In Internet companies spent ten years, along the way, is stumbling, encountered many difficulties, but fortunately are all along. Inside these difficulties, some of which are caused by objective circumstances, some are self-inflicted.
During the epidemic, you can not go out. I stay at home, involuntarily, always deep in thought. Some days I'm thinking about the pros and cons lesson of this decade, summarized the help of a few young readers, for everyone to share.
1. In a team, will eventually reach the heights, with the start-up team members if you have a great relationship.
In today's workplace, this is the truth of things, but a lot of people have not see through, but also until some time ago, with the co-founder of a company's chat, was he gave away.
A member of a start-up team, he pre-pay, risk taking, as business grew up ability and vision, are irreplaceable, as long as their own do not make mistakes, he basically is the team first.
This point brings us inspiration:
a. This point was not unfair, different each person's luck, encounter is your life, never met, complaining is useless, it will only make ourselves into a tangle.
b. There are new opportunities to try to grasp, the opportunity missed, is less effective.
c. To dare to jump out of your comfort zone, a young man not to fight, fight back will not move.
- To make early career direction is determined to switch the track, most of the run does not win on the same track has been run.
Each industry, talent is composed of a pyramid structure, standing on top of the pyramid people, talented, there are efforts to have the opportunity.
Business, need more opportunities and luck, but the company office, more to come from the accumulation.
It turns out that every time you switch the track, will bring great losses, unless you've done to lose one or two years of preparation, do not easily switch.
- Effort and choose which is more important?
In fact, it is difficult to measure, different times, different circumstances, there will be a completely different measure, like stocks, in fact, does not require the pursuit of the perfect decisions, but be careful to make decisions.
Ten years later, you look back, every decision as long as you avoid the obvious pit, basically there will not be a big problem. Just a lot of people, knowing pit, also jumped into the pit, this is human nature. Or because of short-term temptations; or because it is too easy to pursue; or simply because you want to obey their parents.
Need to know that everyone is not God, can not predict the future of things, for the decision, as long as possible to avoid the obvious pit, you can develop better than a lot of people. Because there are a lot of people have been doing obviously the wrong choice.
- Ideal life exist only in the dreams of the future!
Who is a magical animal. One can easily adapt to the extremely difficult circumstances, but in turn, it is very easy to adapt to extreme comfortable environment.
Most people envisaged: no job, living a leisurely life every day; with backpacking, perception of life and so on, in fact, will be too tired. Like many people imagine, with the one million, it is necessary how, how; what would have 5 million, how; with 10 million, life is how, how.
In fact, not how to improve the material life brings, you will quickly be adapted to finish, you should some pressure, worry, pain, basic will not improve the material life disappear.
You can bring change is: thinking mature, the stable state of mind. The experience from the difficult, thinking deep, rich reading. These, nothing to do with money, but also about your heart. Therefore, the only concern is to enhance the material life, you can never get peace and stability!
Of course, money is important, but we can not just money!
The young man, if the ideal is difficult to achieve, on the choice of money, so middle-aged, two empty, there is no ideal, no money.
This little chicken soup the poison. The reality is, most people can not realize their ideals in his youth, of course, the vast majority of people, life did not realize their ideals.
Young, too persistent pursuit of his ideals, if realized early that naturally perfect thing.
However, if after decades of efforts, still can not see a glimmer of hope, then you most likely in your middle age into depression. You will find that you have neither ideal, nor money, but your family still living in poverty with you too.
The kind of self-blame and pressure, sometimes become overwhelmed by personal last straw.
6 With the growth of age, you will find that they can do more and more narrow range of choice.
Young, you can say to a travel stay away; work in a bad mood, they can leave Cleveland, even for a city; that industry is not for you, you can go to PubMed, the civil service exam, or even choose to go abroad.
But when you grow age, marry and have children later, you will find that a young man can easily make choices, have become extremely difficult and costly.
Family to tie him down, you are less likely to travel a say stay away; change jobs, change the city, but also to all kinds of trade-offs, family and career, can not be reconciled; you get to be 35 years old, the civil service, Do not you graduate.
Eventually, you will find, in addition to continue to endure the present day, you almost could not move.
So take time to cherish the young, but also make future plans as soon as possible.
One day, you're caught in this situation, I try to recall my article, may bring a trace of comfort to you.
Of course, you have to accept it, this is life!
At last
More than a few insights, all my life wade rivers come, although not what stunning truths, but real, fit with the lives of ordinary people hope that they can bring you points and guidelines inspired!
Throughout the ages, so many books, the truth of life, has long been said to do! But life is like Xiaomaguohe, listen to the truth is the only true wading others, to know the depth of the river.
