No matter what kind of blow life throws at you, we have to work hard to survive.
Because live every minute and every second of the present, so that I don't play games and think about tomorrow's work.
Anyway, as long as life doesn't kill you, you win.
I went to the customer site last Friday and sat in the debugging room to debug the product. During this period, there was such a dialogue, which made me think for a long time. I will briefly summarize the story for you: 1. The contractor responsible for the decoration of his own home, the first meeting was during the conversation Zhong has always said that it is not easy for him, he has four elders and two sons to support. After being moved, I chose them. 2. There are a lot of problems during the renovation. After pointing out, they are unwilling to rectify it, or it will drag you down. In short, I feel uncomfortable. 3. When the final payment was made, the foreman did the same trick again, and the client felt that it was not easy and his conscience was overwhelmed, so he settled the final payment. 4. Not long after the renovation, I found that the ceiling fell off and asked the contractor to rework. The contractor changed his face and scolded and complained. The client had no choice but to find a decoration company. In the end, the contractor agreed to rework on the grounds of withholding the deposit. 5. The customer can't figure out why I treat you so well and understand you so well, but you treat me like this.
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First of all, in my opinion, neither side is wrong. It's just not a coincidence that people in the two worlds need to work together for a period of time, and during this time, the two sides have some differences due to their existing cognitions and values.
The client is a mother of a child, and his job is to write code in the unit. It is very simple, living a life of two points and one line. The subcontractor went out to work since he was a child, and he was involved in the society when he was a teenager.
The purpose of the contractor is very pure, that is, to make money. There are still so many people under him to support. Now a carpenter and mason in Shanghai is calculated at 500+ a day (don't say you want to move bricks.. You really may not be able to afford this hardship), he is just in Make money his way.
From our point of view, his "moral corruption", "conscience was eaten by x", "good or bad" and so on, but when we think about it carefully, nothing is illegal. He is still doing one thing "poor information".
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If you know the way of decoration, the materials that the contractor buys you will not be able to deceive you, the decoration company will not be able to make money for you, and the owner of the hardware store who works with the contractor will not be able to make your money.
It's because we don't understand, so we need to find professional people to do things. The professional person has shown his professional knowledge in this matter, and incidentally brought some "private goods". And we often hope that others will try their best to help us do things and not make mistakes.
Then think about it from another angle, when you are writing code, are you writing for 8 hours a day (996, 007, I sympathize with you...)? Has the workload reached 50%?
We have received the salary from the company/boss, and we have to complete 8 hours of work. Then the boss of our workload can completely "rebuke" you for not doing your due diligence, deduct your salary, and add KPIs to you. At this time, will we blame the boss, "I will do my best to do things for you, I have no desires, no demands, no competition or grabs, why do you still deduct my salary?"
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After such a change of perspective, does it feel better in my heart? As for what the lady said later, "We are all too honest, we don't understand anything, our conscience is too good, and we were deceived by them", I can't say no...
Society is a real brush that can brighten you up and clean it up. Society is also a big dye vat that can dye you green and red. Why are some people brightened and dyed red? Forced. Isn't there a saying that is often mentioned: no one's life is easy, if you think it is, then someone must be carrying the load for you.
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I am such a person, but I never complain, because complaining is useless, no one will give me money, and no one will help me. Why? Because who would help a person who only knows how to grieve and complain all day long, but he has never thought about how to change it?
Waiting for someone to feed? It's not impossible, it's just that what others feed you can taste delicious? It's good to be full. If you want to eat well, you have to rely on yourself. And the later experience made me realize how interesting it is to be "altruistic". Brother Zhang and Brother Yong are using their personal experience to tell the good of altruism.
In order to give back to the readers and bring real benefits to the readers, I found some friends to ask for some internal tickets, the kind that cannot be bought outside. Last week, I took a few "IBM AI Summer Camp" tickets with the original price of 699 and gave them to a few readers to participate. After the meeting, readers sent me a long feedback, I was really happy, I can really start helping others, and the screenshots have been authorized.
Having said that, for such serious and attentive readers, I believe that one day they can achieve what they want.
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Having said that, I can't help but add another point of view: broaden your horizons and don't stare at the money in front of you.
Why do I say this, because when I brought benefits to readers before, I won tickets for some big factory conferences, and also won some high-temperature subsidies, and readers are rushing to sign up. I have been doing this for several months, and the readers who have participated can form a crowd of 100.
But a recent event made me a little... The thing is very simple, I will post a welfare post, and everyone will sign up. A reader added me on WeChat and asked me how much it was and how to get it. I said that after the end, the sponsor will give it to me, and I will give it to everyone, and old readers will understand me. Later, he even asked me...how can I believe that you will give me...
Before I changed it, I might have gone up, "If you don't believe me, leave, and the people in the back line are waiting..." But now it has changed a lot, and I also thank those friends who usually give me advice. I replied to the reader "I'm not bad at this point... I promised a lot, you can take a screenshot and post it in the group" and then sent a few pictures of the red envelope, which made him believe me.
I said that these red envelopes have been sent out... Do I still miss you 100...
So what does this show? They are all programmers. Since they are paying attention to me, I want to dredge everyone. Don't think about the money in front of you, it's really not much. You can see that you earn 10,000 yuan a month, and the good ones are worth 2 or 3w. If you can't buy them for 100 yuan, you will suffer.
But if you think about it this way, it's easy to get stuck in horns. When you want to do one thing, your thinking will become: "How much does it cost?" - "Can you do it without the money, or cheaper?" - "I'll see it again" The time cost is not considered at all.
If I only focus on immediate interests, it is difficult for me to imagine how to seize an opportunity in the next five years. Often the opportunity to explode after a year is a loss today, or it is not profitable. If you can get your money back quickly, in most cases, the room for growth will not be particularly large.
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Well, there is a lot of nonsense today, so I will summarize for you: 1. You must get used to the various social conditions and learn to upgrade yourself. 2. Do more altruistic things, and at the same time feel happy, there may be unexpected gains. 3. Open your eyes, don't just stare at the money in front of you.
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