It’s just a leaf that beat us
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The leaves are insignificant, and the fallen leaves that can be seen everywhere on weekdays do not attract our attention. However, when you are in a difficult situation, when you are helpless, when you are facing despair, maybe the leaf that fell from the sky is enough to defeat our last mental defense!
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Many times, we choose to fear, choose to give up doing one thing, choose to escape some difficulties! In many cases, it is only the fear in our hearts that defeats us-not self-confidence!
People who are not confident tend to be hesitating about their judgments. Of course, I am an unconfident person myself. The main purpose of writing this article today is to help everyone, including myself, overcome the fear in my heart and let myself take the first step bravely!
From a psychological analysis, a person who is not confident tends to be at the two extremes of his evaluation, extremely complacent and extremely suspicious!
Just like people on the edge of a cliff, maybe a thin leaf will defeat our last defense!
Defense, this is the way people who are not confident usually think of. In fact, how we bravely participate in some discussions, the question will become very interesting!
Self-regulation
In life, there are certain things that always make us involuntarily speaking and doing things against our hearts. But more sunshine and smiles in life!
Be kind to ourselves, why do we always punish ourselves with the mistakes of others?
When we are sad, we can talk on the phone with our loved ones, because even if the world has abandoned you, there are still people who care about you!
No one can always go smoothly and grow up against the wind, so that we can truly spread our wings. This world is full of challenges and unknown factors. Adjust your state!
Learn to communicate
Learning more is not a bad thing! Learning more knowledge can distract some of our negative emotions! Don't waste time and your limited energy! Because we have no time to waste on trivial things! Similarly, there are still some differences between people, and everyone has their own strengths. Don't mistakenly think that you are not good enough. Communicate more with others, and there will be a big difference! Ask for directions and never get lost!
Use the power of others to achieve our goals, this is communication!
Refuse chicken soup
Excessive encouragement is actually a poison! The ups and downs are an indispensable part of life. Do what you should do. Don't change yourself through the inspirational life of great winners. Because we are ordinary!
Every one of us is ordinary, don't believe what those successful people say! Because of their life experience, we can't understand it. We can't achieve their goals in life! What we can do is just hope that we can have time to take a break every day, and then continue to work! The success of others is not suitable for us. As long as we live to the fullest every day is a victory!
trust yourself
Be your own master!
Difficulties will never be less. What defeats us is not self-confidence. Give yourself a chance and stand up bravely even if you fall! You are not a coward, you are yourself! Be your own master~
Yes, our destiny is always in our own hands. No one can make a decision for us! Believe in yourself and let yourself try to do things that seem impossible! Let yourself learn to grow~
Time will tell us the answer, believe in yourself, if you give, you will succeed!