China has a history of 5,000 years of civilization and is known as the "Land of Etiquette". The Chinese are also famous for their polite manners.
As an important part of Chinese traditional culture, etiquette civilization has had a broad and far-reaching impact on the development of Chinese society and history, and its content is very rich.
When we meet for the first time , we say " long admire ", and when we haven't seen each other for a long time, we say "long no see" . It is clumsy to recognize people clearly , and it is disrespectful to apologize to others . When asking for criticism and advice , ask for forgiveness . Ask someone to help me , please excuse me , please give me some convenience . I'm sorry to bother others , but I don't know if it's appropriate to use presumptuous words . Use "ask" to ask for answers , and "teach" to ask for advice . Use high opinions to praise others' opinions , and use humble opinions to express your own opinions . To see others, use visit , and when guests come, use visit .
To accompany a friend, use fengcai ; to leave in the middle of the way, use fengcai . To wait for the guests, use "waiting" , to greet the guests, to express apology, to express "unwelcome" . Use goodbye when someone is leaving ; use stay when asking someone not to say goodbye . Welcome customers and use TOEFL to answer greetings .
When asking about a person's age, use "Gui Geng" and when asking about the age of an old person, use "Gaoshou" . When reading someone's article , use "Bidu" , and when asking someone to revise the article, use "Criticism" . The other party's calligraphy and painting are precious calligraphy , and poor hospitality is said to be neglect . When asking people to accept gifts , accept them with a smile, and accept them with sincerity .
Use your surname when asking a person's last name , and use your surname when answering a question .
Show off your performance skills , and others will praise you and give you awards .
Congratulate others with congratulations , and congratulate others with congratulations .
Asking someone to take up a position means condescending , and temporarily filling it means saying that the commitment is insufficient .
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Order , used for relatives or related persons of the other party:
Father: Address the other person’s father respectfully;
Lingtang: address the other person’s mother respectfully;
Son: Addressing the other person’s son respectfully;
Ling'ai, Ling'ai: respectfully address each other's daughter;
Lingxiong: address each other’s elder brother respectfully;
Lingdi: Address each other’s younger brother respectfully;
Nephew: Address the other person’s nephew respectfully.
Xian , used for common people or juniors:
Xiandi: refers to one's younger brother or a man younger than oneself;
Nephew: Called nephew.
Gong means treating the other person respectfully:
Congratulations: Congratulations respectfully;
Waiting: waiting respectfully;
Respectfully invite : respectfully invite;
Welcome: greet respectfully;
Congratulations: Congratulate each other on their happy event.
Bye , used for personnel exchanges:
Reading: refers to reading the other party’s articles;
Farewell: refers to saying goodbye to the other party;
Visit: refers to visiting the other party;
Admiration: refers to admiring the other person;
Congratulations: refers to congratulating the other party;
Get to know each other: Refers to getting to know each other;
Please: refers to entrusting the other party to do something;
Visit: refers to visiting the other party.
Bong is used when one's actions involve the other party:
Fengda (mostly used in letters): tell, express; Fengfu (mostly used in letters): reply; fengfa: tell ; fenghui: return; fengchai : accompany ; advise : advise; send , fengfa: give away; fengying: welcome ; entrust : Please.
Respect , used when one's actions involve others:
Warn: tell; congratulate: congratulate; wait: wait;
Salute (used at the end of a letter): to express respect; please: please; admire: respect and admire; thank you but not: express refusal to do something.
Expensive , refers to things related to the other party:
Guigan: Asking people what they want to do;
Gui Geng: Ask someone’s age;
Your surname: Ask the person’s surname;
Guiyang: Call the other party's illness;
Guizi: Call the other party’s son (which means blessing);
Your country: call the other country;
Your school: Call the other party’s school.
High , calling other people's things:
Gao Jian: Brilliant opinion;
Gao Jie: refers to leaving the original position to take a higher position;
Old age: the age of the elderly (mostly those over 60 years old);
Gaoshou: used to ask the age of the elderly;
Gaozu: Call someone else’s student;
Gao Lun: Call other people's opinions.
Big , address the other party respectfully or refer to things related to the other party:
Uncle: In addition to referring to uncle, an older man can also be addressed as an honorific;
Big Brother: You can respectfully call a man of your own age;
Big Sister: You can address female friends or acquaintances as a respectful title;
Da Ma, Da Niang: honorary titles for older women;
Uncle: a respectful title for an older man;
Adult (mostly used in letters): addressing elders;
Dajia: address the other party;
Master: the honorific title is monk;
Name: call the other person by name;
Daqing: called the birthday of the elderly;
Masterpiece: Call the other person’s work;
Dazha: Call each other's letters.
Fang is used for the other party or things related to the other party:
Neighbors: call each other’s neighbors;
Fang Ling (mostly used for young women): refers to the other person’s age;
Fangming (mostly used for young women): call the other person by his or her name.
Humility:
Stupid , humbly saying that one is not smart:
Foolish Brother: Calling yourself to someone younger than yourself; Yujian: Calling your own opinion. You can also use "yu" to describe yourself modestly.
We , it is not good to speak modestly of yourself or your things:
My person: humbly address yourself; my surname: humbly address your surname; my place: humbly address my house and place; my school: humbly address your school.
Dare means taking the liberty to ask others:
Dare to ask: used to ask the other party questions; Dare to ask: used to ask the other party to do something; Dare to bother: used to trouble the other party to do something.
Stupid , used to describe oneself to others:
Zhuobi: humbly referring to one's own writing or calligraphy and painting; Zhuoju, Zhuozhuo: humbly referring to one's articles; Zhuojian: humbly referring to one's own opinions; Zhuojing, Jie Nei, Neiren: referring to one's wife.
Home , the ancients often used modest words to refer to their relatives and friends.
"家" is a humble word used when others refer to one's senior or older relatives:
Family father, family respect, family strictness, family king: called father;
Jiamu, Jiaci: called mother;
Jiaxiong: called elder brother;
Sister: called sister;
Uncle: Call me uncle.
Poverty is a term used by monks, Taoists and nuns to be humble:
Poor monk, poor Taoist, poor nun.
Lao , when an old man is modest about himself, he uses laochen, old man, old man, laozhuo, etc. to describe himself or things related to him modestly:
Rough guy: He humbly claims that he is uneducated;
Old face: young people refer to their own face;
Laoshen: Elderly women refer to themselves modestly;
The old monk calls himself Lao Na ; the old official calls himself Lao Chen .