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Today look back, inadvertently see such a message:
Brothers, I saw, I tell you a story, my own story.
My senior year, I am just 22 years old, the same university mixed over, nothing's the same, the same can not find work, by chance down Shanghai's training, but the university that would be a good place to play brothers are special Why play games together over the mix, probably five or six, are not a group of people to be seen loser, I have a follow up to Shanghai.
Training to pay, and tuition more than ten thousand, we are basically loans, training fees embarrassed to ask the family to prepare themselves to go after work also, so in theory, that would also have each of us carrying a huge loan.
The house was lived during the training institutions for training arrangements 450 a month per person, as well as net fee 50, utilities, four one, less than 10 square meters, facing on both sides of the bunk, you can imagine. I only remember that we level the set sixty-seven dozen houses, lived for 16 people.
Because all rural households, not a wealthy, are also home to more than embarrassed to ask for money, basic home costs per person only to the 1000's, excluding rent only 500 per person to eat, this is my university time living standards, our university on a five-line small city, 500 monthly basic living expenses enough, a month can save some money online, come after the training, parents are also given in accordance with this standard, but parents do not know yes, this is the big Shanghai ah.
You know that time is how we live it?
A few of us scrape the money together to go to Dao Chuguang, found a very cheap restaurant, four or five people, on the point of the cheapest food, potato silk, tomato scrambled eggs this day, never dare to eat meat, rice tube enough Fortunately, the boss who is very good to know that we are in the field first came to Shanghai, we never said anything, over time, also deliberately gave us the amount of cooking extra point, now think about it, this world is good and more.
In addition to the restaurant outside, go to the most is the Shanghai Vegetable Rice soup bones, and is to give you a bowl of risotto, soup is given a night, it's that dry food, eat vomiting, that would be a few of us He vowed that after the money, not eat this stuff. . . Later, really, few of us never eaten paella soup bones, of course, this is something.
We have two middle man smoking, smoking a lot, when universities are pumping at least 7 dollars DHS, but during the training, can not afford to smoke, They also visit the surrounding for a long time, buy a cigarette, called the big front door, 2 a pack, two people drawn together to buy together, then stay together for a long time because, along with others occasionally smoked, simply buy cigarettes can be considered to everyone in equal shares.
College, we often play games together, a young man, a great addiction, can not afford to eat rice, but figuring CAPE Shashi Hou to go to a black, sometimes wait any longer, it is a good discussion, go to Internet cafes make a BO5, open a few black on the withdrawal, that would be good technology, universities play more after all, every Internet cafes are happy not to come back, rarely lose the basic food for thought.
But as time goes by, one month down to die, really could not carry, 500 per month living expenses, no matter how provinces spend enough. . .
We have a buddy, college tuition loans, student loans that, one day the family received a phone call that tuition call you and give it right. Then the received buddy disposable than ten thousand pieces, Tyrant instantly changed. . .
Because he was his own money to spend, but also taking into account several of us, he is not yet finished, but also a part of student loans, and the rest, is that few of us, you borrow a few hundred, I borrowed a few hundred like this, that really would be to rely on this student loan relief tide come.
One day later, he told us not to pay back, with his student loans on personal credit record sum of black, self-blame several of us died, always feel owe this man a huge favor. . . But then once drink alcohol Hey, he told us that he has a black student loans overdue wrote these things, not because then lend us money due, but later work, he was rich, but a month myself to forget also the. . . .
So far, few of us finally his mother peace of mind!
Later things, many regular readers know, I've written, my girlfriend came to Shanghai, I will go out live, with a few brothers separated, but before that things never said.
Together with his girlfriend the day, equally hardship, there is not much to say, the old text here " if you never betray, I will fight every effort! ."
That year I was 22 years old, we have the largest 24-year-old.
At that time few of us equally nothing, the same is a loser, the same confusion, the same live feel really tired, life is too difficult.
Yesterday was the final day of TI9, several of our groups bureau, black cafe open even wheat, watch live, as LGD refueling, because dota is our youth, but this time he lost LGD, have a buddy made a circle of friends : youth, no longer!
After losing, we direct Internet games, huh, has been playing to 10 pm, considered reluctantly dismissed, but this time, we have abused more than win less, after all, work reasons, have changed the dish, but playing very Hi, team battles can be lost, but the opposite shadow magic must die.
These years later, we meet a number of times not so much, but one thing, it had a Shanghai training brothers, and still are in Shanghai, have married, although not that rich is not expensive, but as ordinary people, mix are also, in their respective careers and families work hard.
This year, I am 30 years old the whole, I was a loser 22-year-old, 30-year-old never thought I would be like. At that time, we also can blend today never thought about this.
This is my story, a few of my brothers also true story.
I do not know how to advise you, do not know how to give you hope, is to see your message, suddenly I want to share my story and I give you a few buddies, but also to more young people.
This reminds me of some time ago to see the word "Changan 12 hour" inside "reclaim" the word out of that moment, a little touch, but also want to give you the word. Life is hard, too hard, but they long to subside, there is hope for the future, as long as the practical work hard, but also a high probability will get better and better.
Refundable, never!
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