These issues only take about 45 minutes to discuss-almost always make two people feel better with each other and hope to see each other again. They can be used to ask questions during a date, or they can be used to deepen relationships with familiar friends, family, and even long-term partners.
Arthur Allen’s "36 Questions" tells everyone:
Here are 36 questions, in order:
- If you could choose anyone in the world to have dinner with you, who would you choose?
- Do you want to be famous? In what way do you hope to become famous?
- Before calling, do you rehearse what you are about to say? why?
- What does a "perfect" day look like for you?
5. When was the last time a person sang? When is it with others? - If you could live to be 90 years old and retain the spirit or body of a 30-year-old person for the last 60 years of your life, which one would you choose?
- Can you predict in your heart when you will die?
- Name 3 common features that you and the other person have in appearance.
- What things in life make you grateful?
- If you could change your growth trajectory, what would you like to change?
- Tell the other person your life story in as much detail as possible in 4 minutes.
- If you wake up tomorrow you can acquire a quality or an ability, what do you hope is?
- If a crystal ball could reveal to you the truth about yourself, your life, your future, or anything else, what would you like to know?
- Have you always dreamed of doing things? Why not do it?
- What is the greatest achievement in your life?
- What do you value most in a friendship?
- What is the most precious thing in precious?
- What is the scariest thing in memory?
- If you knew that you would suddenly pass away in a year, would you change your current lifestyle? why?
- What do friends mean to you?
- What role do love and affection play in your life?
- List each other's good side one by one, and list 5 in total.
- Are your family members close to each other? Is the atmosphere warm? Do you think your childhood is happier than most people?
- How is your relationship with your mother?
- Use "we" to group 3 sentences based on the existing scene, for example, we all feel in this room...
- Complete this sentence: "I hope someone can share with me..."
- If you want to be close friends with the other person, please list the things that are most important to him/her.
- Tell the other person what you like about him/her. This time you have to be very sincere and say something that you would not normally say to someone you just met.
- Share the most embarrassing moment in life with each other.
- When was the last time you cried in front of others? Are you crying inexplicably?
- Tell the person that you have liked him/her for a long time.
- Is there anything that you think is very serious and cannot be joking?
- If you are going to pass away tonight and have no chance to communicate with anyone, who do you regret for not confessing to? Why haven't you said what you want to say to this person up to now?
34. Your house is on fire and all your property is inside. After rescuing your loved ones and pets, if you still have time to try one last time and save any item safely, what would you choose? why? - If a family member dies, whose departure do you think makes you panic the most? why?
- Say a personal question and ask the other person's opinions on how to deal with it, and let the other person give you feedback on your attitude toward the issue.