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"We did not catch up on the road like Station husband away, but as travelers like to watch along the way. Our hearts do not just think of a start and end point, but also think of lag between the start and end of the distance. For us, travel itself is a pleasure. "
- Rousseau
I have such a phenomenon: to see other people's good, even if it is not broken down their own areas of focus, there will be a less sense of confidence, saying the real thing, but it is still self-esteem. Why not let other people's good that they have incentive to do a good job, but it is a heavy blow yourself. Such an attitude is not healthy, it will make themselves think of their own lose value, no one wants to please himself to work out. In fact, returned to the issue of missing their own values, professional values embodied in an important way, is also an important personal survival pathways. Therefore, concerns about their own values, as concerns about their survival, like, and therefore better understand why he would be triggered fear. This fear sometimes even have to seriously affect their level of endocrine disorders, will instinctively make some pointless struggle.
Of course, the extent of the impact of this phenomenon has now not that deep, the pressure throughout the complete life of the family in reducing year after year, the there is a degree of preparation. But also produce this reason as well to let yourself see the short board on their own ideas, not because I felt it gradually reduce the pressure will slowly disappear, this is an illusion. Reorganizing the rare opportunity of self so good, how can you just let go of it.
From the most threatened their survival Let's talk about it, to be well off the country this year, I really have no reason to convince myself will be no food or nothing to wear, and raised a small family can not do, then I'm living what meaning it. So, definitely not survive this source of fear. Come talk to other bars, since it is not survival, it can be what it is. Once again, I asked the question myself, what exactly afraid? I am thinking of losing everything right now. Further in-depth analysis, family members are also Kin Kin of Kang, afraid. Their own efforts to win back all the material such as a house? Of course, if you ask me in front of people and things, which is important? Certainly people. But people have called loss aversion psychological problems, it may be affecting their own. After all strive for something back then, and certainly do not want to lose it, which I can understand, after all, a few years ago is also pressure from this. But I can guarantee that even if I lose, I will re-fight the same, even if it is really older, my heart will always be in this. When I got it, I will be very comforting, but in trying to fight this process also makes me regret.