"No matter how poor you are, you can't have poor education." This concept has long been deeply rooted in people's hearts. With the vicious circle of involution, parents can’t wait to embark on the road of education from pregnancy: from prenatal education, early education to cultivating talents, selecting schools, arranging various competitions, winning various awards... We have spent countless energy and financial resources, working desperately and deliberatingly, just to win a place in the mainstream of a "good education" for children, but we rarely have time to stop and think about "education" itself.
Education is a profound knowledge, and generations of educators from ancient times to the present have never stopped exploring; education is a simple matter, as simple as a picture or a sentence, it can inspire people and even influence them. lifetime.
张乐平：生活就是教育
Remember Sanmao? The little Sanmao wandering in Shanghai has a miserable life, but he is clever and optimistic. From the perspective of Xiao Sanmao's life, Zhang Leping showed us that specific history. Zhang Leping, the father of San Mao, not only created the classic image of San Mao, but he is also very good at observing children.
Children's games and life are both ways to explore the world. They didn't know the structure of the trees, and they didn't necessarily understand why they couldn't scribble, but when his mother bandaged his wounds, he naturally understood the meaning of "love".
"You should..." "No..." Educating children is always indispensable. But how much and how long can the child remember? If what we do in life is seen by children, it is more profound than preaching and books.
Hold a watermelon and eat a cold drink, and then come with a bowl of cold water after eating...Whose doll is carrying the parents again? Everyone has heard the truth in books, until they taste the "bitter fruit", it will become their own experience.
Arguing, arguing, or even fighting, in the eyes of adults must be "bad boy" behavior. Wait a minute, let's switch to a child's perspective! Who said that games are not learning? Don't pretend to intervene from an adult's perspective, the children will be able to explore ways of getting along on their own.
CureJoy漫画：孩子身上的“问题”，背后都有原因
No matter how good a child is, there are more or less "problems" in the eyes of their parents. A series of cartoons from CureJoy, a foreign website, sharply pointed out the reasons behind several "problems".
If your child always disturbs you on purpose, it is actually because you lack physical contact with him and lack intimacy.
If your child lied, it actually means that you have overreacted to his mistakes.
If your children lack self-confidence, it is because you give them more advice than encouragement.
If your children are always mysterious and don't tell you anything, it is because you always love to hit them.
这些漫画，看起来轻松有趣，却能让父母心里沉甸甸的。