This is a vexing problem
As the title says, how old kindergarten has always been a topic alive, various groups prowess BB with their own ideas, and made us look ignorant novice Baoma treasure dad to force ah. In the end who to listen to it
I also read a lot of parenting books, and finally come to a premature tips, that is, 80% of the experts, then listen on the line. . . . . Otherwise it would Gaosi own ah
Soil rules-year-old kindergarten
Read many articles, recommendations are basically sent to kindergartens in about 3 years old, and then there are a lot of reasons, uh, what the reasons I'm sorry I forgot. . . . .
In fact, nothing more than that is what parents more to accompany the child self-care ability and so sloppy. Many Baoma treasure dad basically only send their children to kindergarten in about 3 years old. Like my baby in the nursery that she is the youngest, when the park is less than 2 years old. . . . There may be a friend to see here would say too poor. . . . Yes. . . . All people know is a reaction. . . We also suspect that the practice was right, tangled for a long time, but now it seems nothing wrong with our approach, we can say the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages
My views on the old kindergarten
In fact, children in kindergarten how the key is the child's own performance, of course, poor self-care ability is not really suggested. . . . For instance, we saw some children 3 years old will not eat their own, not even the initiative, said the toilet. . . .
After the beginning of the time it was sent to bear a lot of remorse and, at the beginning of the park every time you will cry for a long time, and after a few times slowly stopped crying (while supplies last child must be turned away and left the rest to the teacher regardless cry more powerful, the more your child will be more reluctant to cry, this time must be hard-hearted)
Admission anxiety disorders are asking for trouble
Gradually children adapt to kindergarten, although it is the smallest but the teacher gives high evaluation, we also see the video from the classroom out, children can follow the music teacher to do a good rhythm and the game, you can play hide cat holding a scarf cats and small fish swimming and other games, the class teacher is also gradually moving up, in addition to poor little fitness classes, and the rest did very well.
Children need to have a process of adaptation we do not worry too much, for example, the child may have just overhauled sat blankly and consequently quit, looking very poor, in fact, she was observational learning, and a few days she will learn very fast manifested, never underestimate a child's ability to learn, a hundred times stronger than we adults.
Admission of the many benefits
1、我们常说父母要在小的时候多陪伴，但陪伴不是用时间来衡量的，而是让她感受到快乐。自从送到幼儿园之后她不仅比之前活泼而且很多能力都有明显的进步，有时候甚至教我们玩游戏，她的快乐才是陪伴最重要的
2、语言能力突飞猛进。没上多久你会发现孩子的说话能力瞬间变强，基本上你说什么她都可以一下就学会并重复说，果然环境还是非常重要的啊
3、自理能力也会提升不少，比如可以慢慢的主动表达上厕所以及自己的需求等
4、幼儿园活动和玩具很多，有时候放学了她都不走，还要在幼儿园玩，可见只有小朋友在幼儿园得到满足与诱惑他们才会愿意上。不过确实，自从上了幼儿园孩子可以自己玩了，有时候在家会自己搬着小板凳玩上课的游戏，我们旁边看的特别快乐
5、他们可以接触很多平时接触不到的东西，在我看来这个年龄不需要强迫他们学，而是让他们狠劲的玩，其实在玩的过程中很多东西他们都会学会的，反而你老是让他们学他们可能会反感。所以我每次都会说去幼儿园好好的玩，玩开心就行，其他都不用管。哈哈，是不是好任性。
6、一定要会玩。比如，在上蒙氏数学的时候，孩子是最小的，一般都要3岁及以上才学，但我告诉她你去玩就行，不用学，结果去了之后表现非常好，很多小朋友没有耐心坐不住，学着学着就出来玩，但孩子居然上到了最后，也是非常出人意料啊
还有很多，此处省略N个字
入园的弊端
有益就有弊，我个人觉得主要是几个
1、自理能力差的孩子，我们一定要配合老师逐步培养以及纠正不好的习惯
2、小朋友在一起有些不好的习惯会传染，特别要注意。比如孩子以前跟本不用手抓吃饭，完全都是用勺子，但幼儿园不少大一点的孩子勺子都用不利索啊，老是用手抓着吃，这就会造成影响，搞得孩子现在也学着抓，头疼啊，好习惯就这么被毁了
3、每天都要观察孩子的身体状况，因为年龄太小幼儿园老师也不可能照顾的那么全面，所以必须每天都要检查孩子身体，有问题的一定及时处理，比如红屁屁之类的
好了好了，就这样吧，不能写了，在写就太长了。。。估计大家也看不完，如果有想讨论的可以留言啊，后续可以继续展开聊哦