Not justified, but unwilling to do it, don't want to do it.
Often justified, it is a shorthand for always finding reasons for problems.
The problem is that there are basically two types of basic expressions
1) Self-awakening type. "This thing is mainly because I didn't think comprehensively ..."
2) Blame it on his type. "It's all because of the problem ..."; "This doesn't blame me, it's just because ..."
Of course, you can also add a combination, a combination of 1) and 2): both reflect on their own shortcomings, Also check the surrounding factors that affect things.
It is often reasonable to refer to item 2): "Sin" is not in yourself, and problems occur for a reason.
Why look for "reason"?
1) Find the cause of the problem
2) Let yourself get rid of the problem, mainly prove that the problem is not caused by "me", not "me" like this
It is often reasonable and human's natural sentiment: people's selfish desires always tend to benefit and avoid harm; people are eager for success and afraid of failure; people always hope to win before others, but it is difficult to accept the loss of face before others.
Can understand, but dare not easily accept.
There are some truths that cannot be explained clearly or accepted after being spoken. In addition to experience, it takes time to settle, which is an insurmountable process.
People often say that forty is not confused, which means that at this age, many things have been experienced and many things have been figured out, and they will not be confused like young people.
Although the time cannot be exceeded, I still hope to understand earlier:
You do n’t need a reason to do things. Just do your best. You do n’t need a reason. You understand your roles and responsibilities, and you just need to take your responsibility.
