Education is not only the transmission of truth and knowledge, but the effective transmission.
If we don’t pay attention to methods in the education process, but blindly present facts, reason, and spread knowledge, we think we are doing the right thing, but the effect is often not good, and it may even backfire.
Many children listen to the teacher's words very much, but they are very vigilant and have strong resistance to the management of their parents. This requires parents to pay more attention to their children's education.
Preaching, especially repeated preaching, is the most important thing to avoid. Because, when preaching, what the child feels is not whether the content of what we say is correct, but our invisible constraints on him.
Don't say kids don't like preaching, and adults don't either. In fact, no one likes preaching! No one likes being told that you should do this, you should do that.
All the techniques and methods are designed to let the child realize what is right.
Here are some tips for reference:
1. Write down the rules and post them on the wall.
2. To teach by example instead of words.