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Unhappy life all likelihood, therefore, we are always dissatisfied and more. People's satisfaction is divided into two, one of their own, one is on the outside. Outside our control, the outside world often makes us promote off guard is unpleasant, when the following classes missed today, the last train, traffic jam at work in the morning, unpleasant inevitably affect those outside of our own dissatisfaction, I was not born life is not good, misfortune whole account, is not inherently not, why so many disappointments?
At this time, people will have feelings of self-pity, self-pity when it comes to this, being able to put myself in the realm of self-isolation unpleasant facts with the outside world, to produce a feeling of grief. Simply put, the facts make bad into inner emotion, without regard to the facts themselves, but to their own feelings and emotions together.
This will allow us to forget the facts themselves, and experience a painful emotions, if this time, you can overcome themselves, to resolve it with the powerful inner strength, then who is to usher in "The Sun Also Rises tomorrow" but some people will be immersed in a depressed mood state, self-pity, unable to extricate themselves.
This is a very dangerous situation, they will worry about people blaming Heaven, will hate themselves, under normal circumstances, a long time in this complex person, not just because of those bad things caused, but they had previously had suffered great mental trauma, prolonged painful experience, these unfortunate thing is just a prelude, they met, they will think before that painful experience, this time, it is easy to fall into a crisis in mind.
Once people experience these circumstances, the right approach is to accept those facts admit, does not exclude not resist, since the past is over, let them past, and say goodbye to the past, to do their own now, do a good job should be done now at hand thing. Go with the flow, as by what is, you can not change the past, it would change now and in the future.
Then someone will say, in such a depressed state that, in the end how to do it? I want to say is that your state this downturn is a "want" results, your attention is to think, should "think" way to convert "to do" way, then you focus on change , you will change the feeling of the moment, and into another kind of feeling, when the downturn interrupted the complex, where you can be in another dimension, thus changing their own
"Do" is the meaning of things, you keep doing things, there is no chance no time to reflect on the experience of those bad emotions. After the boys had lost love, in deep pain, the parents suggested he get a job, he found a job as a programmer, in order to get rid of the pain, he threw himself into the work, not day weekend rest, then, is the boss of her, not only pay, was also promoted to head of the technical department. This true story of the boys is through work to divert attention, to get rid of the pain of lost love success stories, there are many people life is always unhappy, but when they face disappointments, we should firmly believe that there are any problems with a solution of sometimes, that we change my thinking, change one way.
Human life is actually a manifestation of energy, this energy when we are in this kind of way is blocked, you change another way, when our energy is blocked in this time and space and not smooth, you may wish to change a place to start again. Our unhappy uncomfortable all our life energy is not smooth, there is no free flow, we have to do is, find ways to meet people in the right place on time, let us together smoothly.
We have no obligation and no way to make everyone satisfied, but the best thing to their own satisfaction, make yourself happy, while road to happiness, but also our lifelong struggle of course, we must strive to do things, so successful to prove their strength and value . Tamp hard work, we will rarely fall into a crisis in mind, let us be realists, of course, it makes us faster success.