2021 is a special year for me, and one with many expectations.
"New Year's Day" means "the day of the beginning". Coincidentally, the first birthday in one's life coincides with New Year's Day (northern people are used to recording birthdays in the lunar calendar). I don't know when the next time will be, so I just leave some text to record it.
When I was young, I liked to give myself psychological hints. For example, the morning before the exam, I asked my mother to make boiled instant noodles and add two eggs, which meant that I could get 100 points in the exam.
The reality is also very powerful. Every time I do this in the exam, the results are good. After receiving external feedback, I believe in this suggestion even more. This habit persisted until the third year of junior high school, and then stopped after living in high school.
It was only later that I realized that there is a term in psychology called: the Pygmalion effect.
When we have a very strong desire for something, the thing we expect will appear. ——MBA Think Tank
So today is also a wonderful and meaningful day for me.
Friends who are familiar with me know that I am currently a freelancer. I left the job on September 18, and it has been exactly 105 days. I am still alive. I am not very nourished, but I am not miserable either.
To be honest, it was quite stressful. In Beijing, the monthly mortgage and rent plus various expenses amounted to less than 10,000 yuan. At that time, I made a big determination to resign, and I really couldn’t stand the state where I had no breakthrough. Just leave decisively.
Thinking about not breaking or building, when Yu Minhong left Peking University to found New Oriental, isn’t that the case~~
It is precisely because of leaving the protection of Peking University that we have the continuous advancement of our career and the earth-shaking development of New Oriental. At that time, when he left Peking University, he also felt very desolate, but he also said: People move to live, trees move to die. Looking at it today, that desolation is unnecessary. In fact, you are leaving a comfort zone that makes you feel extremely safe, and walking into a storm. —— Yu Minhong
Although in the workplace, I also take care of other small projects, but they are all small troubles. When I choose to leave, I also actively expose myself to the pressure. I no longer have an excuse to be lazy, and I have no right to be lazy.
In the first month, I was basically jumping into the pit and adjusting the rhythm, and then the cash flow gradually returned to normal. Driven by this kind of pressure, the small projects that I tried in the workplace at the beginning can be regarded as a closed loop.
At that time, I also changed the desktop. It was a bet with myself. If the time came and I hadn’t passed the results, I would continue to work as a working dog. Of course, it was more to give myself a sense of urgency.
So every time I make money, it's like renewing my own life. Every time I make money, I will tell my girlfriend that I can live XX more days, and I will never tire of it.
But I still have the attitude of being barefoot and not afraid of wearing shoes. At worst, I will start all over again. This loss is acceptable. In contrast, time cost and opportunity cost are the most terrifying. The cost of making mistakes is not high at all, but the cost of missing is high .
The most precious thing about freelancing is energy. Compared with the plan, a lot of things have been cut off before and after. There are three projects that I will focus on at present and in the future:
1. Select products and bring goods, and make more money by yourself.
2. Create personal IP and output more valuable content to the outside world.
3. Paid community, currently there are Alchemy Society and Information Difference Arbitrage Group, hoping to lead people who trust me to make money.
By the way, make an advertisement hahaha, if you want to join the Alchemy Society, or the arbitrage group with poor information, please private message me: 240147696
In the current 29 days, 42 people have been led, and the cumulative income has reached 46,957 yuan. The figure below shows the income of the top 10.
Of course, I don’t recommend you to resign impulsively like me, but I will give you my motto: Never limit your infinite possibilities because of what you have.
In 2020, a lot of things have happened, in addition to personal development, there has also been progress in relationships hahaha (yes, it’s time to start showing affection~~)
With a girlfriend who can draw, understand design, and is fairly obedient, they are currently together for 246 days.
(The old man blushes, he is still handsome after intensive repair, hahaha)
Raised two cute kittens, two guardians when working at home.
Start trying to realize your own knowledge, and thank you friends who trust me again.
I made a lot of friends and got help from a lot of friends, so I won’t name them all~
In short, 2021 is very special and I look forward to it.
When my birthday coincided with New Year's Day, I started to leave the workplace to be self-reliant, and started to live with my girlfriend.
In 2021, I hope that the epidemic will pass soon, and I hope that I will be full of hope.
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