It's always good to have a dream, but only living in a dream, but not willing to work hard for it, what's the use of having a dream?
Xiao Li is someone I met at a friend's party, so he can be considered a friend of wine and meat. She can always hear her complaining at every party and hate her current job.
She was working on reports in a company, and she often said bitterly in the circle of friends that she was working overtime. As a result, people who knew her work secretly told us that it was no wonder she worked overtime. , was always criticized by the supervisor and had to stay and work overtime to make revisions.
Later, Xiao Li decided to change jobs. She said that after thinking about it for a long time, she felt that the job was not suitable for her. She is cheerful, enthusiastic, sociable, and fun, and should do sales or marketing.
It's been a long time since I've been a salted fish, and I always try to turn over and take a look. Soon after, she got her wish and found a job in sales.
After a month of fighting, her circle of friends quickly resumed their previous complaints: sales are too hard, and the wind and the sun always go out; The salary is high; I am not less angry with customers, but the business has not been negotiated...
A while ago, I heard that she wanted to change jobs again.
Some people attribute their incompetence to being inappropriate for the job. I always think that as long as I keep changing jobs, I will always find a job that suits me and allows me to show off my skills. It's a pity that the more you change jobs, the more you expose your incompetence.
I always thought that I could live a good life by turning over, but in the end, I knelt down and begged for mercy with scars all over my body. The ambitions and rhetoric that were promised before have become the laughing stock of being ridiculed.
If you can't do one job well, you can use "unsuitable" as an excuse. If you can't do it well after changing several jobs, isn't that the equivalent of letting the world know that you are a salted fish?
There are many people around me who feel that their lives are worth sighing.
Some people like liberal arts, but because of the social prejudice that emphasizes rationality over literature, their parents are forced to choose science. They always like to fantasize about what would have happened if they had chosen liberal arts, as if they would be admitted to key universities as long as they studied liberal arts.
Some people like comics since childhood, and they fill in the application form after the college entrance examination. Because their elders say that studying animation is not good for employment, they go to study accounting. They are suffering from accounts all day long.
I know a lot of people who have been interested in writing since childhood. Most of them have not embarked on the road of writing, and even the "tofu nugget" article has not been published in an official journal. They live a life that is similar to what others say, and they write sour emotional fragments on social networks.
The so-called sighing is nothing more than thinking that my full talent has been wasted like this, and if my life is not satisfactory, I blame the person who controlled my choice at that time, the class teacher, the parents, and the social reality.
Over and over in my daydreams, I imagined: If there was no obstruction from them, they did everything possible to persuade me to give up my dream, forced me to study popular majors, and encouraged me to take the civil service exam, how could I become such an ordinary person? I am now a famous cartoonist and writer, right? Is it a singer who has released several records? Is it an up-and-coming director?
Waking up from a daydream, listening to the Chopsticks Brothers sing "Has the original wish come true, now I have to pay homage", looking at the normal two-bedroom, looking at the pots and pans in the kitchen, firewood, rice, oil and salt, I really regret the most ordinary Life.
It seems that the ordinary road makes them salted fish.
Of course you have a dream, but as a salted fish, you often turn into a giant baby under the banner of a dream. If you can't support yourself, can't you put your dreams aside first?
When I was in middle school, there was a young lady in my neighbor's house who stopped studying and was going to participate in the audition. In those years, the draft was popular, and there were myths of overnight popularity everywhere. If her parents didn't let her participate, she was going to die. In the end, there was no choice but to let her come.
Later, she passed the audition before the audition. After passing this layer, you have the opportunity to enter the studio and perform in front of the star judges. The result, of course, was not promoted. She wasn't too frustrated, thinking that it would be nice to be in the studio for the first time.
On the day the local audition was broadcast on TV, she specifically asked us to go to her house to watch it with her. We huddled in her living room and watched from the beginning to the end without even dropping the advertisement, but we didn't see her at all. She was cut.
Her parents thought that after such a trouble, she should take heart and go back to study hard, but she didn't expect that she would be like a demon. If she didn't pass this competition, she would go there. Anyway, there were so many draft competitions in those years. of.
Anyway, she just doesn't read. She said that music is her dream. If you have a purpose in life, why not pursue it? In those one or two years, she participated in drafts of all sizes across the country, some of whom made it to the top dozens, and some who were eliminated in the primary.
Later, all talent shows died down overnight, and she did not become popular. My family moved away and I haven't heard from her anymore. All I remember is that her mother aged very quickly in those two years. Sometimes she is worried that she is a little girl who goes out alone, and always has to accompany her to compete in other places. I don't buy new clothes anymore, I spend all the money on my daughter's costumes.
Thinking about it now, her dream-chasing process is like nonsense. Twenty-year-old you, relying on the hard work of your fifty-year-old parents to support you, are you embarrassed to talk about your dreams?
There are many successful people who talk about the way of life, nothing more than to encourage young people to boldly pursue their dreams and not to compromise with life. They claim that as long as they persevere, their dreams will come true. Wei Nuo Nuo is flattened by reality but never resists, which is unbearable cowardice in their eyes.
I used to believe that as long as you work hard and unswervingly, there will be no unfulfilled dream, and God will reward your hard work. I also said some outrageous remarks, such as "chasing what you like" and "don't live the life you don't want to live".
Looking at these thoughts now, it is really wishful thinking, and a hopeless middle-two disease.
You may want to say that daily life is too trivial. If you are running around for life all day, how can you pursue your artistic ideals.
The world does not lose an artist because a genius is suppressed. In fact, no matter what a talented person is doing, sooner or later, he will shine in the field he is good at. If you don't shine, it's not that life is suppressing you, it's just that you're not talented enough.
Going to college, looking for a job, and earning a living are the most common roads, the most people take, and the easiest. Even the easiest way is not smooth, what about those more difficult ladders?
As a salted fish, you only see the scenery of the successful people, and you think that success does not require effort; you only see the successful people who have the support of their families in the most difficult times, and you think that you can succeed as long as you spend it at home and let your family support it; What you think you've found is a dream, but it's just a self-righteous shortcut to success.
You say you don't like your life now. No 9 to 5, no Monday to Friday, this kind of life makes you feel like a dog, like a walking dead. Your dream is to travel the world, to sleep until you wake up naturally, to count money until your hands cramp.
Let me tell you, you are just being lazy and evading responsibility, and your dream is that you will have endless money without working hard. How can there be such a good thing?
No one enjoys the process of earning a living, and successful people are that they try to earn and live the way they like. But an adult who can't even make a living, what qualifications does he have to pick and choose?
If it is a salted fish, it is better to work hard to be yourself in a limited situation. The reality is that great people can live every life well.
Article source: Inspirational Life Network
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