Everyone decides their life through their own efforts!

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Damei said:

             You must look beautiful when you work hard!


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  I felt a little tired recently, so I let myself relax for a few days. I went to the beach with my friends to blow the sea breeze and bask in the April sunshine. I felt like the sun washed in spring.

  However, the good times are always so short. After the trip, I still have to face all kinds of work and life, rising and falling at the same time, confused and anxious.

  If you can't hide, you won't hide. Since you have chosen a distant place, just take care of the wind and rain!

  It's just that every time the timeline is stretched, I'm not sure if what I'm doing now can support myself to reach that distance.

       Ability is not worthy of ambition, it is the root of all troubles. I am impatient and have high expectations for myself. I always blame myself for growing up too slowly, and blame myself for many things that should have been done more satisfactorily. But many times, the more you want to do well, the more unsatisfactory you are.

  The writing has been quite rough these few days. I can’t remember the first time this has happened in more than a year, but every time I feel as frustrated as the first time—I don’t know how to connect the scattered knowledge in my head. I don't know how to get myself into a state, and I hate myself for being ignorant, and I'm even more afraid of disappointing those who have always liked me and supported me.

  This is the time when I feel the loneliest. All I can do is curl up in a corner and spend time with a song or a movie, straightening my mind and adjusting my mood.

  Some people say that if you can't write it, don't write it, and there are many articles from you in the world. Yes, to the world, I am as insignificant as dust. Once I stop writing, how many will I remember?

  However, I want to see how far I can go on this road. People always want to do things that can make them feel at ease, regardless of fame and fortune, not about money, only about themselves, and only about their hearts.


02


       The world is fair, if you want to get it, you have to learn to give and persevere. Everyone decides their life through their own efforts.

  I know very well that people are more powerful than I imagined. Whenever I want to give up, I grit my teeth and endure it. Just like when I was exercising, the coach asked me to stick to plank for 30 seconds. I thought I couldn’t do it, but I bit my head and trembled all over, and I persevered. Next, you can challenge for 40 seconds, 60 seconds, or even longer.

       People always have unlimited potential, which can only be stimulated by constant challenges. I am thankful that I realized this in time and started to try something new, discovering a different me every time I try.

  If I hadn't tried fitness, I wouldn't have found myself enjoying every sweat so much, and I wouldn't have found myself pushing my physical limits time and time again.

  If I hadn't tried cooking, I wouldn't have found myself falling in love with the way ingredients were being scrambled in a wok. Although I have done dark dishes many times, I no longer scramble eggs, and I can make simple two dishes and one soup for myself...

  Every time I make progress, I can see a better version of myself, and I believe I will do better in the future.


03


  I am a person who is particularly afraid of indulging in ease, so I always have to create challenges in my life in order to be full of passion every day.

  Some time ago, a friend told me that I felt that life was boring, and I just had to live by it day after day. It's not just her, many people are like that.

  Heard it, some people die at 25, only to be buried at 80. Survival is simple, just repeating a day 365 times. However, life is not just living, it needs more interesting things.

  Gradually I began to understand that people always have to pursue their own lives a little bit. As an old man I met at the gym yesterday said, work hard when it’s time to work, and live hard when it’s time to live.

       Of course, if you find it difficult to pursue, it is okay to just live with it. Just don't complain when you give up - everyone has to pay for their choices.


04


  Last week, the coach told me that there are always some people who go to the gym for consultation, want to lose weight and get in shape, but always say, "What if I can't keep up?"

  This reminds me that people often say to me, "I want to keep writing, but I can't, how do you do it?" "Can you teach me how to keep writing?" But if you don't Determine if you can persevere, how can others teach you?

       Everyone's persistence depends on their own perseverance and determination, and sometimes even death. I have been writing for a year, and many people only see my bright side, but don’t see the time and energy behind me – when others are sleeping in on weekends, playing outside on vacation, and watching TV shows at home after get off work, I Maybe they are writing, thinking, and reading.

  The same is true of insisting on fitness. As long as I have time, I will practice, and various movements are constantly improving. The plank is from 10 seconds to 40 seconds, the push-up is from 5 to 15, the stepper is from 10 minutes to 40 minutes... Very I can clearly feel my changes, my body is much lighter, my state has improved, and it has made me more confident.

  There are no shortcuts in the world, writing is like this, fitness is like this, I am afraid it is like this with all things. You have to give if you want to get it, and every time you give, it will be rewarded to you little by little in the days to come.

Source: I am a girl (ID: tingnitingwo-L)

Author: more girl


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