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Beginning 2020, it has been two months, and that means the end of the two Round own life. No one told me, 25-year-old should look like. Now own, use your brain to think seriously only learn, gradually look at yourself, what want. Clear, but also confused.
Looking back on the past, on many aspects of life, with different thinking.
Your choice, often what you want, what you want, will come at the right time
The first semester of senior year, we were four or five friends when school recruit to sign with a company in Suzhou. The eve of graduation, my dorm buddy meditate, or do not want to go to that company in Suzhou, and most of the reason is that that company may develop bad, would later have a great influence on career planning it. Additional A (male) and B (female) two of them went to the house of the Suzhou company, in time to go to work after one year's, A, and we'll come back with a drink and chat, he had a girlfriend, but also in home city bought a house in the middle we have long considered buying a house, a year after graduation. He said he was ready to come back here again in development work there for some time, and he wanted their parents to take care of their parents. The current situation is as we expected, the Suzhou company that does not do the four of us beginning to prepare the work, he did not much interest, but also a lot of pressure, but he did not say to He resigned from the mean. I think the reason is that a large part of his girlfriend because he was still there, he chose to love it. B we have not talked about after graduation, but I know her boyfriend worked in there a long time ago, the two of us left on the university city.
The very beginning of discussions over the four of us together after graduation we want to do, and very consistent. Later Until now, we have a different way to go, and that we have a great first set is not the same. I gradually came to understand that a person does any choice, they are what they want most. Dream is important, but compared with his girlfriend and parents, A chose the latter, he can certainly come back after the discovery of what the company is not good with us, but if that's the case, he did not dare to guarantee that he came back and his girlfriend can long distance relationship. Many people will confidently say that human life should be as pretty wonderful to live, but who says that in small cities had at ease and stability, and children accompanied by parents, an extraordinary day will certainly not make sense of it?
Life already has a lot of looks, no one qualified to judge who's better, who's almost, not everyone is ideal and alive, not everyone sought to get certain things in the distance. We all have our choice, should be satisfied with the most realistic expectations, it must be you most want. In fact, often not the most difficult choice, but if you really know what your heart really wants to belong to something that is?
I have tangled, why the life you want has been reluctant to come.
Now, I finally understand that just because before, I have never made any effort for their dreams. Everyone has wanted to do something, you want to realize their dreams, but a lot of people like me, just try to think about nothing, if really determined to reach a goal, I firmly believe that after the hard work and sweat, there will be we want something waiting for us. You want, we will be in the next day, coming at the right time.
Do you think a waste of time, but must pay the costs of trial and error
For a long period of time, I feel that their life is meaningless, in addition to busy work, most of the time in aimlessly microblogging brush, brush watercress, browse on the game (League) the news put a lot of time wasted in a variety of entertainment news. A long time, feeling every day the work is meaningless, the people are in a state of emptiness inside. Face and work colleagues, the people mental state is not good, feeling very uncomfortable look. During that time, there is no very clear pursuit of life goals, not to mention a very clear career planning. Coupled with that time, long hours, and no energy to think about anything else, just think in addition to this you can support their work, nothing can be done. In addition to working, what else to do, you want to do?
In the later period of time, began to have a serious task to complete the work of the target, and the task is urgent, urgent reminder of the leaders, after work every day, first thing to be done is to list one by one, then a complete re-entry, written after work the next day ready to do something and the day of the completion of the task (there is a suggestion leadership). This state continues for some time, obviously have to work feeling relaxed a little, not in the restless, busy state continue to work. Step gradually develop the habit of accumulating things, will do everything are recorded, in order to leak filled, work is also a lot less errors. The state is working a lot better, and actively communicate with colleagues, some of the work in a good way to learn from them. Of course, more important is to learn the problem of how to deal with methodical work and life, to develop a positive attitude to face everything. Slowly also have time to think about what to do that, what kind of life the pursuit and what kind of career planning.
Not everyone is able to find what you want to work and things at the beginning. Not everyone, just in time to leave campus can tell their future career plans and the way you want to be. I envy those who have long targeted early and wise efforts of people, their lives always look glamorous. And so most people will have some time to make their own unexamined precipitation, then gradually understand and pursue their goals in life. When he look back period of anemic seem bleak time, why you might regret it in vain discard the good times.
However, I want to say is no period of time is wasted on you. There are many like me, he came from an extraordinary ordinary people around us not as a wise elder, teachers and friends can give us good advice and guidance at the right time. In fact, ah, every step of life takes time to trial and error, we need to constantly fought before they can find their own path in life. Do you think that wasted time, but we need to pay the cost of trial and error, and in the face of the low starting point and no resources, we can do it, it was only the patience of the moment thing to do, to think for themselves to sell to stay and trial and error time, after a time of frustration there really is their own transformation.
Young people, do not sell miserable, strong heart in order to meet their own sparkling
Just graduated, had experienced a difficult WTO considered it, they have a great meet. At any time before their studies are not feel so sad, it is inevitable that a variety of Tucao and complain. Some time after graduation, leaving only their own group inside a few colleagues on-site support line project, so everyone has a lot of tasks to complete, stand-alone responsible for a module, appear before their own time to take over the task even more difficult than the . Those Tucao only to rise and complain, Tucao leaders do not understand, blame their own incompetence, more anger and urged Party. Very late or work overtime every day to sleep late at night is going to be made about negative energy and dynamic circle of friends, write their own pain and tough.
Finally one day, a friend asked me, those things your circle of friends made of, what good is it?
I am a little ignorant forced to say: I never thought about what benefits I just Tucao it ......
He told me: If I am your leader, you see the show overtime, the sun will not feel hard and you may work hard, but would not you think it is lack of capacity, it takes so long to do, but also tired to death to live, but also consider the future of the time play an important complex task if you can bear the. Always very careful to tell others that he is difficult, but also spent a lot of time, more often than not how to prove his efforts, just simply want to Tucao about it.
Later this thing by finally think clearly a lot of things. Who in this world it is really easy to live? Those who face glamorous, talented, outstanding ability behind them and what unknown experience? In fact, everyone, they go to any city, with all the expectations and ambitions come slowly, met setbacks, difficulties and not to be understood in this process, all encountered are a matter of course, but an adult needs do is, each responsible for their own choice. Those who promote their hard all day, others are cold-blooded and troubled world injustice, self-pity, stagnation, only to be abandoned by people far behind. The world is too utilitarian, we are busy, no one wants to bear your crowd, they only care about what results you get after those efforts.
Life ah, not a test, there is no standard answer, whatever the reason for our profession, and in what capacity, what status in life, has to be respected. In fact, as long as we respect their hair heart, listen carefully to the sound emitted by the heart, know who know what they want, know how to select the desired lakes, know how to achieve the ideal, enough.
The coming days, I want freedom to do their own, a courage to do, adhere to any kind of life they want to own hard work, I can leaning for their own choices, embrace that brought about their choice of any consequence.
Obviously you want, give people what you
Once on the way home from work to buy food along the way to buy a lot of vegetables, ready to cook a good solution to hunger and not liking coming home when the tomatoes did not forget to buy, ready to buy on the stalls downstairs , walked over to mention two hands are full of plastic bags, as well as noodles and tofu, not easy on the ground of his own choosing, you want to help an uncle next (uncle dress and another uncle next to no money What is the difference), "uncle, you help me install a few tomatoes, and I give you sweep micro letter." Uncle looked very surprised, like me, then picked up a plastic bag for three or four tomatoes placed on the scale, slide down and took out his cell phone, two-dimensional code sweep the ground, ready to leave pay, and a surprised look at me, I did not react this time, people also uncle to buy food, and is not selling vegetables uncle. Finally angrily home, anyway, I am that met a very angry people and things, an afternoon meal eaten is naturally good, like a long time. Can think of for a long time, suddenly I have an idea burst out.
Many people are looking for others to help, that they will have such a mentality, "I really need your help, so you should help me; I am weak, you should help me ......" if you I refused, then it is your selfishness, indifference, would you labeled a "bad guy" label, but how can others help How about you?
I was very reluctant to ask others to help a person, most of the time feel that they can solve just try to solve, and if it can not be resolved will find someone to help. After that thing thinking it is a lot, but also want to understand the truth, that is, in such a society, people can give you a hand, be mutual affection, no help to you or you choose not to help is part, and I did not need to because it's something to disgust and cynicism. Of course, we are looking for others to help, it also should pay attention to several points: 1, to find someone to help sincere attitude; 2, to consider whether the other party convenient; 3, the right to express their gratitude.
When you want, you should think of ways to get others to give you what.
Although I do not know to where the future is, he knows - the real "love", when you're lonely extreme, still grateful to the world, when you have nothing, then any of the heavens and the earth feel good side
The recent period of time, lead to novel coronavirus pneumonia epidemic, people across the country are actively coping. Careful users in Hangzhou eligible to donate supplies detailed list of Red Cross published, found not a strange name - Lin Shengbin, donated masks 5000, a total of 90,000. The news quickly boarded Weibo trending, sparked heated debate. Perhaps many people are not remember who he is, but mention "Hangzhou nanny arson" and you'll suddenly realize that he is a victim, a father of three. When interviewed by reporters, he said: no, this is what all the people concerned, I'm still gathering, and today they received 1000, send out tomorrow, this thing every Chinese people to see, I think they will be out a force.
When a lot of good people in this world, but you be the fate of injustice, still choose to love its people are few, he is such a person. If there is time the pause button, Lin Shengbin will choose the day before stopped at the fire, then he should be the world's happiest people. After the fire back to the Lin Shengbin piercing exalted in the child's photograph to seek justice, seven-foot man cry, the smell of all those tears, pain to the world but also the case.
And the contributions of 5000 also masks in one of his many public, after a painful, heart-warming support he thanked friends online, friends said: we should thank you is, you let the world see the so-called after being shredded life strong and powerful, your kindness make the world bloom, thank you.
Sometimes, I think, some people are always gathering strength in solitude, to get through the hard times for some unknown, then just as the train pulled out of the tunnel, blowing warm and bright all of a sudden, you will find, the original world can be so pleasant. Live in the moment, in the face of life bit by bit, I hope to have more patience, a little more courage, be strong to face, the same time, also remind ourselves, often venting heart, let the spiritual purification, bent goodness.
"Snail slow," Lane said: "I do not know to where the future is, he knows - the real" love ", when you're lonely extreme, still grateful to the world, when you have nothing, either However, for all things feel good side. "
Come on, it does not matter, will pass
Ma Dong had "wonderful saying," Lane said: Over time, we will eventually forgive those who hurt us. But Kevin Tsai words made me more recognition, "That's not to forgive, forget that. I do not bear grudges, not I do not care, do not forget my all, my heart aches whenever, unbearable, I just could you tell yourself, forget it. "
In a lot of time, I know life is hard everywhere, but I have never felt "Well," the word is a pity. I often told myself, you have grown up in the face of life's little, you should not try to escape. Those had to add classes, those who let themselves become numb bad mood, nothing came of the other party being unilaterally feelings ...... only real leap in the past, and to those unwilling, angry and confused emotions shake hands with. Adult world, it is inevitable there are a lot of unhappy difficult to control, if it is difficult, please learn to let go of yourself.
A person's life will always encounter this or that, your heart has been hurried retreat, and in others it seems you're just a little more than usual when a little calm, no one will be surprised. Lives alone, is himself a man of war, in the years after the effort in, say to myself, "okay" it.
Fu Seoul said, " 'will be the last.' Is a good use of the words" ecstasy or depression, loss or proud, laugh or cry, you can say so, because really in the past.
"I have set foot peak, also fell into the trough too, both of which I really appreciate." This is the game "Heroes Union" in a line of life drama teacher (ember) is my favorite one. Yes ah, will be the last, those who have ecstasy or depression, loss or proud, laugh or cry, have become in the past, do not care about all those who are the. In the moment, sense, earnest, too good now already is a great happiness.
Hope in the back days, they can swim in the lake like a big white goose, as silently forward, as they have in the water below of how hard the water, that is their own thing, and unnecessary too tangled, too no need to let others know.
I'm always thinking in the night his life, often confused and their future value, but every time the next day early light of dawn, he found himself once again ignited the enthusiasm efforts. At that moment, I would like to thank myself, I understand those who want to, can only strive to come.
