Often heard such a sigh: Had I not so choose, but to go the other way, maybe I will be different. Whether a successful career, or look easy life, as if they are not satisfied with their status.
If everyone at the time of departure can clearly know go this route is not suitable for myself, I believe many people will give up this road, go try another piece of an unknown road.
But when we started another one on the way to lead another life, and found it was not they like or want, or even feel worse than before, we will not know more regret?
Many people do not easily met. I own, always feel not good enough; what you get, always feel not enough. They did not, and others have seen, very jealous; they did not get, to see others get, and care about.
I have seen these words: people always chosen from their own life, to see another life he did not choose, envy, regret. Human nature is not satisfied, so that many people can not really enjoy the happiness of their choice.
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My boss was born in rural areas, the university admitted to the presidency of the Student Union. In the study, he seriously abnormal hard, the results are very good, very popular with teachers and school leaders appreciated. Senior year, he was recommended work at the school.
Now he is an associate professor, have their own houses and cars in this capital city, his wife was a school affiliated hospital doctors, while not particularly wealthy, but this both bright and stable life is still a lot of people envy. Sometimes I just want to have a life like him.
But one day, my boss told me that he was envious that he went to the first-tier cities hard work of the students. He said: "Ten years ago if I did not stay in school, but to the north of Guangzhou-Shenzhen, I will not be better than it is now not so I was not envious of them??"
I did not answer him, because if I do change, you may also feel a little lost and are not satisfied when compared with others.
This mentality should be quite common now. When a person has reached a level, and lived a life, nature will see and admire other people's life, I feel that life looks better or more interesting.