As a woman, how to choose a husband

There is a saying in China: "Men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." From this perspective, what kind of man a woman chooses is crucial to her happiness in life. Once you marry the wrong one, of course you can leave, but it will definitely cause a considerable degree of mental contusion, and no matter how well the broken water tank is repaired, it will leave traces of "second marriage"...
So, how should a woman choose a mate when choosing a man? ? You need to master the ways and methods of judging strange men. Only by understanding these will you be able to obtain the ideal marriage and lover.
To choose a good husband, a woman must have the vision and thinking to judge people. The premise of choosing a person is to know people, and only knowing people can choose; the premise of knowing people is knowing people, and only knowing people can marry. Otherwise, you will be kissed, hugged, and even slept in confusion, and then you will realize that the one you love is not a prince on a white horse, but a "bird man". If you want to get out of the cage, I am afraid that it is easy to get in and it is difficult to get out.
How to do? Is there a way to see it? Is there a secret recipe for Cupid's magic arrow to "pierce the heart with one arrow"? In fact, the more mysterious things are often simpler throughout the ages, and one of the ways to judge whether a man is good or bad is the four words - diligent observation.
A woman chooses a lover just like a company's human resources choose an employee. As long as the method is appropriate, she can choose a good husband.
For example, the University of California chooses its president in this way. Once the University of California wanted to choose a president, there were a lot of applicants, and there were only four candidates in the end. The school decided to choose a president among the four candidates. So the school sent out an invitation to take the four candidates and their wives to the school for a few days, where they would eat, drink, and entertain. They didn’t talk about recruitment matters, but the school’s human resources department carefully observed the every move of the candidate’s wife.
It turned out that the school believed that if the principal's wife was not of high character, the principal's work would be greatly affected. Finally, the school summarizes and analyzes the comprehensive performance of the wives of the four candidates for the principal, and selects the best principal.
Have you been inspired by this case? Would you use this method inferences? Why don't you invite the three best friends of your chosen boyfriend to take the opportunity of getting acquainted to have a meal?
The ancients said: "As a person, look at your friends." What kind of friends you make through your boyfriend, you will judge his taste and connotation.
Another way is to ask questions to judge a man's thinking ability, sharpness and overall quality. Let's take another look at the Sumitomo Bank in Japan when recruiting the president, the president once asked such a question: "When there is a conflict between the bank and the national interest, how do you think it should be handled?" Many people answered: "It should be in the interests of Sumitomo. For the sake of consideration." The president thought that he could not be hired; others replied: "The national interest should be the first priority." The president thought that only passing the test would not be able to hire; Don't get involved." The CEO's comment was: "Zhuo has knowledge and will be hired." This case will have a great inspiration for women to choose a husband. If you are a divorced woman, you can ask the man like this: "Do you think you will get two What is one of the prerequisites for a happy second marriage? What do you think are the three basic points for a second marriage to rebuild a warm family?..."
As early as 1,800 years ago, Zhuge Liang emphasized how a woman should choose a husband. He believes: "There is a great disparity between the good and the bad, and the appearance is different; there are those who are gentle and hypocritical, those who are respectful on the outside but deceive on the inside, those who are brave on the outside but timid on the inside, and those who try their best to be disloyal..." The truth, the good, the beautiful and the false, the ugly, and the ugly are not all manifested in emotions and faces, nor can they be seen from general expressions. Some appear to be gentle but are actually cunning, some are humble on the outside but false on the inside, some give the impression of being unstoppable but are actually timid and timid. Loyal to marriage and faith. To this end, Zhuge Liang warned women that they should carefully examine the man they choose to know their will, adaptability, knowledge, courage, character, integrity and credit, and never marry a man based on feelings, impressions and money.
This method is what Du Shiniang has tried, otherwise it will not sink into the treasure chest, not to mention that you don't have Du Shiniang's valuable gold and silver treasures in your handbag, some of which are cosmetic bottles, small mirrors and sanitary napkins. Kind of, the big deal is to install a mobile phone that is not an Apple brand. If you don't have a pair of wisdom and discerning eyes, then your self-proclaimed decoration will be in vain. Even if you have the quality of being in the hall, but you can't find a husband who can go in and out of Houmen Xiangfu's mansion, naturally you won't. Husband and wife have the opportunity to go to the hall. The kitchen can be visited often, but the pots and pans are smoldering for three meals a day. I have never seen a few women who can last for a long time...
What should I do? You have to be patient and continue to choose. If you don’t choose, you will be lonely, lonely, and masturbation. Although many women said firmly, "I'm fine by myself, I'm unfettered, and the whole family is not hungry when I'm full by myself." Don't you know that your worries are always there, your heart is always empty, and your beauty is easy When you pass away, your body is getting dry...
There are seven methods that can help you effectively judge a good man. You might as well try it. It is absolutely effective:
1. Ask right and wrong, and observe his ambition:
   When you have a good impression of a man , especially a man you meet in Jiayuan or other networks, if you want to know him, you should put forward or discuss the right and wrong views on various matters, and you can observe his position, point of view, belief, Whether the aspirations and life values ​​are clear and firm.
2. Exhaustive arguments, and watch the changes:
Women know whether a man will live a life and his personality, temper, hobbies, etc., and can discuss or debate with him through things that happen in real life and work, and raise questions. To test his wisdom and adaptability. Of course, if you are just a mediocre woman, you naturally can't ask philosophical questions, and you can't judge the meaning of a man's answer to the question. It's not someone else's fault, who told you that you haven't been to a bookstore for the first time a year, but you often go to supermarkets and clothing boutiques.
3. Consult them with strategies and observe their knowledge:
The standard of a good man is to be able to handle the world with ease. The concept of a good husband is to let his wife and children have no worries about food and clothing. A man who can occupy a woman's heart must be a hero she admires in his wife's mind. And a good man must have two points in order to establish a heroic image in women's minds. What is a heroic image of a good husband in women's minds? Outstanding talent is called heroic, and extraordinary courage is called heroic. Men who have both talent and courage will capture the hearts of women, so another way for women to judge whether a man is good or bad is to let him propose strategies and decision-making plans for some major issues? In order to test whether he has the ability and vision.
4. Report disasters and watch them bravely:
     When your work and life face difficulties, tell the man you will depend on in the future to identify whether he can come out in the face of adversity. A man who can't move forward bravely and do things for you without hesitation will not grow old with you for a long time in the future.
5. Get drunk and watch his nature:
     In daily life, a man is very good at disguising, but if a shrewd woman wants to test out the essence of a man and let him drink, to see if he is greedy, can he control himself after drinking? And what kind of temperament is revealed, it can be revealed from drinking. A man with different appearances will be revealed as long as he has three glasses of wine. Of course, whether a woman can persuade him to drink down depends on your charm. If you can't even get a glass of wine before you give him a hug, then you can only have the capital to give birth to a child.
6. Take advantage of it, but look at its integrity:
   Only men who will not forget their righteousness will have deep affection. Love requires loyalty, and most men who can keep their hearts unchanged are loyal men. Smart women must learn to use money to test, and a man who sees money will not stay with you for life.
Seven, look forward to things, and watch their beliefs:
people can't stand without faith, and love can't be long without faith. So women can judge whether a man is credible by the things he interacts with? A man who lacks credit is naturally unreliable.