1. Lucky is another kind of strength
Everyone says that C is the luckiest woman among friends-"lucky" is a complicated emotional word, with admiration and envy on one side, and on the other side, a little bit of defamation that the strength is not enough to unexpectedly win.
In particular, C's appearance is not good, and his inertial thinking is: luck is the exclusive of beautiful women.
However, she did develop smoothly, from a basic clerk to a deputy general manager; married to an enviable husband, tall, handsome, and rich, she used to be a customer of Company C, surrounded by many women, but in the end she chose not to Prominent C; she also has a few good friends, and the mention of the name makes people shine.
C's gains seem to far surpass her strength and devotion. Therefore, when people talk about her luck, there is also a little prying and curiosity: What is her for such good luck?
Friends for many years, I particularly understand why C is lucky.
One day many years ago, I went to C office to find her after work to get off work out together. After catching up with her, the boss was also waiting for the elevator. Looking at the back of the boss from a distance, I asked her: Should I go later or change the stairs? Is it uncomfortable to be on the same ladder with the boss?
C said: Why not go to the elevator with the boss?
So we both took the gym bag and the boss to the first floor at the same time.
C Luoluo generously took the initiative to talk with the boss, without the formality and tweaking of ordinary employees, and even popularized a few fitness knowledge. By the way, he also talked about a few delicious restaurants nearby and revealed that one of them was a gathering place for an important customer. Parting, the boss kindly bid us farewell.
However, I did not expect that the boss in the elevator would later become C's nobleman, giving her a key opportunity for improvement.
Many people think that the nobles in their lives are arranged by a grand ceremony, standing in the spotlight and waiting affectionately, but the reality is that they may be in an inconspicuous corner, in an inadvertent segment, and they have been observing and looking at them for many months. You, think about maturity to extend your golden finger.
Therefore, the so-called lucky people are particularly good at grasping fleeting opportunities.
Before C gets married, I accompany her to buy wedding shoes.
I know she married a particularly sought-after man, and jokingly asked her if she was nervous. She did not show the excitement of marrying Gao Shuaifu, happy but also calmly said:
Loving him and treating him well is what happened when I tried to create opportunities while living a good life. However, I did not regard marrying him as the ultimate goal in life.
I have the ability to settle myself down. He also knows that we will have a better future together. It is 1+1>2. Our feelings and life are also in harmony. He is lucky to marry me.
What is luck? Lucky people know exactly where their cards are, but others can’t see them.
2. Talent and insight are forced out
More than 2000 years ago, there was a particularly lucky ugly girl named Zhong Wuyan.
How ugly is she? The mortar head has deep eyes, long fingers and big knots, less fat, skin like lacquer, and sound like a night owl, which makes people daunting. Over forty years old, not only can't we get married, but they are also displaced.
Forty years old, when he was a grandmother in ancient times, the humor of the history books may be to portray a frighteningly ugly woman and comfort other women. You see, she can do it, why can't you do it?
The ugly and unsalted one can only stand out by outstanding cleverness.
She plucked up the courage and ran to Linzi, the capital of Qi State, and asked to see King Qi Xuan, who wanted to serve the country. King Qi Xuan laughed and asked her what she was capable of. She said solemnly: Your lord, you are too dangerous.
Then Wuyan developed a set of performance art, raising his eyes, gnashing his teeth, waving his hands and touching his knees.
Everyone was stunned and asked what it meant. Wuyan said: Look up and look around the beacon, Qin soldiers will soon leave Hangu Pass; gritted teeth is to remind the king not to block the way for his officials to persuade him; wave is to persuade the king to remove the traitor The knee is to advise the king not to build luxurious buildings. How can Qi be strong without foresight.
Men admire women who help his career most.
A woman admires the man who gives her love most.
King Qi Xuan realized Wuyan's help to him and actually married a famous ugly woman. Under her suggestion, he worked hard to rule out the situation and appointed Tian Ji, Sun Bin and other generals. Qi became the strongest country and Linzi became the cultural center during the Warring States Period.
Thus, Wuyan became the luckiest woman in the history books.
However, through the smoke and dust of history, you may be able to see countless ordinary girls who seem to have no ambitions, but are most willing to spend time and energy to do things.
Other women show off to fall in love, she is not in a hurry, so she studies hard; other women marry and have children, she is not anxious, and continue to work hard; other women wonder how to attract and lock men, she will not be disturbed and used Men spend their time on themselves, and their talents and insights increase day by day.
Fortunately, it is sometimes saved.
Talent and insight are sometimes forced out.
Accumulated to a certain extent, these ordinary girls broke out. They not only won the life they wanted, but also won the ideal marriage, friendship and career. However, most people only saw their shining fortune in an instant, and could not remember the hard work and work behind them. adhere to.
3. They don’t compromise and win
Many senior goddesses have a good destination in the eyes of the public only when they are quite old. 40-year-old Shu Qi married a good friend Feng Delun, Liu Ruoying became a mother at the age of 45, and the 59-year-old American supermodel Jerry Hall who married Murdoch.
Huang Tongtong once said, why do those good girls who are regarded as "leftover women" end up marrying gods? Even the girls who are so late in their lives that they make friends and relatives feel that they owe them a boyfriend, many of them have married young talents.
It looks like a good fate, but they deserve it. They didn't compromise like many people and dared to play a game with fate. In the end, they won.
Career and love are the same, just like the 51-year-old magic godmother J. K. Rowling can become "the most successful children's literature writer of all time" after writing the "Harry Potter" series, from a tenant who can't afford a rent of £600 to a woman richer than the Queen of England.
So, who is lucky?
Those beautiful things belong to you in the first place. The difference lies in whether you dare to overcome obstacles and be afraid of encountering dragons; whether you are willing to look around and look back when you hit the south wall; whether you can know yourself and the enemy, understand your bottom line and advantages; whether you can Endure loneliness and stay away from customs that don't suit you.
I always remember that on the day when I chose wedding shoes with C, she put on her shoes and stood up, smiling and saying: I am not lucky, I just dare to fight for what I deserve.
I think she is telling the truth.
The girl who dares to fight for what she deserves will live well.
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