https://www.zhihu.com/question/34225818/answer/1006652546
20-year-old is just beginning to explore the functioning of society the rules of age.
Longitudinally, most of your dilemma right now, but life does not matter little twists and turns.
Horizontally, you think the critical thing that most people do not care.
So, you do not need to care about how others think of you, no one is watching you, others will not think of you.
You can never make everyone satisfied, you do not make most people satisfied, bad luck, you can not even make a small number of people satisfied. It does not matter, you just have to let a few elegant key nodes in your life can be satisfied, when they appear, you'll know who they are.
20-year-olds, it is part of the strength of the potential. To 30 years old, just the strength of the strength.
Most people to 30 years old did not live to understand. They do a lot of bad choices, people need to teach, will be puzzled and confused. Including our parents.
I thought of my parents at my age, it has been responsible for shaping my outlook on life, it is to sweat.
They also face hate students, face the harsh society in the face child crying the next day to go to work.
They will go through deception, competition, and occasional triumphs Proven.
Do you think a child's parents are omniscient, have the ability to tell you the rules. In fact, parents are moving, when you're young, they're fast growing internal and external problems. Of course, if they were already fixed in you you were young, stop growing, and they do not learn.
So if you think parents messed up, maybe it really is their responsibility, but that's not their fault. In fact, the world is not perfect, which means that even if no one is wrong, and people assume bad arrangement.
If you do not stop and stay up all night hangover, probably in the latter half period of twenty will truly appreciate the aging flesh.
Men really can become more attractive with age, specifically how I do it myself I did not figure out, and so I would fumble fumble.