Adler "The Courage to Be Disliked"

about relationships

  • Even if you are bad-mouthed or disliked, there is nothing to care about, because how the other party sees you is the subject of the other party.
  • All troubles are troubles in human relationships. In fact, even hermits are very concerned about the eyes of others.
  • A person with a sound mind will not try to change the other person, but change himself.

about self worth

  • Don't seek to be a perfect person, but accept your imperfect self.
  • Only when people feel that they are valuable can they feel a sense of contribution and have courage.
  • The important thing is not what you have, but how to use what you have.

about failure

  • People can only learn by failing. Use the experience of failure to guard your determination to change.
  • Have courage, endurance, and self-confidence. Failure is by no means a failure of courage, but a challenge to face new subjects.

about courage

  • Courage is the energy to overcome difficulties. Those who lack courage will fall into the dark abyss of life once they encounter difficulties.
  • Bravery is another form of inferiority complex. Instead of trying to look strong, try to be stronger.
  • The so-called courage is not medicine, you can add a spoonful when you can’t need it. Training to bear responsibility and training to have courage are completely complementary to each other.

about life

  • Only you can create yourself, only you can determine the future life.
  • One should not be bound by the past, only you can paint your own future. Even if the reasons of the past can be used as an explanation, they cannot be a solution.
  • Life is not that difficult, you make life complicated, in fact, life is very simple.
  • There is no single meaning of life that applies to everyone, and the meaning of life is what everyone gives to their own life.

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