From the start he wanted the University to read more books, but has not been put into action; this year from intermittent lazy start learning Python, and now more and more active learning; I do not know when to start forming the habit of daily five kilometers on foot, it makes my heart gradually began to quiet, and you can stop and go to school, do it by hand. Especially after reading the "heart flow" with "reconciliation with his" two books, so I'm getting really truly feel the book house of gold.
From September 10 by the "black box thinking", for to do before I would not look at this book, because I could not see into, could not stand, but now I read in the afternoon of September 14 this book, I feel a little weird, and even much faster than I imagined to be.
I understand the theme of this book is the book we have to face the failure, from the failure to get progress, we must have the courage to adhere to each failure.
We encounter difficulties or failure in life, we always try to avoid, to cover up and whitewash defeat, we know that "Failure is the mother of success", but it seems in our real life, people always think failure is the lack of capacity, even due to no talent, so we will subconsciously avoid, shirk responsibility, because these it is too easy compared to solve the problem.
No one is born with fear of failure, which is not an instinct, but as we grew up in the progressive development of the concept. Small children are not afraid of failure, they are willing to try new things and learn quickly. We have to do is to let fail valuable, since there have been a failure, then we can not make it appear white, we want it to play its role and value; so we use the sober eyes to look at failure, failure is not prove insufficient capacity, on the contrary, it is an opportunity to learn and progress of the people.
We have a common problem is when they encounter problems, or just pass the buck to judge by the appearance of people and things, in fact, is particularly unfair, because we only see their own perspective what they think of the phenomenon, we got them I think of the views and conclusions, which have seen is not the way things have been, we should get rid of these so-called view of the outside world, simply standing in an objective point of view to understand cause and effect, that is, to see the essence of things, so we may realize that we have seen, and have learned not all. We're going to face the problem, not to shirk, after failing to pretend everything is normal or condemn others is not helpful, as it will only waste understand themselves and the opportunity to discover the unknown in terms of their skills, experience with qualifications; opportunities the problem is that often co-exist with, it is impossible to seize the opportunity to evade the issue.
Only when we face problems and failures in order to stimulate the imagination, linking the different concepts; without experiencing failure will not be able to innovate, a sense of failure aversion is the biggest stumbling block on the way of innovation. When we use the new vision to look at failure, success will colleague significance exciting capability is dynamic and will change as we strive to expand the boundaries of knowledge and getting stronger , so we will not have to already own knowledge and complacency, no longer produces resentment when others pointed out the vulnerability of our knowledge. In fact, the real lack of knowledge is not ignorance, but reject the attitude of learning .
Winner need creativity, but also need to execution, we must have the big picture of the imagination, but also have powers of concentration and attention to detail; a few important work to complete, is the high degree of creativity with the tough execution force together, so as to maximize the role of ideas. Self-esteem when we fail will show particularly evident in the final analysis, it is merely a psychological characteristics, its value is greatly overestimated, if we fear that they are not so perfect, would lose the opportunity to learn, what we really need is perseverance, is the ability to face failure and learn from, this is the growing significance.
If we want to learn something, you have to deal with the complexity of this world. We must resist their own hearts do not ask indiscriminate condemning the actions of others, and in-depth investigation related factors wrong. Only in this way can we find out the truth, creating a concept based on open and honest, rather than self-protection and to cover up the facts.