"This world lacks loyal love. People are keen to pursue external things, such as money, houses, cars, and status. But they ignore the internal characteristics of people. Everything external is a kind of vain. The value of the final deposit It must be loyalty to others, to spouse and family."
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Loyal love is getting less and less,
But many people are willing to sacrifice for it
We all want to remain loyal, we all want to have the qualities of loyalty, but loyalty is not a temporary rise. It is a process that requires continuous effort. It takes time to practice and train. But there is no financial reward for spending time like this.
What he gives is a sense of loyalty. We do not need to show loyalty to others, because people are unreliable. We should remain loyal to the trait of loyalty itself. When we cultivate this loyalty for a long time, we can still control ourselves even in the face of temptation.
And continue to do justice. Even if it seems we are at a disadvantage. But we still think that our loyalty is more valuable than suffering. Even though many people say that we are fools, we know that loyalty itself is actually very valuable. It has eternal value.
Love is easy, but love must be sustained. Continue to give, regardless of your own gains or losses, give willingly, even if sometimes you will lose a lot, but you are still willing to suffer for justice. This is the most valuable thing. Even though you can do everything in life, not everything is beneficial.
We have done what we have a clear conscience, and this thing itself is the most valuable. People gather in groups and things are divided into groups. We must happily stick to justice with like-minded people. To help others, as long as you can do it yourself, you must do your best to do good. Is valuable.
There is no need to integrate into a group that does not match oneself. In fact, we are ultimately one person. We are responsible for our own burdens. We must independently face all the problems that only we encounter.
Since we are responsible for our own affairs, we should not talk about the loyalty in this world. The question we have to answer is how is our own loyalty. Others have nothing to do with us, our own is the key.
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Being loyal is not profitable,
But it is very valuable
We all know that loyalty cannot make money, but it prevents us from doing a lot. Sometimes, we also feel that we are fools, or envy others who can do whatever they want. In order to maintain our loyalty, even our close people say that this is worthless.
However, we know that this is not the case. True loyalty to a spouse is not a matter of two days a day, nor is it about resisting temptations once or twice, but for a long time. When the beautiful opposite sex is interested in herself, or when the gentle and golden handsome guy is interesting to the woman.
At this time, of course we have to maintain loyalty to our spouse, and reduce contact with each other if we can reduce it. If it is impossible to reduce it, such as in a unit where we have to meet at work, how about resigning?
Men and women shouldn’t say how pure they are. Of course there are pure relationships, but shouldn’t we give our spouses the purest relationship? Although we were loyal, we were betrayed and cast aside by our spouse. What does it matter? As an innocent party, we can choose to leave with a clear conscience.
There is less and less loyalty in this world. In fact, sometimes the husband and wife can't solve the problems encountered by each other, but their relationship is relatively recent. But in fact, we still have independence. In terms of people, we still have to rely on ourselves. Therefore, what does the other party's unfaithfulness have to do with us, and what does he have to do with us?
Many years of feelings have been sacrificed. Isn't life like this? With ups and downs, can't we still help others? Once we really fell in love, he also walked deep into our hearts. But suffering is just an experience. Our pain is painful because of loyalty, not because of evil, is it?
Feeling injured is of no value. Time will tell us that our loyalty is what we want to pursue. Do we really love each other? In fact, we love the justice and loyalty of the other party. If the other party does not have justice and loyalty, what value does he have in our eyes?
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In fact, there are many loyal people in this world,
What we have to do is to become one of them.
Does staying loyal must not be hurt? No one has ever said that. We will be injured, but even if we are injured, we must pursue justice. Isn't this part of our faith? The value of our lives is not purely for spouses, we are also because of justice and purity.
Don't worry, although infidelity is everywhere, the loyal group is also a huge number. We must strive to remain loyal, and one day we will find such a group. We should think about pure things, don't worry, and do our best in all aspects of life.
Then, give the result to heaven. Man proposes, God disposes. We did our best, but in the end we still didn't give us the results according to our ideas. What does it matter? In fact, most things in life will not happen according to our thoughts.
We do it wholeheartedly. Also accept any results obtained. And joy is enough. This is the way most people have been thinking for a long time. Most people do this. Think so too. We must do our best, do it joyfully, and accept any results. This is life, isn't it?
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If true love, continuous love,
Will remain loyal
We are improving every day. Both husband and wife need to make progress. If the husband and wife are willing to continue to pay for loving each other, including taking care of the wife's material and emotional needs, the wife also respects her husband. It will be easier to maintain loyalty.
Maintaining loyalty to the other party cannot be overemphasized. As a wife, one must not not grow up for the sake of the family. Although not growing up, the husband must be loyal to his wife. This is basic. But if the wife keeps growing up by herself, the husband is more willing and easier to remain loyal.
The same goes for the wife. Therefore, any non-self-growth is an excuse. Loyalty is very important, especially in this evil, complex and good world. Any act of abandoning a wife he married in his youth should be condemned.
If the wife or husband is not fornication, the husband has no reason to abandon his wife. Instead, you should cherish your elderly wife more. Life is never a natural way to live well. What everyone knows is that every one of us, including men and women, has to sweat to get food.
In the adult world, only by constantly giving, working hard for others, for oneself, and for continuous learning, will one's life be maintained at a high level of balance. If you don't do it for a day, you don't work hard, and you get worse and worse. Continuous giving is part of faith.
Loyalty is valuable, a very precious value.