Have you ever had trouble sleeping due to anxiety, and have you always worried about your studies and job hunting?
I have been anxious from the beginning to the second semester of college, which seriously affected my sleep and study rhythm. Let me share my experience first, and I will give the answer at the end.
First of all, this anxiety started when I was in high school. I didn’t realize why I wanted to study until the second semester of my sophomore year. Until one day, like the prodigal son in the movie, I turned around without knowing why. That day, I sat on the bus going to school and looked outside. I swore that I would surprise everyone who didn't think highly of me. Then just like in a high school movie, I would get up early and study late every day. At that time, I even suffered from depression. I studied like a machine. There were more than 1,000 people in our high school class, and only one passed the exam in the last class. In my heart I vowed that I would be that one, but in the end I didn't get into 985 or 211 like in the movie. I only got into an ordinary one. My anxiety in college also laid the foundation for high school.
As soon as I started college, I vowed to become one of the top students. Unfortunately, there are some great people in our school, and there is one preparatory student in our dormitory (five years of college, and I have already studied for one year). I took him as my goal and determined to surpass him in programming. I had just learned C and he might have already learned data structures and C++. I was not angry. I decided to spend more time learning programming than him. Every time I I would feel guilty after playing games for a while, and I would type code at the desk. Later, I took several exams. When I was in my forties, he was almost in his nineties. I did not give up, but because of him, I became eager for quick success and quick success. , the foundation was also shaky. It wasn’t until a teacher woke me up that I woke up from the dream. Only then did I let go of this obsession, treat it rationally, and maintain my pace of learning.
There must be competition in college, but you must have your own rhythm. When the rhythm is out of order, your study will have problems. Others' rhythm may not be suitable for you. Your own rhythm is the best. How about others, you only need to Use it as a reference, but don’t worry too much. Keep your pace and learn slowly. You will reach the end one day and wait for the flowers to bloom!
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