- excerpt summarizes the contents of most of the Great Master would like to lecture, "Yu Ye women through"
Not long ago, his wife went to "Tan Jing" study class teacher. After she came back, and communicate with me, she said, surprised to find,
In addition to a single class male students, and she was married, the other students are female students, all divorced, and is
Single mother. Now it is easy to see-law conflicts, marital conflicts, contradictions of parenting, divorce, fighting, everywhere in the world
You can see. The family, we all want a good deal with the relationship between husband and wife in the family-law relationships, parent-child relations and realize marriage
A happy, stable family, which is the cornerstone of a happy life.
I also think before marriage bitter, and very difficult. Now I understand the truth, is to go to practice where they are most bitter hardest,
Escape is not really practice. Only deep suffering, understand the suffering, the suffering find a solution, so also have the ability to help
Marriage and family in dire straits.
In my childhood impression of them, home is the most warm and safe haven, loving care of a mother and dad, brothers and sisters noisy
Playfulness. Who wanted me to work in a battlefield, facing a precarious sense of pressure. After returning home, they set up their own small
But the house is another battlefield rage, no warmth and care. Later, I understand. Since there is no light, let self
It has become the sinking of light and love, shining guardian of his family and children.
You are going to heal the marriage? Still troubled marriage?
Marriage, summed up in two, one is the relationship between ignorance karma, karma if the parties are, on US feelings. in case
Is bad pratyaya, every day they are arguing and fighting with each other torture. There is also a move towards marriage awakening of healing, compassion and wisdom to use
The healing power of mutually illuminate each other, although there will be a fight, by constantly running, and ultimately a happy marriage successful.
Women who have wicked thing.
Press "Yu Ye woman was" in the body of the Buddha as a woman has ten evil.
Born woman, had had certain weaknesses:
"Takumi one of the parents is exceedingly difficult to raise."
The first is difficult to raise the girls parents, girls grow up, parents should exercise more heart, fearing the garden path, long worried
Large been cheated, fear of being hurt, parents always worry for girls give birth to all kinds of sorrow. Saying, boys poor support, female
Children eutrophication. Girl you spend a little money, or the girls can easily be cheated others, if the girl was very young, you
Her experience with a variety of scenes, a variety of high-end enjoyment tasted, then she would be useful accomplishment great temperament, it is not easy to be cheated.
Otherwise, people might spend a little money to put cheated her out.
"Both pregnant pregnant sorrow."
The second is pregnant sorrow. When pregnant women, potbellied, action more than a inconvenience, the body often poor performance, it is necessary to endure morning sickness
And tortured body deformation, but also to experience the pain of production. And, according to statistics, most women have had depression during pregnancy, anxiety
And anxiety, serious cases will greatly affect the health and life. This is the second born of a woman, a weak link.
"Parents do not like the three primary"
The third is born when his parents happy. From ancient times, patriarchal, sexist ideas never corpuscles. although
This idea in modern society has improved, but the traditional concept of raising children for old age has been subtly influenced generations of Chinese
People that still exist "joy born son, born daughter glum" phenomenon.
"The four parenting tasteless"
Article IV is more trouble to raise her daughter. The female body is relatively weak, in the growth process, to go through the menstrual period, as vulnerable
Dysmenorrhea, uterine bleeding and other issues torture. Early menstruation Qi explained, may further lead to anemia; menstrual blood cold winter palace push instructions to
Keep warm, eat warm food qi. Coupled with parents often think that girl is not their own people, finally bringing up, go to
Marry another woman, so that "parenting tasteless", not dedicated tending.
"The five who when parents should not leave with the wise"
Article V is the woman to do something inappropriate, parents vulnerable to accusations implicated.
"Six people were everywhere fear"
Women lack self-confidence, fear will always be people everywhere.
"Seven are often married to worry about."
After her parents raised adults, we should be married into someone's home, we must worry for their marriage things, but also worried about their marriage
After living conditions.
"Eight students have parents who parting"
Women have been doomed from birth to leave their parents in the future, he committed sexual. What's more, as if the woman had the jaws of production,
In case of dystocia, mother Jie life in fear, easily parting with their parents.
"Nine who often fear her husband."
Women often because ideology is not independent, financially independent, so fearful, afraid of her husband change of heart, attention and often
Focus entirely on the life of her husband body. All times, because a change of heart, how many joys and sorrows of this world staged.
"Ten were not comfortable."
一方面是说女子在世间生活往往受到很多限制，不如男子那样自由自在；另一方面，女子
往往感情占上风，喜怒哀乐，瞬息万变，身心皆不自在。
讲到这里，可能有人会说：佛陀在2500多年以前说的这个经，现在是不是过时了呢？当今
社会不是提倡男女平等，女性的地位不是已经大大提高了吗？佛陀说女人心中有十恶事，这是
性别歧视，是重男轻女的表现呀。其实情况并非如此，佛陀只是客观地指出了身为女性的薄弱
环节。对于女性来说，这恰恰是修行的起点。只要把上述十恶事反过来，将这些薄弱环节补强，
就能够知道，如何才能幸福到老，真正经营出幸福美满的婚姻。
对未出嫁的女子来说，可以让她们学会带眼识人，不会糊里糊涂地把自己嫁出去；对已经
出嫁的女子来说，则能让他们从优秀走向更优秀，世间、出世间都圆满。所以更深入的来看，
这十大恶事其实也向我们开示了女性获得幸福的十大状态，是女人获得幸福的十大定律。下面，
我们分别来学习这十大定律。