天地之间，有方有圆；
人世之间，有规有矩。
Follow the rules and do things without making mistakes; act
according to the standards, and be magnanimous!
人这一生，冥冥之中一切自有定数！
是你的，总是你的；
不是的，强求不来。
不要打破规矩去办事，
The way of heaven is not changed by manpower, and a man cannot do whatever he wants!
If you understand the four heavens of life, you must be a person of great blessings!
| Rule 1: Temper should not be greater than ability |
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There is a good saying: the reason why people lose their temper is mostly the performance of incompetence.
恼羞成怒，才会动不动就对人发火；
胸有乾坤，只会不断的严以律己！
In life, you will find that the more capable you are, the less temperament you are,
because he sees through everything, knows how to restrain himself, and knows how to take care of others.
Such a person has a big pattern!
| Rule 2: Position cannot be higher than virtue |
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德不配位，必招灾祸。
When your position is much higher than that of virtue,
no one will be convinced, only people will be dissatisfied.
There are even some people who are in high positions, but they do things that hurt the world.
Such people will be punished sooner or later and fall into the quagmire!
In his position, he has his virtues, has a clear conscience, and lives with peace of mind!
| Rule 3: Feelings cannot be without standards |
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对一个人，没有限度的好，定不会被珍惜；
对一个人，丢掉尊严的爱，定会自食苦果。
人这一生，生活要有规矩，感情要有底线。
No matter how much you care about someone, you can't lose your standards, and no matter how much
you cherish someone, you can't be flattering and humble!
Lovers are self-love before, self-lovers, people love them forever!
| Rule 4: Self-reliance is the greatest confidence |
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做人，得自立！记住一句话：凡是依靠他人活着，其实都是走捷径。
No matter who this person is, it won't make you feel at ease.
After all, if you rely on the mountains, the mountains will fall; if you rely on people, people will run away!
自立，才是自己的保护伞；
自信，才是自己的安全感
自强，才是真正的男子汉！
In fact, the biggest rule in human life is not who will urge and remind you what to do, but what choices you have.
With good self-cultivation and good intentions, you will always shine;
with good words and actions, you will always come out;
with good character, you will live by yourself, and you will be fearless and fearless in your life!