutes, I lost interest in this matter and confidence in each other the whole trip show off how good their performance, do more things perfect, I tried to change the subject pulled cooperation on this matter, they repeat "For ah see what we can cooperate point", and then went wandering ...... it was not to talk about cooperation ah, this is a victory of self-praise of the General Assembly ah?
Later, really nothing. And I have no desire to talk to them a little bit of communication, too tired to speak with them.
Not a person on the channel, as little as possible to deal with. Especially the kind of dispensable dealings, let them naturally disappear it, or you will pay too much and gain little, the key is particularly time-consuming.
05
Over the years, more and more I do not like telling people "debate."
One thing, do not have to have a conclusion, you have your opinion, I have my ideas, and everyone is different, listen to each other about each other is good, why have to fight right and wrong, or even break the death?
I for holders of "I am right" have awe, always keep a respectful distance, because they do not know when it touched his sentence paranoid ambition, have to open a debate, fight a level , well, tired ah?
I told girlfriends often express their views because of some minor thing, I say one two three, four hundred fifty-six she thought, a few words on the debate talked else to go, too lazy to continue.
My husband Clyde views and there are many very different, and we pursue is "and different", even husband and wife, there is no need to have to fight it out, the relations are not a big thing of life and death, why so serious .
When you talk to a person not tired, of course, would be willing to say a few words with him, and more exchanges with him, because you know that he is, or he disagree with you have nothing, you found that surprised also very interesting, even inspiring your thinking, so much better.
Well, I was getting tired of people can not speak with contacts, and so many interesting people in the world, funny thing, why should I be here in his strenuous yet.
